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Old June 9th, 2010, 06:48 PM   #61
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Here's one for y'all

There's a girl I'm reasonably good friends with, and I have pretty strong feelings about her, to me she is pretty much the perfect girl, I couldn't think of one negative about her, she's has similar interests to me, such as in music, and is very friendly and nice so even if I was shot down she wouldn't be too harsh about it

However:

1) she's 3 years older than me
2)I can't just ask her out because she generally doesn't like going for the normal "dating" thing
3)She's been with someone fairly recently who everyone knows to be a complete dick, although when asked a day or 2 ago she said she isn't with him
4)She's moving about an hours distance away in september

Tips?
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Old June 18th, 2010, 01:53 AM   #62
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If i wanna ask someone out i kinda just try and become really close freinds with them and if they dont try and become closer with me i dont ask em out.

Send me a message if ya wanna talk bout anything.
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Old July 13th, 2010, 05:29 AM   #63
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"Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, Love is in the air, every sight and every sound." Try out if the other person loves you the same way as you do. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search. Your identity will only be disclosed if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box- crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3 then click Enter. Let the magic of love begin.
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Old July 13th, 2010, 10:43 AM   #64
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"Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, Love is in the air, every sight and every sound." Try out if the other person loves you the same way as you do. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search. Your identity will only be disclosed if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box- crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3 then click Enter. Let the magic of love begin.
Trouble with that is, wouldn't they pretend they like you back just so they can see who it is? I know I would be very tempted.


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Old July 21st, 2010, 09:13 PM   #65
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I LOVE HER, i dont know how to start relationship, is it good to write "I Love You" on a Paper for her?
Honestly this is a little late.. But being a girl (and also a hopeless romantic) I would find that to be the sweetest, most sensitive, romantic thing a guy could say. You probably already asked her out but just for advice to others...

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Old August 18th, 2010, 09:49 PM   #66
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I find it a whole lot easier if I just ask them
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Old September 8th, 2010, 06:08 AM   #67
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thanks it seems very useful hope it works for a moment I'd forgotten how to go about it as I was away from the dating game a while.
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Old September 9th, 2010, 11:53 AM   #68
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I don't know about other girls, but if someone wants to ask me out he has to be more clever than "maybe we should hook up". I had my fair share of drooling idiots and it's enough. When you're in high school, it's ok, but now I really think that I've matured and I'm looking for something a little more sophisticated in my personal life.

Like, there's this guy I met on a student video site, matchvenue.com and we've been talking for two weeks already. He's really smart and yesterday he asked me out in a very cool way. He asked me out while playing his guitar in front of his webcam. How can you say no to that? Oh and he's really handsome.
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Old October 25th, 2010, 08:28 AM   #69
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First of all, i wanted to say hi to all the forums users.
As a very shy person myself, i hate to ask someone out directly, it's simply killing me if i hear negative answer.
I usually just use some sweet Facebook apps, like Forever Friends (of which i'm big fan, feel free to join our Forever Friends Cute Bears facebook page).
Just check it out on FB, saved me a lot of nerves when asking people out

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Old November 7th, 2010, 02:56 PM   #70
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good advice

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Old November 25th, 2010, 11:04 PM   #71
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Idk sorrry

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Old November 25th, 2010, 11:07 PM   #72
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I would just say don't do it

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Old November 28th, 2010, 12:57 AM   #73
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Old December 17th, 2010, 06:02 PM   #74
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What you should do is find something that you have in common and discuss that.
Also don't approach her with your friends around you or she might seem intimidated.
On the other hand try not to approach her when she is with her friends or when she seems busy. Make sure you look at her face, but don't stare. Try and keep your voice calm, and make sure your body language gives the impression that you are open to discussion. Finally try not to move to fast, this could establish a relationship quickly but it might not work out in the long run.
Maybe you could say something like : Hey, I (insert topic here. for example music that she likes.)If you aren't busy, maybe sometime we could (see a concert, movie?)
It sounds like you are kind of shy, but most girls seem to like a little bit of that in a guy.
It shows that you take the date seriously, but you are not so shy that you won't be able to communicate effectively.
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Old January 4th, 2011, 03:43 PM   #75
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I asked my last ex out over msn. :L
And we broke up over facebook.


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Old February 14th, 2011, 02:16 AM   #76
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Great advice ther!! (on the very first page) I only recently started going out with this lovely guy whom I like alot! He's gay and I'm BI.

How we ended up going out/in a relationship over MSN Live was kida funny lol
We're meeting each other on Thursday and i said to him as I was going over the arrangements again... "And you going to see me Thursday of course" I thought and then I said "Ahh SEE ME dont sound right!" He said "Well it could be right if you want I'm lonely these days and I want a bf and I like you" at that point I said YES, so now we're out

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Old February 27th, 2011, 04:53 PM   #77
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Well... so. Theres this girl. and lately everytime I think about her its just... Well I'm sure yall know the feeling. But every single time we see eachother, I always manage to make an ass of myself in some way. I know for a fact that she thinks I'm a bit of a crazy guy, when it really couldnt be anything further from the truth. When I get nervous, my natural defense is stupidity. How can I get her to see a different side of me? Its rare that we see eachother, our families are friends but shes a year older than me (Freshman In college, I'm a high school senior) and even though I see her family alot shes only there at the most inopportune times.

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Old March 22nd, 2011, 04:10 AM   #78
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Nicely said! Great advice! but i got a bit of a problem, 2 days ago I asked out this girl who ive known for ages, we were texting for hours, then i asked her out (not the best way i know but it was the only way to ask her at that moment). She hasn't replyed in any way and it's really bugging me now and it's making me not sleep.

Does she not feel that way about me? Any advice would be awesome
dude dont worry about it. she is probably still deciding.
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Old April 21st, 2011, 02:01 PM   #79
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Sometimes they say "yes" yet this eventually turns into a "no" because of a lack of commitment to said date. Happened to me

I think girls judge way too harshly on how a guy asks them out and thinking 'if he does it this way' then he obviously isn't a good fit, it's easy for them 99% of the time they are the ones being asked out. I'd love to see a shift in the world and somehow girls are the ones asking guys out instead, then they'd know how it feels.

I'm just saying generally by the way. When I asked this particular girl out I know I was confident and even though I had nerves in me, I didn't let them out during the conversation (bascially done this by keeping the conversation flowing and not letting it stop)

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Old April 22nd, 2011, 09:53 PM   #80
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Great Tips.
I hope that it will be help me.
I will try this tips in my life.
Go ahead...

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