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Old August 31st, 2009, 02:11 AM   #21
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It's harder than I thought.

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Old August 31st, 2009, 03:16 PM   #22
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My friend nicole fails to realize that guys touch her ass, grope her, and whatnot. Its because shes an idiot. One of her neighbors put a blanket over her head and she couldnt get it off so she took her shirt off... I mean seriously. Sometimes things like this could be avoided if people payed attention.

But the story is sick. The girl could have been saved if the woman testified.

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Old October 11th, 2009, 11:38 AM   #23
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"# Go straight to the police; waiting a few days will compromise the evidence needed to capture the rapist.
# Failing that, go to the hospital (You should anyway), so that you may be treated for whatever injuries (emotional too) you may have sustained in the incident.
# TELL SOMEONE, don't live in silence. It will make it harder to forget.
# There are a number of helplines and websites dedicated to rape victims below."

what if it's not that easy??????

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Old October 11th, 2009, 04:11 PM   #24
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Rukiayua, it's never as easy as those words imply.
Telling someone helps a lot though. Being able to talk things over with another person makes it easier for you to heal. That I can tell you.
Reporting a crime like this is very tough. Before you consider reporting anything you have to make sure that you have the support you will need to pull you through it.
As long as your support system is strong, you can do anything.


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Old October 11th, 2009, 09:23 PM   #25
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25 years in prison isnt enough because when he gets out he may do it again i cant believe people are that horrible

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Old October 12th, 2009, 01:54 PM   #26
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25 years in prison isnt enough because when he gets out he may do it again i cant believe people are that horrible
exactly i mean......unless you kill him instantly....there really is absolutely no justice....there is nothing you really can do.....it's all pointless

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Old October 12th, 2009, 02:46 PM   #27
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It isn't pointless. Do you know what happens to child molesters and the such like in prisons?


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Old October 13th, 2009, 03:04 PM   #28
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yea, they get the same thing...they go in tight end come out wide receiver....if you kno what i mean....but that doesnt really do much either....cuz it's still happening....there's no way anyone can stop it

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Old October 13th, 2009, 05:48 PM   #29
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They still get punished.
They still get judged against wherever they go.
There isn't a way of getting away from a prison sentence for a crime of this nature...


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Old October 13th, 2009, 06:53 PM   #30
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hey im 15 and was raped by a man when i was 9 and it is so much harder to tell then u think. i have toldd 2 people in my life about it i still suffer and i just cant get up the emotion to tell somone

I love my past. I love my present. Im not ashamed of what Ive had, and Im not sad because I have it no longer.
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Old October 14th, 2009, 11:23 AM   #31
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They still get punished.
They still get judged against wherever they go.
There isn't a way of getting away from a prison sentence for a crime of this nature...
yes, but who are we to judge them? i mean it's terrible that someone did some stuff to me, but then again you feel like it's all your fault, and there's nothing you can do to prevent it again...i mean....i dunno...it's just so hard

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Old October 14th, 2009, 03:22 PM   #32
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yes, but who are we to judge them? i mean it's terrible that someone did some stuff to me, but then again you feel like it's all your fault, and there's nothing you can do to prevent it again...i mean....i dunno...it's just so hard
your exactly right... i feel like it is my fault like what did i do wrong to diserve this and what if it happenes again what did i do to u

I love my past. I love my present. Im not ashamed of what Ive had, and Im not sad because I have it no longer.
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Old October 14th, 2009, 03:44 PM   #33
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yes, but who are we to judge them? i mean it's terrible that someone did some stuff to me, but then again you feel like it's all your fault, and there's nothing you can do to prevent it again...i mean....i dunno...it's just so hard
I know that it feels like it's your fault. But it isn't. This is probably one of the hardest thing for a survivor to get their head around, but you can get your head around it. We didn't do anything wrong.
They are the ones who did wrong.
They are the ones who are at fault.
They are the ones that will get punished for it.


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Old October 15th, 2009, 11:42 AM   #34
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I know that it feels like it's your fault. But it isn't. This is probably one of the hardest thing for a survivor to get their head around, but you can get your head around it. We didn't do anything wrong.
They are the ones who did wrong.
They are the ones who are at fault.
They are the ones that will get punished for it.
you hear those words all the time...god, i think i 've memorized them, but it's just too hard to go through...

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Old October 15th, 2009, 11:46 AM   #35
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you hear those words all the time...god, i think i 've memorized them, but it's just too hard to go through...
I know it's hard. But if you have the right support then you can get through it.


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Old October 15th, 2009, 12:30 PM   #36
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i freaking hope so...if not..then why in the hell am i here????

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Old January 18th, 2010, 03:23 PM   #37
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Good job on these facts.
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Old February 13th, 2010, 11:17 PM   #38
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ABSOLUTELY!
If you're not willing, it's rape.
Anyone can be raped, male or female, by any gender.
Exactly just because I'm a guy it was still rape and yes it was by family and she never even got in trouble by police nor my mother did a thing after I said it. I am still slightly suffering but am mostly come to terms with it.

Self awareness can only be spread a little at a time so dont try and convince millions if you cant even convince yourself that it is true.
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Old April 26th, 2010, 08:58 PM   #39
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I broke my boyfriend's bubble when I told him how many girls at our school I knew at the top of my head were molested and raped. He even changed his view on tis girl at our school whom everyone thinks is a bitch.

My best friend was telling me how this pervert molests her and the girl whom everyone thinks is a bitch did such a selfless thing and put herself in the path of the perpetrator in order to save my best friend.
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Old September 18th, 2010, 11:26 PM   #40
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Sigh i wish it were that easy but it really isnt. it is very hard to go and say "this is what happened and this is who did it" especially if that person is a family member or in my case. a father.



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