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Old June 26th, 2008, 03:12 AM   #1
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I'm a 16 year old guy and for a long time now I've been thinking of experimenting with other guys. I have had a few chances to but could never get myself to actually do it. I am worried I will regret it later. I definately prefer girls but I do love gay porn and find some guys attractive. Can anyone give me some advice? And has anyone had any similar experiences?
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Old June 26th, 2008, 03:34 AM   #2
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I've had my fair share to experiment with other girls,
But I myself have passed them up besides making out.
I know that I just couldn't do it.
Maybe you're the same, perhaps not.

If you experiement, you experiment.
You're young.
If you think you're going to regret it,
Then simply don't.
But if you can't resist,
Then do.
It's not like the world is going to find out,
Unless the other guy has a big mouth.

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Old June 26th, 2008, 08:44 PM   #3
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Quote:
Originally Posted by essasteph View Post
I've had my fair share to experiment with other girls,
But I myself have passed them up besides making out.
I know that I just couldn't do it.
Maybe you're the same, perhaps not.

If you experiement, you experiment.
You're young.
If you think you're going to regret it,
Then simply don't.
But if you can't resist,
Then do.
It's not like the world is going to find out,
Unless the other guy has a big mouth.

Agreed, I never really had a problem with this, it was more of trusting them. But I agree with steph.


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Old June 26th, 2008, 10:37 PM   #4
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yeah i experimented w/ other guys when i was younger, its just ur hormones
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Old June 27th, 2008, 03:37 PM   #5
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no shame in experimenting. In fact, it's actually quite normal. If you want to, go for it, but if you don't feel like it, don't. It's as simple as that.

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Old June 28th, 2008, 10:12 PM   #6
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I'm pretty sure one day I will have sex with another guy. But I really dont know when.
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Old July 6th, 2008, 10:35 PM   #7
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Your probably just curious. Nothing wrong with that.
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Old July 6th, 2008, 10:39 PM   #8
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Don't worry about experimenting its healthy and theres nothing wrong with it.

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Old July 7th, 2008, 04:10 AM   #9
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nothing wrong with it

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Old July 13th, 2008, 03:51 AM   #10
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I do stuff with my friend all the time. I'm 13 and he's 15. We've been friends for 5 years. Neither one of us is gay. We just do it because it feels good.
I think as long as you both are comfortable with it, there's nothing wrong with it.
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Old July 13th, 2008, 03:59 AM   #11
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Go with your instincts. If the opportunity arises again dont feel obligated to do it. If you want to try it, then try it. If you say your going to do it at some point in your life then I would try it because when you get older it gets more complicated. Your 16 and probably still going through hormones and all that fun stuff. Just make sure your safe and that you are comfortable doing it.
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Old July 13th, 2008, 08:26 AM   #12
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i really want to, but like u i think, am scared, maybe about the fact it could been seen as gay, im not sure
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Old July 22nd, 2008, 04:53 AM   #13
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i j/o with a friend when i was younger it felt good

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Old July 22nd, 2008, 10:42 AM   #14
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im in a similar predicament as u. i had my chances and could have taken them but i was to shy and like u said worried to do it and then later regret it. but i think its up to u to choose if u want to experiment or not.

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Old July 26th, 2008, 03:40 AM   #15
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Thanks for your replies guys. I still havent tried anything yet, but I'm think I will soon.
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Old July 26th, 2008, 04:28 AM   #16
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good luck

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Old July 26th, 2008, 04:32 AM   #17
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Well I thought I might get the chance today, apparently not. i'm gonna be at the beach all day. Are well, he can come round another time. And good luck dude.!
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Old July 26th, 2008, 12:15 PM   #18
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dont worry its normal.yes i have tried experimenting with other guys before and i later did slightly regret it but it was very fun so go ahead and have some fun dude. i looked it up and asked many people if it is normal and they say yes.so dont worry about it and have some fun.
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Old July 26th, 2008, 12:27 PM   #19
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This question is asked frequently, and only you can answer if it's OK for you, we can't give you permission to do something that you can't seem to bring yourself to do. I would point out to you that you seem ambivalent about this, and it might be best to at least resolve your ambivalence about it before doing it. Your ambivalence is telling you something, it's always best to listen to the message your feelings are giving you.

The other issue with 'Experimentation' is what to do after the experiment, after you've done whatever it is that you've wanted to do. It's easier if you do it and don't really like it, you just chaulk it up to experience, you've satisfied your curiosity. But, what if you like it? (And the 'It' can be anything, not just sexual things). Are you prepared to continue the activity? Have you thought carefully about the potential consequences and complications?

Doing something once isn't always such a problem. It's the Pandora's Box it can open that becomes an issue. Think beyond the act, think about the day after and use that info, too, to determine if *whatever* it is you're contemplating doing is worth it.
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Old July 26th, 2008, 02:59 PM   #20
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i'm going of topic slightly but I still wanted to share it with you.

Instead of getting dropped of at 5pm we extended the time to 8 pm. I showed him this site and he took the stage test. Then we went outside to the allotment shed. The convo shifted towords masturbation. He began asking me personal questions which I answered and asked him the same thing.

When we got to the shed. It was ransacked. So we got angry and began destroying it more. The whole afternoon walking back that's all we where talking about it. Even though I have known him for 4 years. We got a better understanding of each other. i'm going round his soon. cant wait.

All in all. we never got to jack of. But id the shed wasent destoyed then it would be almost certain that we would.
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