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Old May 11th, 2012, 12:44 AM   #21
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True, Friendships are built on trusts.Never be demanding,rude,etc. It spoils friendships. Avoid being secretive, gossipy. Be yourself and enjoy every moment of a friendship

I believe in being confidant. 15 years old and straight.

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Old June 10th, 2012, 12:08 PM   #22
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Old July 5th, 2012, 06:41 AM   #23
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Old July 14th, 2012, 10:00 PM   #24
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this will be helpful in the future
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Old July 18th, 2012, 10:06 PM   #25
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helps me alot tnks

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Old July 24th, 2012, 01:31 PM   #26
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After reading the indicated procedure on how to fix a broken friendship, i was able to boast my confidence that i can win back all my friends whom i have done wrong . Thanks for the info . I do really appreciate it much.
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Old August 5th, 2012, 03:01 AM   #27
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Last year I fell out with one of my best friends, it was a completely massive argument. She was fine one day, the next she was ignoring me and treating me as if I was invisible. I asked her politely why and she just laughed right in my face. She doesn't realise the pain it caused me to lose her like that, and she just thought it was funny. We're on speaking terms now but we'll never be as we were. If I was to give you any advice it would be to stick with the people who've stuck by you thick and thin. Because my absolute best friend knows me better than I know myself probably and if we had a problem we would say it outright. In the years I have known her we haven't fallen out once. Me and this other girl always argued, over small things that she made into a bad deal and then she turned it all around to make it seem as if I was the bad person. To be honest she didn't tell me what I had done wrong which really frustrated me. I had all this bottled up anger that I guess I just let out on her when she said stuff to me. I do feel bad about it now, but it's not a complete regret. Just stay true to yourself, and don't stay friends with someone if their making you someone you don't want to be. <3

Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you....
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Old August 8th, 2012, 01:27 PM   #28
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this did not work to save my friendship and the friendship i had was one of the best ive ever had... but now i have new friends and i cant say that it still doesnt hurt but i can say that i dont worry about his problems anymore, but idk i miss my friend.
Same with me. Sadly this did not work to save my friendship either and the friendship I had was also one of the best I've ever had. And I miss him, but things just can't be fixed.
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Old October 29th, 2012, 10:47 AM   #29
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This topic is well useful and all you need to do is show them that you care.
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Old November 9th, 2012, 06:14 PM   #30
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Do not leave repeated messages on their machines/phones. Leave two or three, but not a hundred. That will make them think that you are too clingy and they won't want to be around you.
Oh shit, I've already failed in this step I was just desolated when I did it!

But the guide is very useful! Thanks ^^

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Old February 21st, 2013, 11:39 PM   #31
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I llost my bestfriend and her family almost 3 weeks. They weren't friends, they were like a second family. We all made our fair share of mistake. I didn't even need to read this...thing is I've tried all this...maybe sent them 1 too many text messages but thats besides the point...and would if none of that works and they wont awknoledge you let alone talk you in person? I go to school with her dad. He doesnt even awknowledge me one bit anymore. It's like I'm invisible. What do I do? cause I'm losing all hope

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Old April 29th, 2013, 02:36 AM   #32
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Good

im 18 - Chat me anytime.You can ask or show me ANYTHING i dont mind.
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Old February 14th, 2014, 06:21 PM   #33
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such a great positive thread.
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Old February 15th, 2014, 08:11 AM   #34
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I'm sure this will come in handy for plenty of people
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Old April 25th, 2014, 08:26 PM   #35
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thanks for the guide it will help me a lot
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Old May 12th, 2014, 06:47 PM   #36
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Thanks for this.
I'm going to use these tips to try and get a friend back. Might make a thread somewhere after I do it.
Wish me luck!

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Old November 9th, 2015, 09:48 PM   #37
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well said, thank u very much


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Old January 6th, 2016, 04:32 PM   #38
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Thanks for the advice.
But I think one person who was my best friend one year ago ignores me. I'm nobody for her right now. And we lost our friendship.
Anyway it will be helpful for me
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Old January 25th, 2016, 11:22 AM   #39
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Big hug cures all
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Old December 30th, 2016, 02:54 AM   #40
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friendships are built on trust. Many a confidence is shared between two 'good' friends, and once that confidence has been violated, then expect the friendship to be broken. It is difficult, and at times impossible to restore a friendship, and most of the time, it will never be the same.

Steps to try and solve your problems: Say you are sorry but you should mean it, the person will be able to tell if you're being sincere or not. It's the best word to use, to explain your feelings. Explain how much you value and miss their friendship, and that you would like to speak to them in person. Mention simply what had occurred, and how you wish you could turn back that moment in time. Speak quietly, sincerely, and allow them to feel the pain that you feel, and the loneliness you have endured since the break up of the friendship. Even under the worst of circumstances an honest face to face conversation may be all that is needed to reestablish a bond. Show him/her that you are sorry. You made a mistake (probably a big one). Show that you did not want to hurt him/her, because he/she was (or most preferably is) your friend, and friends do not want to hurt friends.

Some more tips: When you meet, hug, and say 'i am sorry'. Be honest, and apologize for your thoughtlessness. Tell them how much your friendship meant, and that you hope you can get it back. Be a good listener, once they have finished what they have said completely, respond and give your thoughts. It's okay to cry and show emotion, it shows you care.

Some warnings: Make sure you're not still angry at this person. Make sure that you will not explode when they say something that might get you mad. Do not leave repeated messages on their machines/phones. Leave two or three, but not a hundred. That will make them think that you are too clingy and they won't want to be around you.
thank you im going to use this to heal an unbroken friendship that was broken by a silly fight
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