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Old August 16th, 2015, 08:44 AM   #1
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I know this is probably a bit weird to say, but i dont really know who else to ask... So, I'm 16, and my brother is 12, but he's more developed than me. Like, he has a bigger penis than me and more hair, when I still don't have any on me. I'm only like 3.4", and he's like 6 or 7.

I dont really mind about hair, but its annoying because we share a room and he's much bigger than me so he gets all the boys i want to date, and I dont know what to do to make myself better. Does anyone know why this happened? or has it happened to any of you?
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Old August 16th, 2015, 10:37 AM   #2
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Is that the soft size or hard size? By the way boys who only care about penis size is not worth dating!

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Old August 16th, 2015, 10:40 AM   #3
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Not much you can do. Could speak with your Dr
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Old August 16th, 2015, 10:51 AM   #4
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there isnt much you can do about it, its all a matter of genetics and maybe he got some of the genes that developed earlier. I wouldnt stress it, you still have time to do some growing and besides, size isnt everything, its knowing what to do with what youve got that matters.

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Old August 16th, 2015, 11:42 AM   #5
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Wouldn't worry too much about it mate. Some people are just early bloomers in comparison to others, while others are a bit later. It sounds like there's a combination of both at play here with both you and your sibling. Even not accounting for this, there's no guarantee that you'd be taller, or be larger downstairs than your brother; even with the age difference. I'd just go with the flow and see how things pan out. If you're not that much different in comparison to your peers at school in terms of stature, chances are that you're developing at a steady and mainstream pace and that things will end up fine.

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Old August 16th, 2015, 12:18 PM   #6
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The age difference in this case is pretty large but I don't think you need to worry yet. It's common even within a family that brothers develop differently, and your time will come eventually.

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Old August 16th, 2015, 01:10 PM   #7
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Before I start, damn you're really hot! Honestly, I doubt his dick is really as big as you say it is. Maybe you just see it differently from different angles and perspectives. He might think yours is bigger. Besides, where you are at in puberty now is irrelevant. At the end you're both going to come out of it with something of the same penis size and hair due to genetics. You have nothing to worry about.

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Old August 16th, 2015, 01:39 PM   #8
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You probably have a really low testosterone level. My older brother had that. All you need to do is tell your mum or dad and they can talk to a doctor or something and you can get a shot to speed up puberty with testosterone

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Old August 16th, 2015, 03:30 PM   #9
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Everybody develops differently, sometimes its lifes joke. At my nudist camp their is an 11 yr old boy that is bigger than his father. People just delvelop faster and slower. Just remember it's not the size that counts, its how you use it.
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Old August 16th, 2015, 06:05 PM   #10
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I know this is probably a bit weird to say, but i dont really know who else to ask... So, I'm 16, and my brother is 12, but he's more developed than me. Like, he has a bigger penis than me and more hair, when I still don't have any on me. I'm only like 3.4", and he's like 6 or 7.

I dont really mind about hair, but its annoying because we share a room and he's much bigger than me so he gets all the boys i want to date, and I dont know what to do to make myself better. Does anyone know why this happened? or has it happened to any of you?
You're probably just a late bloomer and he probably started early

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Old August 16th, 2015, 06:17 PM   #11
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just give it a bit of time and chance to develop, if nothing happens then contact the doctor
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Old August 16th, 2015, 08:42 PM   #12
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Thanks guys, this really helped, but I still am a bit worried I'll never start puberty
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Old August 16th, 2015, 08:46 PM   #13
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It is what it is, don't worry about it, you only get what u get can't change it. just learn to work with what u get and be confident with it
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Probably it's just matter of time but there is nothing to lose to ask a doctor.
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Old August 16th, 2015, 11:47 PM   #15
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Maybe you're just a late bloomer. It may seem like you'll never start growing and getting hair down there, but you will. You might even hate it once your pubes really start coming in like I do haha.

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Old August 17th, 2015, 02:49 AM   #16
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Thanks again guys! you're all so nice
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Old August 17th, 2015, 04:26 AM   #17
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Have you actually started puberty yet? If not, you might want to see a Dr to get some testosterone shots. Try going here http://growingupboys.info/Calculators/TannerStage.htm and see what you score!

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Old August 17th, 2015, 07:31 AM   #18
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Have you actually started puberty yet? If not, you might want to see a Dr to get some testosterone shots. Try going here http://growingupboys.info/Calculators/TannerStage.htm and see what you score!
I got 1.7 there, what does that mean?
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Old August 17th, 2015, 07:46 AM   #19
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I got 1.7 there, what does that mean?
IMO that's pretty low for your age but I Wouldn't start worrying too much about it yet. Like a load of people have already said, it might just be that you're a late bloomer.

The same thing is happening with my bro, I'm 14 he's 12 and is bigger and hairier than me too. Not sure about his penis size tho... but IDK if that matters about puberty rate or just genetics
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Thanks guys, this really helped, but I still am a bit worried I'll never start puberty
you will man. it is very possible when you do, you will see a pretty rapid change. it can suck to have to wait but it will happen. still, if you are worried, you can always talk to a doctor

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