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Old April 16th, 2015, 02:22 AM   #1
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i just need to get this out,cuz it hurting so bad.
my dad sexal abuse me every night.i dont want this,but i cant stop him,he is very strong person. i wish i could be brave and tell someone,but no one would belive me,i have try tellin my mother,and she did not belive me.so i give up now.
i did something really silly tonight,not sure if i should get help or not.just feeling hopeless,and so worthless right now.
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Old April 16th, 2015, 02:45 AM   #2
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i just need to get this out,cuz it hurting so bad.
my dad sexal abuse me every night.i dont want this,but i cant stop him,he is very strong person. i wish i could be brave and tell someone,but no one would belive me,i have try tellin my mother,and she did not belive me.so i give up now.
i did something really silly tonight,not sure if i should get help or not.just feeling hopeless,and so worthless right now.
I'm really sorry that you have to go though all this, you are really brave for talking about it on here and more brave for telling your mother. I think your mother is in denial off what is happening, you need to tell a teacher or the police to make this stop. You are not worthless your a beautiful person going through a very hard time, your life is worth more than your father's .
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Old April 16th, 2015, 04:32 AM   #3
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get help asap...you don't have to feel worthless.
talk to your mom again, or a teacher...
have you tried calling a helpline?? it is really useful.
please don't hurt yourself.
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Old April 16th, 2015, 07:49 AM   #4
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You need to tell a teacher or a police officer. If your mother doesn't believe you then tell them, she'll have to believe it one day.

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Old April 23rd, 2015, 02:54 AM   #5
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thankyou for your support guys.mean a lots to me.
i want to get help from somewhere,but im just scared to.im just weak i know,sorry about that.. i just be looking at these pills,feel like takeing them right now.got nother left to give.
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Old April 23rd, 2015, 03:09 AM   #6
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thankyou for your support guys.mean a lots to me.
i want to get help from somewhere,but im just scared to.im just weak i know,sorry about that.. i just be looking at these pills,feel like takeing them right now.got nother left to give.
Please don't take your life you have so much to look forward to. Your not weak ! You are extremely brave for coping this long and being able to tell people you don't know what your going though. I beg you tell a friend that way they can help you so your not on your own. Have you ever questioned your dad why he does to it ?. It's not going to be easy but I'm sure you'll be able to get help , we all believe in you and want the best for you don't give up on life for what some sick father is doing to you
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Old April 23rd, 2015, 06:09 PM   #7
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thankyou for your support guys.mean a lots to me.
i want to get help from somewhere,but im just scared to.im just weak i know,sorry about that.. i just be looking at these pills,feel like takeing them right now.got nother left to give.
I almost killed myself once. I had a lot going on; not nearly as much as you, but it was pretty bad. I took so many different drugs that I would've certainly died, had I not snapped out of it and started trying to vomit up what drugs I could. As someone who was very, very close to dying, who could feel his body grow cold and vision dim, I want to give you some advice: don't do it. The most important realization I had when I started dying wasn't that the pain would stop. It wasn't that I didn't have anything more to worry about. Yes, it was calming. Relaxing, even. But as I got closer and closer, one thought stood out more than anything else.

It was that this moment would be the last thing I thought about as I died. That I would die without any really happy memories.

This wasn't what I wanted. I wanted a normal life. A happy life. One filled with smiles, laughter, pleasant things. All the bad things that happened to me... they weren't my fault. So why was I the one dying, if I was the victim? I deserved so much more, I realized, than what I was about to get. Than the ending that I was trying to bring on myself. So I fought as hard as I could to live after that near-mistake. And I want you to know: you should fight back every bit as hard as I did, trying to stay awake. Everyone deserves a chance to share a genuine smile with someone else. Everyone deserves the chance to a peaceful, happy life. It's not your fault that you're being hurt: so, you shouldn't have to be the one who pays the price for it.

Be angry.

Be indignant.

Realize that you have WORTH. And find someone to help you live the worthwhile life you deserve. Please. Don't make the same mistake I almost did. You're the victim here; you deserve a chance for things to get better.
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Old April 23rd, 2015, 06:18 PM   #8
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you need to get help right now. even if it means calling the cops

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Old April 26th, 2015, 01:22 AM   #9
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thankyou for your support..
i did something to my body,not sure if i should go and get help.just tried of lift.
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Old April 26th, 2015, 02:02 AM   #10
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thankyou for your support..
i did something to my body,not sure if i should go and get help.just tried of lift.
Please tell me your not self harming, your better than this. You need to tell a teacher or the police this is not a question. You will see the point of living but only and i mean only once you get the help you need, your only 15 you have so much to look forward to.
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Old April 26th, 2015, 02:06 AM   #11
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Please get help and don't harm yourself ! You're still very young, and you can still do something about this. What he's doing is NOT okay, and it needs to be put to and end.

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Old April 27th, 2015, 01:21 AM   #12
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i od last night,and nother happepr.going to call cops tomorrow,if i can be brave.just want to cry right now...
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Old April 27th, 2015, 01:44 AM   #13
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i od last night,and nother happepr.going to call cops tomorrow,if i can be brave.just want to cry right now...
Please find the courage to call them you won't be on your own everyone on here will support you though this
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Old May 24th, 2015, 11:00 PM   #14
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i just need to get this out,cuz it hurting so bad.
my dad sexal abuse me every night.i dont want this,but i cant stop him,he is very strong person. i wish i could be brave and tell someone,but no one would belive me,i have try tellin my mother,and she did not belive me.so i give up now.
i did something really silly tonight,not sure if i should get help or not.just feeling hopeless,and so worthless right now.
You need to call the police or tell a counceler at your school. You are definetly not worthless!

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Old May 26th, 2015, 08:33 PM   #15
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Hi Katy. First off, I am sorry you have to go through this abuse. I urge you to get help fast. You must report your dad. There is always police or you can call helplines like teenline. Best wishes!
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Old May 29th, 2015, 05:40 PM   #16
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The police can't ignore something like this. You NEED to talk to them or someone else with some authority. Maybe your favourite teacher. You're not alone, there are plenty of people that can help you. Just don't let this continue.

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Old June 4th, 2015, 11:04 PM   #17
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@hurting,

You should really call the police. You have legal protection for this sort of thing and you deserve the help that they can provide you. They are there to help you. Remember that.
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Old June 7th, 2015, 04:38 AM   #18
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Don't harm yourself! Think of it this way: If you do anything to yourself, you have given up the fight. Better if you fight till the end! I mean, don't get beaten by assholes, fight back! Life is beautiful and you needn't sacrifice the joy you deserve. Oh and btw report your dad to the police. He has no right to be your dad at all!!

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Old June 8th, 2015, 07:52 AM   #19
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yeah mate tell someone, I know its hard but this has too stop
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Old June 10th, 2015, 08:38 AM   #20
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I'm so sorry for you. Hearing stories like yours make me so angry at the aggressors who commit these crimes. Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) immediately and the police. What your dad doing is a crime. Get help ASAP.
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