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Old April 15th, 2015, 05:58 PM   #1
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Today between 4 and 5 i got into an argument and fight with my parent's. Well after the fight was calming down i demeaned to get my phone back, when the resisted, i told them i had some personal info that i wasn't going to tell them until i get of legal age and unit i moved out.

To make it short, i told them that i was sexually abused and now they told the cops. I'm waiting for them to come and take me to the station so i can make a report. I'm kinda nervous that nobody will believe me but at the same time I'm happy because i finally spoken.
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Old April 15th, 2015, 09:07 PM   #2
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We're so glad that you finally spoke out.

The best thing to do right now is to stay calm, be very honest with everything, and just see what happens.

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Old April 15th, 2015, 11:09 PM   #3
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Ah, I'm so proud of you >~<!
It's so great that you have spoken out...Telling people your issues doesn't always come as an easy or brave task; I just hope everything goes well for you!

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That's so great. You can be really proud.
Be strong. I wish you all the best.
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Old April 16th, 2015, 07:28 PM   #5
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well it is important and good you told. I wish you strength and the best for the road ahead

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Old April 17th, 2015, 01:41 AM   #6
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Today between 4 and 5 i got into an argument and fight with my parent's. Well after the fight was calming down i demeaned to get my phone back, when the resisted, i told them i had some personal info that i wasn't going to tell them until i get of legal age and unit i moved out.

To make it short, i told them that i was sexually abused and now they told the cops. I'm waiting for them to come and take me to the station so i can make a report. I'm kinda nervous that nobody will believe me but at the same time I'm happy because i finally spoken.
It's great that you've been brave enough to tell them, best of luck with the police
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Old April 18th, 2015, 07:11 AM   #7
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Big well done for speaking out about your experience, it's very brave of you.

Stay strong, and I wish you all the very best with the police, as well as for you and your family.

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Old April 18th, 2015, 10:47 PM   #8
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I'm glad you told them!
Hopefully whoever abused you can be brought to justice, and I hope that you can continue to live a normal life afterwards.

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Old June 10th, 2015, 03:20 PM   #9
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Good luck with the police. I think it's great that you told your parents
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Old June 11th, 2015, 02:19 AM   #10
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Good for u! I waited far too long to tell anyone and I will regret it the rest of my life. I'm sure at least one person will believe u in the long run, but even if they don't, u said something. U took the power away from your attacker and put it back into ur own hands. Congrats
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Old June 11th, 2015, 05:17 PM   #11
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Good for you for speaking out !
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I am so glad to read you finally spoke up. I have never been in your situation, but I imagine it is very difficult to speak up and to deal with. I don't know you of course, but I am very proud of you for speaking up.

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Best wishes. I hope that person gets sentenced. What they do to child molesters in prison is nasty.

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Nice one, thats handling a situation cool like you made it sound so simple, vvv proud of you.

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Old July 22nd, 2015, 03:23 PM   #15
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Nice one, thats handling a situation cool like you made it sound so simple, vvv proud of you.

Liking the signature btw

Lol thanks for the compliment but it didn't work out very good because well i didn't get to speak with any police officer and also because the next morning as i was sitting in the truck waiting for my dad to drop me and my sister off at the bus stop i saw the yellow piece of paper in the cup holder and at first i was confident that he honestly did file a report but in My head i was still a little unsure so as i went to go reach it to read it, i came to find out that it was not a police report but a receipt for the auto mechanic store. They lied to me.

As of April 15th i have not spoken a single word to my parents and i will continue not speaking until they actually do believe me.
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Lol thanks for the compliment but it didn't work out very good because well i didn't get to speak with any police officer and also because the next morning as i was sitting in the truck waiting for my dad to drop me and my sister off at the bus stop i saw the yellow piece of paper in the cup holder and at first i was confident that he honestly did file a report but in My head i was still a little unsure so as i went to go reach it to read it, i came to find out that it was not a police report but a receipt for the auto mechanic store. They lied to me.

As of April 15th i have not spoken a single word to my parents and i will continue not speaking until they actually do believe me.
I defend anyone associated with me as much as i can, and i dont know them but i hate your parents.

Like i get theyre your parents but i officially dont like them for that, they can fuck off thats sly as out.

Im on your team i dont think you should talk to them until they make a real effort to sort things out.

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Old July 24th, 2015, 12:50 PM   #17
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I defend anyone associated with me as much as i can, and i dont know them but i hate your parents.

Like i get theyre your parents but i officially dont like them for that, they can fuck off thats sly as out.

Im on your team i dont think you should talk to them until they make a real effort to sort things out.

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Old July 28th, 2015, 09:10 PM   #18
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You have to keep talking. Just keep talking.

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Old July 30th, 2015, 02:48 PM   #19
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Lol thanks for the compliment but it didn't work out very good because well i didn't get to speak with any police officer and also because the next morning as i was sitting in the truck waiting for my dad to drop me and my sister off at the bus stop i saw the yellow piece of paper in the cup holder and at first i was confident that he honestly did file a report but in My head i was still a little unsure so as i went to go reach it to read it, i came to find out that it was not a police report but a receipt for the auto mechanic store. They lied to me.

As of April 15th i have not spoken a single word to my parents and i will continue not speaking until they actually do believe me.
Your parents should believe you with this one, I don't know what got into them but that is just being unfair. If my son / daughter in the future will be molested or whatsoever, I am sure that I will take actions legally.
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Old July 30th, 2015, 11:38 PM   #20
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Your parents should believe you with this one, I don't know what got into them but that is just being unfair. If my son / daughter in the future will be molested or whatsoever, I am sure that I will take actions legally.
If i do decide to have a kid i would take immediate action too.
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