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Old November 18th, 2014, 12:50 AM   #1
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Exclamation My girlfriend was raped.

I'm holding back tears as I type this but it is true. Someone I thought I could trust and my girlfriend thought she could trust raped her an hour ago in her own room. The rapist was my ex-friend of 5 years along with 4 of his frineds. They broke into her house, took her laptop and some other things and then it happened.

I don't know how to feel about this at all. I'm a mix of angry, sad, confused, and just overall miserable. As far as them getting charged, it's all underway. My girlfriend is at the hospital now getting any evidence taken from her. Oh, that raises another concern of mine. She could be pregnant. I am very distressed over this... I feel empty and terrible. This is terrible. I'm not a violent person but... Never mind.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:55 AM   #2
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Oh my gosh Rob, I'm so sorry for you and your girlfriend. That is truly awful.

I hope everything turns out ok. No one deserves to go through this.


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Old November 18th, 2014, 05:08 AM   #3
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Oh lord, I'm so sorry. I have you in my prayers.

Take some time to calm down. You have every right to be angry and upset. This is a very traumatic event, again I'm praying for you.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 05:19 AM   #4
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That's horrible! I'm sorry to hear that. I hope those responsible get their comeuppance one day. I feel for you and your girlfriend right now. Try and hold it together though dude, She will need you to be strong for her.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 05:47 AM   #5
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I'm terribly sorry to hear this! I've been in the situation before myself. My previous gf was raped at 13. No one deserves to be treated this way. I know you're hurting, and are probably feeling very angry and violent right now. Whatever happens you will need to think before you act. Especially when you're around the guy if you see him again. You need to be there for your gf. Don't let the anger separate you from her. He will get his punishment.




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Old November 18th, 2014, 07:58 AM   #6
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That really sucks dude. I can't help you because I'm in shock, just reading this. You're friend, what a fuckface.

I am deeply and truly sorry.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 10:36 AM   #7
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If i were you (an i hope you're better than me) i would find this guy and break all of his bones, before he goes to jail AND hope he gets raped there.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 10:40 AM   #8
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If i were you (an i hope you're better than me) i would find this guy and break all of his bones, before he goes to jail AND hope he gets raped there.
That's how I would be myself. I'd break more than bones. But he has to realize he needs to be there for his gf. She needs him more than ever now. The man will pay for the crime he committed.




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Old November 18th, 2014, 11:26 AM   #9
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Holy fuck rob. I can't even imagine.


I don't know how you are supposed to cope with something like that. I know the automatic reaction would be to have those guys' dicks cut off. But sometimes those things have to wait, you should just stay with your girlfriend. I'm sure she feels worse than you. I'm sorry bro.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 12:04 PM   #10
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This is truly awful, Rob, I'm so, so sorry. The best thing right now is to support and be there for your girlfriend as much as you can. Take how you feel and multiply it by 10, that's probably how awful she's feeling. Try and channel your anger the opposite way, into love for your girlfriend. The rapist will get what's coming to him, and you don't have to have anything more to do with that, don't worry about it.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 01:00 PM   #11
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That is so devastating to hear.

She will be taking comfort in you and will need you to be there for her. She's going to need the support now more than ever. It was a traumatizing event and she'll be confiding in you. Be strong for her, whatever you're feeling; cannot compare to the victim themselves. If she's unresponsive, let her be. Just make sure you're there for her at all hours and do not, i repeat do not abandon her/break up with her. That's the worst thing you can do.
Make her aware that you're there for her, no matter what.

I wish all the best to you and your girlfriend. Take it easy these next few months, she may not be able to be intimate with you for a while for lack of trust, for anyone really. But take it slow and she'll be back to her usual self.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 01:28 PM   #12
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Thanks everyone for your support. It really means a lot and I truly appreciate it a lot. The good news is that she is not pregnant. The bad news however, is that today when I was at school, I saw him. I don't know how he was even there and not in custody, but nonetheless, I saw the person who raped my girlfriend. He mocked me and mentioned the actual act in its self. I knocked him out. I regret doing it only because I got in trouble. I hit him with my full strength 3 times. I'm sorry if this is breaking any rules on VT, but the past 24 hours have been incredibly tough for me and I need somewhere to vent...

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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:01 PM   #13
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I'm so sorry that's truly awful. be patient, did u call cops yet ?
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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:49 PM   #14
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Thanks everyone for your support. It really means a lot and I truly appreciate it a lot. The good news is that she is not pregnant. The bad news however, is that today when I was at school, I saw him. I don't know how he was even there and not in custody, but nonetheless, I saw the person who raped my girlfriend. He mocked me and mentioned the actual act in its self. I knocked him out. I regret doing it only because I got in trouble. I hit him with my full strength 3 times. I'm sorry if this is breaking any rules on VT, but the past 24 hours have been incredibly tough for me and I need somewhere to vent...
Don't feel bad for knocking the shit out of him. You needed to let that anger out...one way or another. If I were you I'd beat his ass more than just 3 hits. He will be in jail, and he will pay.




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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:49 PM   #15
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I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you and her. I send my dearest condolences to both you and your girlfriend during this devastating time.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:49 PM   #16
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I'm very sorry to hear this. I wish you and your girlfriend the best. Be there for her, and try to look happy so you cheer her up as well.

I'm always up for a chat if you need me, mate. Good luck


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Old November 18th, 2014, 02:53 PM   #17
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I'm sorry that this happened Rob, and I know it's much easier said than done - I hope that she is ok, and that the two of you can get through this.

Hopefully this guy and his friends are going to jail really soon, since your girlfriend is able to identify him.
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Old November 18th, 2014, 07:05 PM   #18
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The same thing happened to one of my friends but by someone i never really talked to. That guy didn't get back up for a while. I hope your ex-friend got the same.
Applause to you for beating the living shit out of him. Im sure it will make your gf feel a little better.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 07:28 PM   #19
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That's horrible man. Its great you knocked the man out but the priority must be on your girl.Stay by her side constantly through this ordeal.

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Old November 18th, 2014, 10:47 PM   #20
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I'm so sorry that's truly awful. be patient, did u call cops yet ?
There is DNA pulled from her that proves it was him so he is getting charged.

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I'm sorry that this happened Rob, and I know it's much easier said than done - I hope that she is ok, and that the two of you can get through this.

Hopefully this guy and his friends are going to jail really soon, since your girlfriend is able to identify him.
Thanks, Allison. It really means a lot. She went directly to the hospital and they got evidence of who it was so he will be charged but I'm still a wreck. Again, thanks for the reply.

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