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Old April 16th, 2014, 02:43 AM   #41
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I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-x
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-x
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going-
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open-
Private-
Trusting-
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):To close friends

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:In regards to parents


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-x

What gender do you identify as? (written):Agender possibly Neutrois

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-x

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:x

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:x
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:x

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): They

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:x


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:Nope, since not many people know
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:Nope, since nobody else knows

One negative thing about your sexuality:Makes me feel a bit broken
One negative thing about your gender:Makes me feel a bit broken
One positive thing about your sexuality:Don't get distracted by "sexy" people
One positive thing about your gender:Dunno at the moment

Any other thoughts?:
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Old April 16th, 2014, 03:40 AM   #42
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Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing- X
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful- X
Negotiator- X
Compromiser-
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:In regards to parents


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): female

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): she

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): any form of my actual name, usually Ali

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): bitch

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: no
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: I am not exactly sure I have it all figured out yet
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:
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Old April 16th, 2014, 06:18 AM   #43
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Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-X
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)- X
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker- X
Warrior- X

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded- X

Candid- X
Tactful- X
Negotiator- X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 4

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 5


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual N/A[

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader N/A


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 5-7

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 6-9

I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): a bit under half-out, I don't announce it but I generally don't hide it unless around older people, etc.

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis- X

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: X
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: X
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): My first name

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): full name

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): faggot, bent (+dyke/queer/lezzie depending on context)

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): queer

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Yes

One negative thing about your sexuality: It can be lonely.
One negative thing about your gender: I live in a patriarchal society
One positive thing about your sexuality: If I am only in relationships with women, I will not have to worry about unplanned pregnancies.
One positive thing about your gender: No male genitals

Any other thoughts?:


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Old April 16th, 2014, 10:51 AM   #44
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This is now a sticky!

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Old April 16th, 2014, 12:12 PM   #45
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Old April 16th, 2014, 12:36 PM   #46
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Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)X
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
MusclesX
Smooth skinX
Longer hair-
Shorter hairX
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)X
Dominant (Leader)X
Easy-going-
AssertiveX
Peacemaker
WarriorX

Outgoing-
Quiet-
OpenX
Private-
TrustingX
GuardedX

Candid-
Tactful-
NegotiatorX
CompromiserX
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 X 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 X 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 X 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 X 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 X 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 X 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 X 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: IDK
I do not want to be out about my sexuality: IDK
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological maleX
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
MasculineX
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

MasculineX
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sexX
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:X
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): (all except He)

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender: Male
I do not want to be out about my gender: Anything else
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): I don't know

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): IDK

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: I'm still in closet
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Nope

One negative thing about your sexuality: IDK
One negative thing about your gender: IDK
One positive thing about your sexuality: IDK
One positive thing about your gender: Guess my answer

Any other thoughts?:
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Old April 17th, 2014, 11:37 AM   #47
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I just thought to include this a month later...

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-
What I mean is... I don't feel masculine but don't think I feel feminine either. I prefer medium length hair (like I had on my avatar - you can't see it very well but a shorter medium I guess), the times I did wear makeup I LIKED how I looked but DIDN'T LIKE how I felt while wearing it; I shave a lot - armpits, face, chest and I would definitely shave my back if I could but my best bet is asking for waxing strips ... which I can see being embarrassing. My parents tell me that I shouldn't because of how much they hurt AND I feel awkward telling them how I feel about this, so that might not be happening most likely, sadly. I also want to make my voice slightly higher, too low is horrible so no thanks to that


I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-
More masculine but clothes that both guys and girls can wear. And I find it slightly embarrassing to say this but I'm actually proud to say I have slight curves, I don't know if that's from being feminine or just from being overweight but I kinda like the shape - but that doesn't stop me from wanting to lose it and I have just spoken to someone in an appointment me and my dad went to about it. I know I need to lose weight but I don't want to lose too much because I dont feel like a "man" so I don't want to look that way either. I still feel like a kid, which is why I care so much about shaving, but I also don't like properly skinny people too much and I don't want that to be what they turn me into either.

Well done on getting another post stickied In a way I would like to see one of these in the mental forum if you know enough about that because this kind of thing does help some people. I just spoke to a professional about sensory overloads, luckily she knows about them too which shows to me and my parents I'm not speaking total bullshit and that explains more of what has caused my outbursts in the past few months, so I'm in a better mood now
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Old April 17th, 2014, 04:12 PM   #48
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I just thought to include this a month later...

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-
What I mean is... I don't feel masculine but don't think I feel feminine either. I prefer medium length hair (like I had on my avatar - you can't see it very well but a shorter medium I guess), the times I did wear makeup I LIKED how I looked but DIDN'T LIKE how I felt while wearing it; I shave a lot - armpits, face, chest and I would definitely shave my back if I could but my best bet is asking for waxing strips ... which I can see being embarrassing. My parents tell me that I shouldn't because of how much they hurt AND I feel awkward telling them how I feel about this, so that might not be happening most likely, sadly. I also want to make my voice slightly higher, too low is horrible so no thanks to that
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I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-
More masculine but clothes that both guys and girls can wear. And I find it slightly embarrassing to say this but I'm actually proud to say I have slight curves, I don't know if that's from being feminine or just from being overweight but I kinda like the shape - but that doesn't stop me from wanting to lose it and I have just spoken to someone in an appointment me and my dad went to about it. I know I need to lose weight but I don't want to lose too much because I dont feel like a "man" so I don't want to look that way either. I still feel like a kid, which is why I care so much about shaving, but I also don't like properly skinny people too much and I don't want that to be what they turn me into either.

Well done on getting another post stickied In a way I would like to see one of these in the mental forum if you know enough about that because this kind of thing does help some people. I just spoke to a professional about sensory overloads, luckily she knows about them too which shows to me and my parents I'm not speaking total bullshit and that explains more of what has caused my outbursts in the past few months, so I'm in a better mood now
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I'm glad you're understanding more about yourself lately. That's awesome!

Thanks Loool I don't know how qualified I am to do something like that, but I'll probably take a crack at it.

That's good. My parents have been treating me better now that they understand more about what's going on with me as well.


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Old April 17th, 2014, 05:07 PM   #49
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I'm glad you're understanding more about yourself lately. That's awesome!

Thanks Loool I don't know how qualified I am to do something like that, but I'll probably take a crack at it.

That's good. My parents have been treating me better now that they understand more about what's going on with me as well.
It depends on how good you are at gathering information I guess and if you know an easier way to explain it, because the websites that give advice seem to all be written with the parents in mind - language can be complicated which for me can be quite confusing. It's the kind of thing we should go onto the Wrong Planet forum for but I just feel kinda weird talking to people who are a certain age over me, and I saw someone I think was 45 at least on there.

It's not really understanding more about myself, I guess it's just being in the right mood to say everything. Everything's better when people start to get a better understanding of some things you know are problems. I think earlier I was told that I'm an aspie (aspergers - ASD) but that was just asking me what to write on a form, and I'm glad they are including that because I've been in a mess before when they didn't know about some of my problems and I was expected to do things I knew I couldn't; but instead they wrote I just have ASD but asking that got me thinking a little more.

It's nice to have a better understanding of things too and to be understood this is the kind of thing I would say to VM about if our pages weren't still under moderation and PM is possible but I wouldn't be too sure
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It depends on how good you are at gathering information I guess and if you know an easier way to explain it, because the websites that give advice seem to all be written with the parents in mind - language can be complicated which for me can be quite confusing. It's the kind of thing we should go onto the Wrong Planet forum for but I just feel kinda weird talking to people who are a certain age over me, and I saw someone I think was 45 at least on there.

It's not really understanding more about myself, I guess it's just being in the right mood to say everything. Everything's better when people start to get a better understanding of some things you know are problems. I think earlier I was told that I'm an aspie (aspergers - ASD) but that was just asking me what to write on a form, and I'm glad they are including that because I've been in a mess before when they didn't know about some of my problems and I was expected to do things I knew I couldn't; but instead they wrote I just have ASD but asking that got me thinking a little more.

It's nice to have a better understanding of things too and to be understood this is the kind of thing I would say to VM about if our pages weren't still under moderation and PM is possible but I wouldn't be too sure
Hmm, I might just do a mental 'survey' like this one, maybe a Google form, and then put some sort of 'key' of what certain symptoms tend to be related to. Like, mental health is a tricky one to do anything like this for...Because some can take it too seriously. However, I sure know it would've been nice to know why tickles make me feel weird; or why I couldn't wear certain sweaters, socks, or undies; why loud noises aggravate me so much;etc. Or would've known that bipolar can cause delusions, or that it's not normal to just 'forget' a large portion of my life. So like I said, I'll see what I can do, but uh, don't hold your breath


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Old April 18th, 2014, 05:44 AM   #51
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Hmm, I might just do a mental 'survey' like this one, maybe a Google form, and then put some sort of 'key' of what certain symptoms tend to be related to. Like, mental health is a tricky one to do anything like this for...Because some can take it too seriously. However, I sure know it would've been nice to know why tickles make me feel weird; or why I couldn't wear certain sweaters, socks, or undies; why loud noises aggravate me so much;etc. Or would've known that bipolar can cause delusions, or that it's not normal to just 'forget' a large portion of my life. So like I said, I'll see what I can do, but uh, don't hold your breath
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Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- x
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- x
Deep voices- x
Higher voices-
Muscles- x
Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
Shorter hair- x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive- x
Peacemaker-
Warrior-
(They contradict but I like them all haha, obviously not necessarily at the same time)

Outgoing- x
Quiet-
Open- x
Private-
Trusting- x
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- x


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): yes

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: x

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): he, him etc.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): he

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): she, it, her

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): faggot I guess if used in a derogatory way but my friends use it as a joke and it shows they're comfortable with my sexuality and don't have to tip toe around what they say. Others may find the mere use of the word offensive but I know that they don't mean it in a nasty way.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): n/a

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: no
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: hard to meet other gay males
One negative thing about your gender: not sure
One positive thing about your sexuality: I can talk with my female friends about boys now
One positive thing about your gender: again not sure, gender isn't something I think about a whole lot, seeing as I'm male and always have been and never even remotely thought otherwise, so these gender questions are hard for me to answer properly

Any other thoughts? Great survey
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Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-X
Both masculine and feminine (general)-X
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-X
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-X
Muscles-X
Smooth skin-X
Longer hair-X
Shorter hair-X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- No, except when it comes to butts. <.<
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xrne2-gOoqU

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)-X
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker-X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-X
Open-
Private-X
Trusting-X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-X
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 /10/ Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 /5/ 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 /5/ 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 /10/ Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 /5/ 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 /10/ Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 /3/ 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xrne2-gOoqU

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: ^
I do not want to be out about my sexuality: Yes
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: See youtube link.
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: Yes
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: Yes

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: Yes
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):
He
I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No, I'm not out about it.
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality: We are portrayed as orgy-loving pariahs.
One negative thing about your gender: No.
One positive thing about your sexuality: We tend to care more.
One positive thing about your gender: No.

Any other thoughts?:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xrne2-gOoqU

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Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): faggot I guess if used in a derogatory way but my friends use it as a joke and it shows they're comfortable with my sexuality and don't have to tip toe around what they say. Others may find the mere use of the word offensive but I know that they don't mean it in a nasty way.

One positive thing about your sexuality: I can talk with my female friends about boys now
One positive thing about your gender: again not sure, gender isn't something I think about a whole lot, seeing as I'm male and always have been and never even remotely thought otherwise, so these gender questions are hard for me to answer properly

Any other thoughts? Great survey
Yeah, I feel the same way. I generally don't use it around other people unless I know that they're A. not homophobic, and B. not offended by it (as I'm pretty freaking gay myself)

Oh, I know, right? Except I'm the opposite. I can't relate mostly when female friends talk about guys, but I'll totally get in on the conversation when girls are mentioned.

You answered them fine, don't worry.

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Old April 21st, 2014, 08:12 PM   #55
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Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles- X( only on guys)
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful-
Negotiator- X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: X
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): male

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: X
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He, him, etc.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): She, her, etc.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): N/A

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): gay, faggot, cunt, anything inappropriate

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): gay

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: nope
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: N/A
One negative thing about your gender: People think guys are assholes
One positive thing about your sexuality: me being fine with who I am
One positive thing about your gender: peeing standing up

Any other thoughts?: nope
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I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)- X
Androgynous/neutral (male)- X
Both masculine and feminine (male)- X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair-
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open-
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded- X

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): YES

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

I am currently working out whether I am predominantly Transgendered or Non Binary.

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)- X
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes- X
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis- X

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: X
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition: X
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): Non-Binary pronouns- They etc.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Just my name. No Mr., Ms. etc

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): I don't hide it, but I dont bring it up unnecessarily either.

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality:
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:



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I am currently working out whether I am predominantly Transgendered or Non Binary.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): I don't hide it, but I dont bring it up unnecessarily either.
Beautiful either way

Yeeah, that's how I am for the most part. I came out on Facebook, but otherwise, that's how it is. (Well, aside from my parents, whom I do not plan on coming out to.)


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I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- x (Sometimes, it depends who)
Biological females (cisgender females)- x
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- x
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- x
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male- x
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female- x
Transgender male (biological female)- x
Transgender female (biological male)- x
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks- x

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- x
Feminine (general)- x
Androgynous/neutral (general)- x
Both masculine and feminine (general)- x
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)- x
Androgynous/neutral (male)- x
Both masculine and feminine (male)- x
Masculine (female)- x
Feminine (female)- x (Sometimes)
Androgynous/neutral (female)- x
Both masculine and feminine (female)- x
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks- x

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- x
Deep voices- x
Higher voices- x
Muscles-
Smooth skin- x
Longer hair- x
Shorter hair- x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- x
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive- x
Peacemaker- x
Warrior-

Outgoing- x
Quiet- x
Open- x
Private-
Trusting- x
Guarded- x

Candid- x
Tactful- x
Negotiator- x
Compromiser- x
Forthcoming-x
Sarcastic-

Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.
Asexual 1 2 3x 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual I don't know where to mark because I don't really care much about the gender of my partner..

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9x 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5x 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5x 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7x 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9x 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: x
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- x
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)- x
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- x

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- x

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)- x
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes- x
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: x

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: x
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition: x
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He, Him, They, Them

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Chris

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): Jess, my full real name (not putting on here for safety reasons)

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender: x
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Tranny, fag/faggot, "that one weird tranny/gay kid"

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): Gay

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yeah
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Yeah

One negative thing about your sexuality: I'm pansexual, so it's pretty vast and hard to explain. People don't understand why I'm not just bisexual and they're not aware of other gender identities besides male and female.
One negative thing about your gender: People don't understand being a transgender.
One positive thing about your sexuality: It's vast.
One positive thing about your gender: I'm not sure.

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Old April 27th, 2014, 05:30 PM   #59
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Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality


I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-


I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:


Feminine (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-


Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Muscles-
Smooth skin-
Shorter hair-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-


Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Easy-going-*
Peacemaker-

Quiet-
Open-
Trusting-

Tactful-
Negotiator-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-



Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader



Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader



Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

Yup, people know I'm messed up.


Gender

Sex:


Biological male-


Gender:

Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine 80%
Feminin 20%



I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine 90%
Feminine 10%


I mainly:

Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex 70%
Wear gender neutral clothes 30%



I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:

I just do what I do, kiss boys, talk about 'em and do some stuff some guys wouldn't. I don't feel like my gender or personality are that intertwined...

I don't experience gender dysphoria:

Never experienced it, feel sorry for those who do.

I would not like to transition:

Fine in this body, thank you.

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

He or His Majesty...

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

Male.

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):*

...

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

Am cisgender.



Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):


Queer, fag, manwhore, a number of danish insults: bsserv, pikslikker, homo etc.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):*

Homosexual, gay, in danish bsse.

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:

No, danes are cool.

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

Nopes.

One negative thing about your sexuality:

Really want to mess with boys more but I am in a heterosexual relationship.


One negative thing about your gender:


Nothing really, though I would love to have had more of my mother's intuition.

One positive thing about your sexuality:


I am relaxed about it and people accept it.

One positive thing about your gender:

I mess around more than girls do here in Denmark. I like that!


Any other thoughts?:

Good survey, maestro!

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Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)- X
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)- X
Masculine (female)-X
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- X
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing- X
Quiet-
Open- X
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator- X
Compromiser-
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 10

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual 4

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 7


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 8

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 8

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 4


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): All my friends and some others, but if anyone asks I can tell them

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): male

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He, him, etc

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): my name, he, him, etc

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): eh..

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): fag, faggot, insults in spanish that I can't translate

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): ...

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: nope
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: nah

One negative thing about your sexuality: most guys I like are probably straight
One negative thing about your gender: nothing that I can think of
One positive thing about your sexuality: gives me a different perspective, feels good somehow to be part of a (kind of) minority, and most people are accepting anyway
One positive thing about your gender: don't have to deal with a pregnancy or menstruation I guess

Any other thoughts?: good survey
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