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Old March 29th, 2014, 05:35 PM   #21
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LOL I think you're the first person to get what I actually MEANT by that.

Thanks ;w;
Lol it seemed very straightforward to me. You already asked about pronouns XD

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Old March 30th, 2014, 07:23 PM   #22
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I hate that. Guys should be able to cry, girls shouldn't have to be emotional messes. Stereotypes are so ridiculous.
If this were on GT, I'd give this a like.
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Old April 6th, 2014, 01:35 PM   #23
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Any other thoughts?: Gender-wise and sex-wise I am male. I would never change that, but I would maybe to see if it is me try and look and even act more feminine. I would not change my voice since I see no reason to put te effort in that and changing myself to that degree. I do not do surgery unless vital so I have no desire to physically change myself. Even if I looked like a girl to others I wouldn't change my voice and I'd still tell everyone I am a boy and male because I am. I am just a boy who is sometimes neutral, sometimes feminine. Sexually I have ups and downs even though I have never dated or at times wish to date. I am not a true asexual and even if I was I'd still go by bisexual asexual. I like the idea of some sex but I am too shy, nervous, and scared to try anything sexual. I am not sure if I want anyone, I kind of wish to be alone for now.

Sexually I am more to myself and even if I could have sex with a person I'd see as ideal I'd still say no to it since I am not very sexual and would be too new to the act. Sex is not disgusting to me or unneeded, but I am very neutral to it and at times never interested. I am too myself sexuallly as in I could live a life of mastrubation with no sex with a partner and be happy that way. I'd only have sex if my partner desires it and if within reason. Romantically I guess I want love. I'd rather be with someone who is cisgender or more like me, non-conforming. Basically you can be homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual too, girly, masculine, boyish, feminine, but if you are feminine I'd rather you be a girl, if you are masculine I'd rather you be a boy. If you see yourself as male but biologically you are female or vice-versa then that is out of my comfort zone and personally I would be scratching my head as to why you are into someone as odd and confused as I on the issue.
Well personally I'm bigender, but I'm never going to get sex reassignment surgery, go on hormones, etc. I don't even pose as male that often.

Also, sounds like you could be grey-a. (Grey-asexual) Not quite asexual, but not quite sexual either. Out of all the blanket terms, this is probably the one I personally identify with the most, so I get where you're coming from mostly.

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Lol it seemed very straightforward to me. You already asked about pronouns XD
XD You're still the only one to answer it correctly though! Lmao!

Oh well, c'est la vie. At least you knew what I meant.

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If this were on GT, I'd give this a like.
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Old April 6th, 2014, 01:40 PM   #24
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;w; Aw thanks
It's the most annoying thing. I hate that stereotype with a passion
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Old April 6th, 2014, 01:57 PM   #25
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Well personally I'm bigender, but I'm never going to get sex reassignment surgery, go on hormones, etc. I don't even pose as male that often.

Also, sounds like you could be grey-a. (Grey-asexual) Not quite asexual, but not quite sexual either. Out of all the blanket terms, this is probably the one I personally identify with the most, so I get where you're coming from mostly.



XD You're still the only one to answer it correctly though! Lmao!

Oh well, c'est la vie. At least you knew what I meant.



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Old April 6th, 2014, 02:19 PM   #26
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It's the most annoying thing. I hate that stereotype with a passion
Me too

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I am very grey on things, some things too much so. Thanks for replying. I'll know more about myself later.
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Old April 6th, 2014, 02:33 PM   #27
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Glossary:

Cisgender: Someone whose gender is the same as their biological sex.
Transgender: Someone whose gender is opposite their biological sex.
Genderqueer: Somone whose gender does not entirely match up with either their biological sex or the opposite.
Nonbinary: Someone who does not conform to a gender.
Intersex: Someone who is born both male and female biologically/who has a disorder of the genitalia and biological sex.
Androgynous: Someone who looks gender neutral- could be either male or female.
Gender Dysphoria: Feeling like you're in the wrong body/feeling uncomfortable with your biological sex.
Transitioning: Receiving therapy and hormonal treatments to transition physically to the opposite sex. Here it is also used for one who has had sex reassignment surgery or who will.

Terms not used, but helpful to survey:
Agender: See nonbinary
Bigender: See gender queer, one who feels like they have two(or more) genders.
Grey-asexual (Grey-A): Experiences some sexual attraction, but does not consider themselves "sexual"

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open-
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: X
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): he

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): other

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: no
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: So common and normal
One negative thing about your gender: Body hair
One positive thing about your sexuality: I feel open about it and don't have to come out
One positive thing about your gender: Just being me

Any other thoughts?:

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Old April 6th, 2014, 03:01 PM   #28
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I am attracted to

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X - It really depends...
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing- X
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful-
Negotiator- X
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

XHeterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 X 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 X 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 X 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 X 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: X
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): She

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: no
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: yes

One negative thing about your sexuality: being unaware of certain struggles
One negative thing about your gender: I honestly can't think of anything...
One positive thing about your sexuality: not as many struggles
One positive thing about your gender: no period

Any other thoughts?:

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One positive thing about your gender: no period
*Sex, but still, I like the way you think, son.


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Old April 6th, 2014, 03:13 PM   #30
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Me too



No problem at all. Best of luck.
I'll need a lot more than luck. I am so confused and shy, and not free to explore that I feel borderline insane and neurotic, trapped and lonely. Oh no, I shouldn't have told you that... Sorry, I'll go.

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Old April 6th, 2014, 03:16 PM   #31
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I'll need a lot more than luck. I am so confused and shy, and not free to explore that I feel borderline insane and neurotic, trapped and lonely. Oh no, I shouldn't have told you that... Sorry, I'll go.
No believe me, I understand.

I mean, I was treated like a boy growing up, but also sometimes like a girl, and it just messed with my mind. Until recently (2012) it drove me absolutely ballistic, because I didn't know how to feel, or what the heck I was.

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Old April 6th, 2014, 04:11 PM   #32
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I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-x
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-x
Feminine (male)-x
Androgynous/neutral (male)-x
Both masculine and feminine (male)-x
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-x
Higher voices-x
Muscles-x
Smooth skin-x
Longer hair-x
Shorter hair-depends
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-x
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- x

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- x
Assertive-x
Peacemaker- x
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open-
Private-x
Trusting-x
Guarded-x

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-x


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):i'm not

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: i do want to
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:

GENDER

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- x

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-x

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:x

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:x

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:x
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.)he

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): she

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): gay, faggot (In a bad way, even they dont know about it)

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality:
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:

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Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)-


I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (male)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-


Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Smooth skin-
Longer hair- on girls
Shorter hair- on guys
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-


Personality features I am attracted to:
(I'm neutral to a lot of these, so I'm not going to include those)


Easy-going-
Quiet-
Open-
Trusting-

Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological female-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Feminine-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):
Feminine-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-
I have some clothes from the Men's section, but I think they're more neutral...?

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Melissa

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): Not totally sure if this is what you mean, but I don't like being called Mel lol.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):
Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: No

One negative thing about your sexuality: I get told that I'm confused. I was going to put this in words that offend but it fits so much better here since it's not so much offensive as it is irritating and a bit patronizing. Like when I say I'm not completely straight, but I don't identify as bi and I'm told "Oh you're just confused, you'll figure it out." I am quite clear on my sexuality thank you very much, there is nothing to figure out.

One negative thing about your gender: Nothing really... Well, it is annoying being made to feel bad by some trans* people on tumblr because I'm cis.

One positive thing about your sexuality: I don't have to deal with ignorant people who think that it's not "acceptable"

One positive thing about your gender: ^

Any other thoughts?: Mmmm...... Nope, don't think so.

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I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Melissa

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): Not totally sure if this is what you mean, but I don't like being called Mel lol.


One negative thing about your sexuality: I get told that I'm confused. I was going to put this in words that offend but it fits so much better here since it's not so much offensive as it is irritating and a bit patronizing. Like when I say I'm not completely straight, but I don't identify as bi and I'm told "Oh you're just confused, you'll figure it out." I am quite clear on my sexuality thank you very much, there is nothing to figure out.

One negative thing about your gender: Nothing really... Well, it is annoying being made to feel bad by some trans* people on tumblr because I'm cis.
-YAY ANOTHER PERSON WHO FIGURED IT OUT
-No yeah, that's exactly what I meant ;w;
-Ergh. As someone who is kind of dropping the label, I feel you. Everyone thinks that I'm confused, or that I just don't know, or I'm too young, and I'm just like please stop.
-I absolutely hate that side of Tumblr. I'm a female, trans*, not heterosexual POC and I still hate that side of Tumblr.


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Old April 10th, 2014, 01:26 AM   #35
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-YAY ANOTHER PERSON WHO FIGURED IT OUT
-No yeah, that's exactly what I meant ;w;
-Ergh. As someone who is kind of dropping the label, I feel you. Everyone thinks that I'm confused, or that I just don't know, or I'm too young, and I'm just like please stop.
-I absolutely hate that side of Tumblr. I'm a female, trans*, not heterosexual POC and I still hate that side of Tumblr.

Curious is another one I hate. They're basically the same I guess. I don't know, like for me it doesn't even seem to be about being too young or anything, it's just people not getting that there's stuff in between.

Anything along those lines confuses the hell out of me. If you come from a minority, why would you be so hateful and generalizing to someone else? Especially when a lot of those people are on your side?

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Curious is another one I hate. They're basically the same I guess. I don't know, like for me it doesn't even seem to be about being too young or anything, it's just people not getting that there's stuff in between.

Anything along those lines confuses the hell out of me. If you come from a minority, why would you be so hateful and generalizing to someone else? Especially when a lot of those people are on your side?
Ugh yeah. Thankfully it seems to be a teenage expression one grows out of.

Yeah, never gotten that one either. What's worse is that there are ALSO people on there who will stick their nose up at you because they feel they're more oppressed than you.

I get badmouthed for being a lighter POC, and having some amount of white privilege. Or just not being black, really.

I get badmouthed for not being transgender, or not wanting to transition.

I get badmouthed for being in a heterosexual relationship with a cisgender, heterosexual white men.

I get badmouthed for being born with discernible sex. By people who aren't even intersex.

It's like, a competition as to who can be the darkest, gayest, trans-est, most oppressed, whiniest piece of shit. The biggest feminist- or egalitarian. The most politically correct. The biggest snob. The loudest, most obnoxious, bitchiest idiot.

Ironically, being a white, cisgender, heterosexual male on Tumblr is damn revolutionary. I tip my hat to thee. They may have the privilege in real life, but you get eaten alive on Tumblr.

And everyone on there bitches about how reverse-racism doesn't exist, and cisphobia and heterophobia are satirical, misandry isn't a big deal, blah blah blah. No, those pricks totally make them all a reality. They're all VERY real. At least on Tumblr.

Because, unlike most homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, and racism, the hate SJ Tumbloggers have is not typically based out of MISINFORMATION, it is based out of WILLFUL IGNORANCE AND INTENTIONAL MALICE.

And while you can meet some genuinely nice people who have a huge flaw of homophobia, etc. just because they were raised to be prejudiced, SJ Tumbloggers are generally one-dimensional, whiny, and surprisingly spoiled for being 'oppressed'. I mean, half of these people can afford imported anime collections and figurines, etc. Cosplay- NONE OF THAT IS CHEAP. And a lot of them are fairly young, so usually financed by their own parents. And if they aren't, clearly they are not being so oppressed that they cannot be hired on at a place that pays decently.

There are some SJ bloggers who have SJ blogging as their main personality flaw, like one of my friends- who is also the main reason I don't really go on Tumblr. She's a genuinely wonderful person until the words CULTURAL APPROPRIATION or PRIVILEGE come up.

And yes, she is also one of the people who has attacked me for being lighter than her, not black (she is), and so on, just because I don't share in her hate of Disney. Because I don't take offense to every single thing in existence, and apparently she does.

Things are mostly mended, but there's still bad blood between us. Namely on my side. Which never happens.

I mean, THERE ARE WONDERFUL TUMBLOGGERS. My best friend who is like an older brother to me runs a blog. I've got several best friends who do. Even SOME SJ bloggers can be chill if SJ is not a topic for discussion.

SJ TUMBLR BLOGGING IS JUST AWFUL.

It practically ruins being on Tumblr for me. That's most of the reason I don't go on.

And yeah, this may have been a lengthy definition for the word hypocrite (which can be used in like, at least two contexts for SJ bloggers) but it felt good.


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I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female- X
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)- X
Androgynous/neutral (male)- X
Both masculine and feminine (male)- X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open-
Private-
Trusting-
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship and/or in general. (I'm so sneaky :3)

Asexual 1 2 3 X4X 5 6 -7- 8 9 Sexual (When I love someone, I usually love them romantically.)

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 -6- 7 8 9 10 Homosexual (and in General)

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 -4- 5 X6X 7 8 9 10. Dominant/Leader (Depends on the situation.)


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 -5 6 7- 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 -3 4 5 6 7 8- 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):X

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)- X

What gender do you identify as? (written):
I can't really identify as a gender.
I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
(Oh this is really complicated...)
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

Entirely depends on the environment, and my emotions.

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis- X

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: X
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: X
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:X

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):
I never cared. I'm often referred to as a he because of my biological sex. But he and she are both fine. They just sounds weird O.o

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.)
Well, I have only been thrown my real name.

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):
I don't know.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender: X
(I do not believe society will generally accept my feminine-ness.)
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):
I probably should put these in quotation marks. "fag", "faggot", any word referring to LGBT in a negative connotation.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): Nothing I can think of.

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yes I have. Many times.
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Nobody in real life knows my gender.

One negative thing about your sexuality: It's not accepted.
One negative thing about your gender: It's not accepted.
One positive thing about your sexuality: It gives me a sense of pride.
One positive thing about your gender: It gives me a sense of pride.

Any other thoughts?:

Actually, yes. I answered certain questions (about attraction to physical traits and personality traits) in accordance with what I'm attracted to. Not necessarily what I'm fine with. It's really quite unrestrictive on that end ;P

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Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- x
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-


Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- x
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive-
Peacemaker- x
Warrior-

Outgoing- x
Quiet-
Open- x
Private-
Trusting- x
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful- x
Negotiator- x
Compromiser-
Forthcoming- x
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): x

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): male

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: x

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: x

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): he

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Morpheus

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): scornful usage of words like "fag" "faggot" or "gay".

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: not really
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: nah, dog

One negative thing about your sexuality: nothing, take a walk on the wild side
One negative thing about your gender: nothing
One positive thing about your sexuality: "welcome to the dark side"

Any other thoughts?: no

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Alright, so I'll do this in two sections: Gender and Sexuality.


Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)- X (maybe. Idk really)
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-... I mean it depends. It's either REALLY hot or it's really NOT
Deep voices- x
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- x
Longer hair- x
Shorter hair- x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- x
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- same as body hair. It depends

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- possibly
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going-
Assertive- x
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing- x
Quiet-
Open- x
Private- x
Trusting- x
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser- x
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- XXXXX if someone is as sarcastic as me were freaking soulmates


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8X 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 X10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 x6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 X8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 X8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): does one person really count? I don't think so but most people have probably made the connection

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: x
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): cis male

I FEEL (mentally): it's a combination of all three at some points so I'm just going to check all of them
Masculine- x
Feminine- x
Androgynous/neutral-x

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: x
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): fag and faggot offend me. Like at points where I visible react to it, as opposed to keeping my reactions neutral when I hear someone hate speaking.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): trans. I used to be the most trans phobic mother effer. I'm over that little phase.

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: I mean people have called me a fag... Etc. so idk
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: nope

One negative thing about your sexuality: it is heavily stereotyped.
One negative thing about your gender: we have to live up to the expectations of getting a good job and supporting a family
One positive thing about your sexuality: boys.... umm but in reality I love love LOVE this community we have and how the (majority of us) are supportive of one another. We can all relate in some shape or form.
One positive thing about your gender: I am not discriminated against in workplaces or in another place where you get paid unequally because of gender

Any other thoughts?: I thought this survey was going to be hell but it was fun to take

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