Virtual Teen Forums
 

Go Back   Virtual Teen Forums > >
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar Mark Forums Read Chat Room

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old March 12th, 2014, 07:47 PM   #1
Karkat
Knight of Blood
 
Karkat's Forum Picture
 
Name: Ren Höek
Join Date: February 20, 2014
Location: Land of Pulse and Haze
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 2
Talking Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Alright, so I'll do this in two sections: Gender and Sexuality.

You're more than welcome to do this, even if you feel you're not LGBT I'm setting this up to be inclusive, and geared towards everyone.


Glossary:

Cisgender: Someone whose gender is the same as their biological sex.
Transgender: Someone whose gender is opposite their biological sex.
Genderqueer: Somone whose gender does not entirely match up with either their biological sex or the opposite.
Nonbinary: Someone who does not conform to a gender.
Intersex: Someone who is born both male and female biologically/who has a disorder of the genitalia and biological sex.
Androgynous: Someone who looks gender neutral- could be either male or female.
Gender Dysphoria: Feeling like you're in the wrong body/feeling uncomfortable with your biological sex.
Transitioning: Receiving therapy and hormonal treatments to transition physically to the opposite sex. Here it is also used for one who has had sex reassignment surgery or who will.

Terms not used, but helpful to survey:
Agender: See nonbinary
Bigender: See gender queer, one who feels like they have two(or more) genders.
Grey-asexual (Grey-A): Experiences some sexual attraction, but does not consider themselves "sexual"


Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going-
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open-
Private-
Trusting-
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality:
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:


--------------------------------------

My answers:

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female- X
Transgender male (biological female)- X
Transgender female (biological male)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks- Somewhat X

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)- X
Androgynous/neutral (male)- X
Both masculine and feminine (male)- X
Masculine (female)- X
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks- Somewhat X

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- X
Deep voices- X
Higher voices- X
Muscles- X
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing- X
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded- X

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator- X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3X 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8X 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4X 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10X Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3X 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8X 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8X 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality: X
Undecided:



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)- X

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis- X

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: X
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She/He/They are all fine.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Ren/Rey/Alex(weird, huh?)

Bee and Aubre are also acceptable if I like you. Anne may be ok I guess.

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): Aubrianne/Brianne/Bree

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): X

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Fag/faggot (as in not a cigarette ), tranny, dyke, gay bff/lesbo friend -_-

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): Queer, gay

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Hmm, yeah

One negative thing about your sexuality: It's hard to explain to people
One negative thing about your gender: It's hard to explain to people, and I almost never feel quite at ease with myself physically
One positive thing about your sexuality: It's very broad, and I'm fairly comfortable with it
One positive thing about your gender: I feel very good about it when I can portray myself the way I like

Any other thoughts?: Nah


Just a ghost

Nothing to see here

Last edited by Karkat; March 12th, 2014 at 07:57 PM. Reason: Answering
Karkat is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 12th, 2014, 08:00 PM   #2
Harley Quinn
Puddin'
 
Harley Quinn's Forum Picture
 
Name: Siobhan
Join Date: July 18, 2009
Location: London
Age: 22
Gender: Cisgender Female
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:


Biological females (cisgender females)-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:


Feminine (general)-

Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-

Features I am attracted to:


Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going-
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open-
Private-
Trusting-
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological female-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): Female

I FEEL (mentally):

Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):


Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:


Other

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: No

One negative thing about your sexuality: People still don't understand it.
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality: It's good knowing who I am.
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?: No.


Be not afraid of greatness; some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them.

[Emerald Dream] if I had a 30 minute orgasm, I would probably need to sleep for a week


~Stevennn

*Ali*
Harley Quinn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 12th, 2014, 08:22 PM   #3
backjruton
Awesome Poster
 
backjruton's Forum Picture
 
Name: JACK
Join Date: February 13, 2014
Location: Swinging from the chandelier (Hereford: UK)
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Personality and looks are about the same

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:


Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction- grey asexuality. I feel it but don't want to act with other people

Features I am attracted to:


Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- slightly

Personality features I am attracted to:

Easy-going-
Peacemaker-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open-
Private-
Trusting-
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual
Like we've said, grey asexual, I have the feelings but in no way want any physical contact for too long or too serious

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual:
I changed this from 10 to 9 because of romantic too... Relationships I can imagine slightly, but not anything sexual.

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader



Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual
Grey like I've said for me. I don't think I'd want to have sex or anything, atleast for a while

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): twice to my parents and god knows how many times to everyone else


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: nope
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: nope
I have however been discriminated I THINK because of my disability but that's different.

One negative thing about your sexuality: I find it all way too confusing but still want a label
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?: I filled in all I understood. My dad says he can't imagine me being gay because I don't strike him as feminine common stereotype there.

Last edited by backjruton; April 17th, 2014 at 11:31 AM.
backjruton is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 12th, 2014, 08:56 PM   #4
Blood
Banned
 
Name: Jess
Join Date: November 6, 2009
Location: Bend over, stick your hand up your ass, and pull.
Gender: Cisgender Female
Blog Entries: 12
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)- X
Transgender female (biological male)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks- X (I am Xing out this area because I am attracted to personality as well)

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- X
Deep voices- X
Higher voices-
Muscles- X
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair-
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X- somewhat

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker- X
Warrior- X

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator-
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): Somewhat

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: Yes
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): Female

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes- X
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: Yes
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: No
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: No
I don't experience gender dysphoria: Yes

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: Yes
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): She

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): He

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): Yes

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): None offend me

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Yes

One negative thing about your sexuality: People tend to think being bisexual means that you're sexually confused. That's not the case at all. Being bisexual means we like both sexes. We're not confused and we know what we want sexually (for the most part).
One negative thing about your gender: Periods, discrimination for being female, easier weight gain.
One positive thing about your sexuality: everything.
One positive thing about your gender: Boobs.

Any other thoughts?: OR NAAAAWWWW

Last edited by Blood; June 29th, 2014 at 12:36 AM.
Blood is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 13th, 2014, 05:17 AM   #5
Syvelocin
Ocean Soul
 
Syvelocin's Forum Picture
 
Name: Rith
Join Date: August 2, 2009
Location: The Emerald City, OR
Age: 25
Gender: Female
Blog Entries: 3
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:

Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-


I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-


Features I am attracted to:

Smooth skin-
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-


Personality features I am attracted to:

Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going-
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Open-
Trusting-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader

I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

Gender

I am:

Sex:
Biological female-

Gender:
Genderqueer/Nonbinary-

What gender do you identify as? (written): Genderfluid

I FEEL (mentally):
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-

I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:

I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would not like to transition:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She. I don't usually care. In a more gender-inclusive world, I would opt for alternate pronouns, but I don't care enough for it to be worth the hassle.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Rith

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Nothing really. I dislike the world lesbian but it doesn't offend me.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): Cunt, dyke

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Not outside of internet bullying
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: ^

One negative thing about your sexuality: Lack of relationship candidates.
One negative thing about your gender: Lack of understanding. I thought being gay was the most of my problems there. I didn't know ignorance till I identified genderfluid. I've met other genderqueer people who don't get me.
One positive thing about your sexuality: Girls are hot.
One positive thing about your gender: I can know for sure I am being myself, as I give myself total freedom of expression void of gender constraints.

Any other thoughts?:


And I'm sorry I didn't build your walls. And I'm sorry I had to go and fall.
And I'm sorry I had the whole thing wrong. Well, I guess I'm the sorriest of all.
And I'm sorry that you are feeling small. And I'm sorry that I'm not used to crawling.
And I'm sorry the writing's on the wall. Well, I guess I'm the sorriest of all.
Syvelocin is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 13th, 2014, 06:02 PM   #6
jayce_xt
Member
 
jayce_xt's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: February 28, 2014
Gender: Male
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sweet Bird-Jesus, mother of All-Terrain Venomoth... what am I getting myself into? To make this less cluttered, I'm just gonna erase all the ones I'm not attracted to.

Cisgender: Someone whose gender is the same as their biological sex.
Transgender: Someone whose gender is opposite their biological sex.
Genderqueer: Somone whose gender does not entirely match up with either their biological sex or the opposite.
Nonbinary: Someone who does not conform to a gender.
Intersex: Someone who is born both male and female biologically/who has a disorder of the genitalia and biological sex.
Androgynous: Someone who looks gender neutral- could be either male or female.
Gender Dysphoria: Feeling like you're in the wrong body/feeling uncomfortable with your biological sex.
Transitioning: Receiving therapy and hormonal treatments to transition physically to the opposite sex. Here it is also used for one who has had sex reassignment surgery or who will.

Terms not used, but helpful to survey:
Agender: See nonbinary
Bigender: See gender queer, one who feels like they have two(or more) genders.
Grey-asexual (Grey-A): Experiences some sexual attraction, but does not consider themselves "sexual" [/B]


Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female- X
Transgender male (biological female)- X

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (female)- X
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X

Features I am attracted to:

Deep voices- X
Higher voices- X
Muscles- X
Smooth skin- X
Shorter hair- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker- X

Outgoing- X
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X

Candid- X
Tactful- X
Negotiator- X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic-X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual: 9

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual: 2

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader: 5.5


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual: 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader: 5.5


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual: 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader: 5.5

Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male- X

Gender:
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)- X

What gender do you identify as? (written): My sex is male, but gender? No idea. I don't pay enough attention to label that, really.

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral- X

I mainly:

Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X

I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: X

I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: X

I would not like to transition: X

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): Don't care, though am amused if referred to as a female.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): It's usually easier if I'm addressed as male, so I know without looking that you're probably referring to me. But otherwise, no real preference.

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): ... douchebag? Asswipe? I dunno. As long as it's nothing rude, you can address me by it. Just don't expect me to understand immediately if it's something other than "he/him/hey you".


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Faggot always bothered me for some reason.

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Sort of?
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: I don't know.

Any other thoughts?: Huh. This survey wasn't so long, after all.
jayce_xt is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 13th, 2014, 06:41 PM   #7
DisneyPrincess27
Member+
 
DisneyPrincess27's Forum Picture
 
Name: Ayanna
Join Date: January 16, 2014
Location: Los Angeles, California
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-X
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-X
Deep voices-X
Higher voices-X
Muscles-X
Smooth skin-X
Longer hair-X
Shorter hair-X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X (If a guy wants to wear makeup sure why not)

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)-X
Easy-going- X
Assertive-X
Peacemaker-X
Warrior-X

Outgoing-X
Quiet-
Open-X
Private-X
Trusting-
Guarded-X

Candid-
Tactful-X
Negotiator-X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming-X
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 8

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual 1

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 3


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 2


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 10

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 10

I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:

Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.
I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female-X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-X
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-X
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): She/Her, but I'm okay with anything really

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:

Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Faggot

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: yes once

One negative thing about your sexuality: Idk can't think of any right now
One negative thing about your gender: Serotypes
One positive thing about your sexuality: Sadly, It's more accepted
One positive thing about your gender: I think girls can get away with my than boys can

Any other thoughts?: Everyone is equal

They don't have to understand you be still, Wait and know I understand you be still
-Again//Flyleaf
DisneyPrincess27 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 13th, 2014, 09:04 PM   #8
HadesLady
Member+
 
HadesLady's Forum Picture
 
Name: Persephone
Join Date: September 24, 2012
Age: 21
Gender: Transgender MtF*
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-X
Biological females (cisgender females)-X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-X
Transgender male (biological female)-X
Transgender female (biological male)-X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-X
Both masculine and feminine (general)-X
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-X
Androgynous/neutral (male)-X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-X
Androgynous/neutral (female)-X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-X
Muscles-
Smooth skin-X
Longer hair-X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-X
Dominant (Leader)-X
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker-X
Warrior-

Outgoing-X
Quiet-X
Open-X
Private-
Trusting-X
Guarded-

Candid-X
Tactful-
Negotiator-X
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 10

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual 5

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 6


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 5


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 10

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 5


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): YES

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):Male

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-X

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:X

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:No

One negative thing about your sexuality:idk
One negative thing about your gender:idk
One positive thing about your sexuality:
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:GREAT survey

--------------------------------------

Transgender,Gamer,Goth,Weird,Fun,Funny,AWESOME



Feel free to PM me.I'm kinda shy,but once I open up I'll talk about anything
HadesLady is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 13th, 2014, 10:18 PM   #9
Babs
draft dodger
 
Babs's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: September 14, 2013
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- X
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male- X
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female- X
Transgender male (biological female)- X
Transgender female (biological male)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)- X
Both masculine and feminine (general)- X
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)- X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)- X
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- x (depends actually)
Deep voices- X
Higher voices- X
Muscles- X
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair- X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X- somewhat

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive- X
Peacemaker- X
Warrior- X

Outgoing- X kind of
Quiet- X kind of
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming- X
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 "9" 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 "6 7" 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 "4 5 6" 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 "7" 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 "5" 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 "8" 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 "6 7" 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): no one has ever asked

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: Yes
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender female

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): Female

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes- X
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: Not sure
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: No
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: No
I don't experience gender dysphoria: Yes

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: Yes
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): She

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): He

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Dyke if used as an insult

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): dyke

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Yes

One negative thing about your sexuality: None, really. except people assume you claim it for attention. :p
One negative thing about your gender: sexism, I guess
One positive thing about your sexuality: Idk, more choices.
One positive thing about your gender: Boobs i guess.

Any other thoughts?

Last edited by Babs; March 28th, 2014 at 08:18 PM.
Babs is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 14th, 2014, 07:06 PM   #10
Paraxiom
neophyte ietsist
 
Paraxiom's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: August 25, 2013
Location: Ireland
Age: 21
Gender: Neutral
Blog Entries: 3
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)- X
Both masculine and feminine (male)- X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices- X
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-
Open- X
Private- X
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful- X
Negotiator- not sure
Compromiser- not sure
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: X
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)- X

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes- X
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): certain names...

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): Faggot

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): Gay, queer

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: No
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: No

One negative thing about your sexuality: Have to wait until there's someone I like who I know isn't at least straight
One negative thing about your gender: I try to keep crying/being emotional to myself, seen as weird that guys cry but not so when girls do so.
One positive thing about your sexuality: Idk, love is love I am fine with it!
One positive thing about your gender: I am fine with this too!

Any other thoughts?: Put some Xs twice, because one X wouldn't be enought to describe me, still unsure of quite a few things though.

--------------------------------------
Paraxiom is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 14th, 2014, 10:44 PM   #11
Karkat
Knight of Blood
 
Karkat's Forum Picture
 
Name: Ren Höek
Join Date: February 20, 2014
Location: Land of Pulse and Haze
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 2
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Quote:
Originally Posted by Syvelocin View Post
One negative thing about your gender: Lack of understanding. I thought being gay was the most of my problems there. I didn't know ignorance till I identified genderfluid. I've met other genderqueer people who don't get me.
One positive thing about your sexuality: Girls are hot.
One positive thing about your gender: I can know for sure I am being myself, as I give myself total freedom of expression void of gender constraints.
Oh, I know, right. I don't know a TON about genderfluid, but people never seem to understand bigender. Or I'll get called a "lukewarm transgender" like there's something wrong with not wanting to give up how I feel as female, or not wanting to transition or something.

Girls ARE hot.

I feel kind of the same way about my gender. I mean, there will be times when I'll feel 'really girly' or 'really gay', but it's not a huge thing. I don't feel so weird about looking/acting/being mistaken for a guy anymore. It used to really bother me, but now I feel comfortable with it, even excited.

Quote:
Originally Posted by ayanna9067 View Post
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X (If a guy wants to wear makeup sure why not)

One negative thing about your gender: Serotypes
I know, right?

Ugh, stereotypes are the worst.

Quote:
Originally Posted by ContinuingToLive View Post
One negative thing about your gender: I try to keep crying/being emotional to myself, seen as weird that guys cry but not so when girls do so.
I hate that. Guys should be able to cry, girls shouldn't have to be emotional messes. Stereotypes are so ridiculous.


Just a ghost

Nothing to see here
Karkat is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 16th, 2014, 02:32 PM   #12
Paraxiom
neophyte ietsist
 
Paraxiom's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: August 25, 2013
Location: Ireland
Age: 21
Gender: Neutral
Blog Entries: 3
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Quote:
Originally Posted by WisenUpJanetWeiss View Post
I hate that. Guys should be able to cry, girls shouldn't have to be emotional messes. Stereotypes are so ridiculous.
They are indeed.
Paraxiom is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 16th, 2014, 04:42 PM   #13
Faolan
Nice Poster
 
Faolan's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: May 15, 2011
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- x
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- x
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)- x
Androgynous/neutral (male)- x
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)- x
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices- x
Higher voices-
Muscles- x
Smooth skin- x
Longer hair-
Shorter hair- x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive- x
Peacemaker-x
Warrior-x

Outgoing-x
Quiet-
Open-x
Private-
Trusting-x
Guarded-

Candid-x
Tactful-
Negotiator-x
Compromiser-x
Forthcoming-x
Sarcastic-x


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual)

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine-x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-x

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-x
Feminine-x
Androgynous/neutral-x

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-x
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):he

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): others

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): fag, homo, dyke, etc...

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): queer

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: tough to date people
One negative thing about your gender: not supposed to be emotional
One positive thing about your sexuality: fun and different from majority of people
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:


"Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth." -Benjamin Disraeli

Last edited by Faolan; April 22nd, 2014 at 10:01 PM.
Faolan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 16th, 2014, 08:38 PM   #14
The Flash
Member++
 
Join Date: August 9, 2012
Age: 19
Gender: Male
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)- x
Biological females (cisgender females)- x
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- x
Feminine (general)- x
Androgynous/neutral (general)- x
Both masculine and feminine (general)- x
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)- x
Both masculine and feminine (male)- x
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- x
Androgynous/neutral (female)- x
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- x
Longer hair-
Shorter hair- x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- x
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- x
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive-
Peacemaker-
Warrior- x

Outgoing-
Quiet- x
Open- x
Private-
Trusting- x
Guarded- x

Candid-
Tactful- x
Negotiator-
Compromiser- x
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- x


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: xx
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male-x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral- x

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- x
Wear gender neutral clothes- x
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: x

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: x
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): she

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:



Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): faggot/fag

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): queer

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?:
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality: A lot of people cant accept the fact that people are gay. And they don't agree with it.
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality: boys
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?: a bit confusing (big words), but it was great.

My Milkshake Brings All The Boys To The Yard
The Flash is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 16th, 2014, 09:53 PM   #15
Luminous
Legendary Member
 
Luminous's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: July 21, 2013
Location: USA
Gender: Cisgender Female
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)- X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)- X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)- X
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- X
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing- X
Quiet- X
Open-
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-
Negotiator-
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 x9x 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 x10x Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 x3x 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship. Not in a relationship

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 x 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 x9x 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 x9x 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): Sort of. If asked I tell the truth, but I don't tell people without being asked, except for my parents.

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:
X I think


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male-
Biological female- X
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written): Female

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine- X
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two: X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): She

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Hannah

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): I don't know... the rude ones I guess?

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Not directly, because the people who would discriminate I have not told.
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:

One negative thing about your sexuality: Some people hate gays?
One negative thing about your gender: Some people hate girls?
One positive thing about your sexuality: At least I don't have to worry about who I am
One positive thing about your gender: ^^

Any other thoughts?:
Nice survey

val
Luminous is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 16th, 2014, 10:48 PM   #16
Karkat
Knight of Blood
 
Karkat's Forum Picture
 
Name: Ren Höek
Join Date: February 20, 2014
Location: Land of Pulse and Haze
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 2
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Quote:
Originally Posted by lovelyhannah View Post
I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): Hannah

Any other thoughts?:[/B] Nice survey
LOL I think you're the first person to get what I actually MEANT by that.

Thanks ;w;


Just a ghost

Nothing to see here
Karkat is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 17th, 2014, 02:50 AM   #17
Lovelife090994
VT Lover
 
Lovelife090994's Forum Picture
 
Name: Valentine
Join Date: December 31, 2012
Location: From Ohio now in Texas
Gender: Male
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)-X
Biological females (cisgender females)-X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-X (yes and no)

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-X
Feminine (general)-X
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-X
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-X
Both masculine and feminine (male)-X
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-X
Androgynous/neutral (female)-X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-X
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

(Added) I like many features but not to the point where the personality is a turn-on sexually.)

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-X
Deep voices-X
Higher voices-X
Muscles-X
Smooth skin-X
Longer hair-X
Shorter hair-X
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-X
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- X

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-X
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker-X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet-X
Open-X
Private-X
Trusting-X
Guarded-X

Candid-X
Tactful-
Negotiator-X
Compromiser- X
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual):

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality: Uncertain
Undecided: Yes



Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male-X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)-X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-X

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine-X
Feminine-X
Androgynous/neutral-X

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine-
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-X

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex-X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:X

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:X
I don't experience gender dysphoria:

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition:X
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written):X

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.):

I would not like to be addressed by(see above):

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:X


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): No clue here I guess. I mainly hate insults used out of context regardless of relation.

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): ?

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: Yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: No

One negative thing about your sexuality: Uncertainty
One negative thing about your gender: Uncertainty
One positive thing about your sexuality: Not so much sexual
One positive thing about your gender: Not so much one or the other but still aligned with my sex

Any other thoughts?: Gender-wise and sex-wise I am male. I would never change that, but I would maybe to see if it is me try and look and even act more feminine. I would not change my voice since I see no reason to put te effort in that and changing myself to that degree. I do not do surgery unless vital so I have no desire to physically change myself. Even if I looked like a girl to others I wouldn't change my voice and I'd still tell everyone I am a boy and male because I am. I am just a boy who is sometimes neutral, sometimes feminine. Sexually I have ups and downs even though I have never dated or at times wish to date. I am not a true asexual and even if I was I'd still go by bisexual asexual. I like the idea of some sex but I am too shy, nervous, and scared to try anything sexual. I am not sure if I want anyone, I kind of wish to be alone for now.

Sexually I am more to myself and even if I could have sex with a person I'd see as ideal I'd still say no to it since I am not very sexual and would be too new to the act. Sex is not disgusting to me or unneeded, but I am very neutral to it and at times never interested. I am too myself sexuallly as in I could live a life of mastrubation with no sex with a partner and be happy that way. I'd only have sex if my partner desires it and if within reason. Romantically I guess I want love. I'd rather be with someone who is cisgender or more like me, non-conforming. Basically you can be homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual too, girly, masculine, boyish, feminine, but if you are feminine I'd rather you be a girl, if you are masculine I'd rather you be a boy. If you see yourself as male but biologically you are female or vice-versa then that is out of my comfort zone and personally I would be scratching my head as to why you are into someone as odd and confused as I on the issue.

My Wiccan blog: Blessed be http://lapislazulisights.tumblr.com/“I am but a wayward soul traversing the physical plane with Earth as my mistress and I her humble witch.”
Art http://artboy-2.deviantart.com/

Lovelife090994 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 28th, 2014, 05:01 AM   #18
Hermes96
Member++
 
Hermes96's Forum Picture
 
Name: Aaron
Join Date: January 5, 2013
Location: west midlands
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 1
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)-
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as: confidante , kind funny

Masculine (general)- X
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)-
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices-
Muscles- X
Smooth skin-x
Longer hair-
Shorter hair-x
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- x
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)-
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)-
Dominant (Leader)- x
Easy-going- x
Assertive- x
Peacemaker-
Warrior-

Outgoing-x
Quiet-
Open-x
Private-
Trusting- x
Guarded-

Candid-
Tactful-x
Negotiator-
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic-


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 7

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual 9

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 3


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 7

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 3


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual 7/8

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader 9


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): yes

Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:gay
Sex: male
Biological male- x
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- x
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally): male
Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- x
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- x
Wear gender neutral clothes- x
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: x
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa:
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: x

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: x
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): he

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): he him ect

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): her she ect

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender):

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related):

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light):

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: yes
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?:no

One negative thing about your sexuality: being called female by teachers for likeing men
One negative thing about your gender:
One positive thing about your sexuality: guys buts
One positive thing about your gender:

17 gay open to talk to new people about anything serious or just random stuff . i l love random skype calls at like 3 in the morning
]Pass the parcel. That's sometimes all you can do. Take it, feel it, and pass it on. Not for me, not for you, but for someone, somewhere, one day. Pass it on, boys. That's the game I want you to learn. Pass it on.
GAP
it's better to look like a fool for five minutes than to remain ignorant for ever
Hermes96 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 29th, 2014, 03:43 PM   #19
Cognizant
Smoothie King
 
Cognizant's Forum Picture
 
Name: Patrick
Join Date: January 25, 2012
Location: Bay Area CA
Age: 20
Gender: Cisgender Male
Blog Entries: 1
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:


Biological males (cisgender males)- X
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male- unsure
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female- unsure
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)- unsure
Transgender female (biological male)- unsure
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)- (generally towards bio/cisgender males) x
Feminine (general)- (generally towards biological/cisgender female) x
Androgynous/neutral (general)- x
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)- x
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)- x
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)- (depends)
Feminine (female)- x
Androgynous/neutral (female)- x
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair- yes
Deep voices- yes
Higher voices- depends
Muscles- oh yes
Smooth skin- indifferent
Longer hair- see below
Shorter hair- i prefer medium hair
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)- in between
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- in between
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement- yes

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- usually in a heterosexual relationship
Dominant (Leader)- usually in a homosexual relationship
Easy-going- yes
Assertive- in certain situations/when the time calls for it
Peacemaker- see above
Warrior- not really

Outgoing- yes
Quiet- depends
Open- very much so
Private- no
Trusting- yes
Guarded- i don't know

Candid- as long as its not extreme
Tactful- yes
Negotiator- sure
Compromiser- in some situations
Forthcoming- don't understand the context
Sarcastic- as long as they can be serious when the time calls for it


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual Im not sure

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader
Depends, I'm usually dominant in hetero but submissive in homosexual relationships

Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual
Elaboration: I want a partner that would be comfortable having sex at some point in the relationship but not so sexual that sex is whats driving the relationship.

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): I came out as bisexual but I'm questioning again

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality: indifferent
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided: yes


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:


Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):

Masculine- yes
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X

Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)- no
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- yes
Wear gender neutral clothes- some
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis- no

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa: i guess
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: no
I feel somewhere in between these two: no

I experience gender dysphoria all the time: no
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes: no
I don't experience gender dysphoria: yes

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: x
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): he, him, etc.

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): she, her, etc.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): n/a

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): mostly just "you're such a fag"

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): gay

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: in a way
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: no

One negative thing about your sexuality: i have no fucking clue what i like
One negative thing about your gender: guys are dickwads
One positive thing about your sexuality: (i think) i have freedom to date whoever i want
One positive thing about your gender: idk

Any other thoughts?:


--------------------------------------
Cognizant is offline   Reply With Quote
Old March 29th, 2014, 05:24 PM   #20
Synyster Shadows
Banned
 
Name: Andrew
Join Date: January 22, 2013
Location: MA, USA
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 27
Default Re: Sexuality and Gender: A Survey!

Sexuality

Put an X next to which ones apply to you.

I am attracted to:

Biological males (cisgender males)-
Biological females (cisgender females)- X
Nonbinary/agender, biological male-
Nonbinary/agender, biologically female-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological male-
Bigender/genderqueer, biological female-
Transgender male (biological female)-
Transgender female (biological male)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I experience limited sexual attraction/ I am sexually attracted to personality, not looks-

I am attracted to those who portray themselves as:

Masculine (general)-
Feminine (general)-
Androgynous/neutral (general)-
Both masculine and feminine (general)-
Masculine (male)-
Feminine (male)-
Androgynous/neutral (male)-
Both masculine and feminine (male)-
Masculine (female)-
Feminine (female)-
Androgynous/neutral (female)- X
Both masculine and feminine (female)-
I do not experience sexual attraction-
I am not sexually attracted to looks-

Features I am attracted to:

Body hair-
Deep voices-
Higher voices- X
Muscles-
Smooth skin- X
Longer hair- X
Shorter hair-
'Bigger' people (as in tall, big boned, etc.)-
'Smaller' people (as in short, small boned, etc.)- X
Makeup/temporary cosmetic enhancement-

Personality features I am attracted to:

Submissive (Follower)- X
Dominant (Leader)-
Easy-going- X
Assertive-
Peacemaker- X
Warrior-

Outgoing-
Quiet- X
Open- X
Private-
Trusting- X
Guarded-

Candid- X
Tactful-
Negotiator- X
Compromiser-
Forthcoming-
Sarcastic- X


Place on the scale where you feel you are at in general.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Heterosexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Homosexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place on the scale where you are at in a relationship.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


Place where you would like your ideal partner to be.

Asexual 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sexual

Submissive/Follower 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Dominant/Leader


I am out about my sexuality(If not heterosexual): N/A

(If not)I want to be out about my sexuality:
I do not want to be out about my sexuality:
Undecided:


Gender

Put an X next to the ones that apply to you.

I am:

Sex:
Biological male- X
Biological female-
Intersex/etc.-
In the process of transitioning-

Gender:
Cisgender (biologically and mentally the same gender)- X
Transgender (biologically the opposite gender than mentally)-
Genderqueer/Nonbinary (Not mentally male or female: neither/both/in-between)-

What gender do you identify as? (written):

I FEEL (mentally):
Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I PORTRAY myself as (physically):

Masculine- X
Feminine-
Androgynous/neutral-

I mainly:

Crossdress (Wear clothes of the opposite sex biologically)-
Mostly wear clothes designed for my biological sex- X
Wear gender neutral clothes-
Do some or all of the above on a regular basis-

I feel like my personality affects my gender, and vice versa:
I feel independent of my gender when it comes to personality, and vice versa: X
I feel somewhere in between these two:

I experience gender dysphoria all the time:
I experience gender dysphoria sometimes:
I don't experience gender dysphoria: X

I would like to transition:
I would not like to transition: X (I guess)
Undecided:

Preferred pronouns (He, She, They, some/all of the above)(Written): He, him, etc.

I would most prefer to be addressed by(written, can be multiple things for multiple genders/etc.): He

I would not like to be addressed by(see above): She, her, etc.

I am out about my gender(If not cisgender): N/A

(If not)I want to be out about my gender:
I do not want to be out about my gender:
Undecided:


Other

Words that offend me (LGBT-related): gay, faggot, cunt, anything derogatory really

Words I am reclaiming (Used to be bad, but I would like to see in a positive light): gay - it needs to used to mean happy again...

Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality?: nope
Have you ever been discriminated against because of your gender?: Probably, without my realizing it

One negative thing about your sexuality: N/A
One negative thing about your gender: People think I'm a jerk at this age...
One positive thing about your sexuality: Does being comfortable with it count...?
One positive thing about your gender:

Any other thoughts?:
Synyster Shadows is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 04:47 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright©2000 - 2017
Search Engine Optimisation provided by DragonByte SEO (Lite) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2017 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
Copyright © 2004 - 2017, VirtualTeen.org