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Old June 10th, 2018, 07:34 AM   #1
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Hi everyone! I posted on here a couple months back looking for advice on showering in the locker room for swim class and you were all really helpful and made it easier for me to work up the courage and use the showers. Im still showering after our regular gym class today and I really appreciate all the help I got.

I have a different shower question now though. Me and my BFFs stayed at one of their houses Friday night. Yesterday we were late getting up and had places to be so my friends mom told us we were going to have to share the showers. There were five of us so she sent three of us to the master bathroom shower (because it has two showerheads) and the other two to the regular bathroom shower.

One of my BFFs is in my gym class so we were used to showering "together" and I'd changed plenty of times with all the others, but we'd never showered before in such a tight space. These were normal bathroom showers not big gym showers. It was a little awkward but we made it work.

My question is: is this normal? Have you ever showered in a regular shower with your friends? Was my BFFs mom right to have us shower together? Should I avoid this in the future?

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Old June 10th, 2018, 07:39 AM   #2
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I have showered with my friends. We have a outdoor shower for the pool/hot tub. We have a no clothing rule for the pool/hot tub so we shower alone or with another girl. Before going in the water you have to shower before going in the water.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 07:50 AM   #3
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Me and my BFF have showered together at sleepovers a couple of times. Not as exciting as it might sound though.

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Old June 10th, 2018, 08:09 AM   #4
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I have showers at school which I hate because everyone can see you. But I do share the shower with my best friend at sleepovers and that's ok because we've been used to seeing each other like that since we were little.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 08:21 AM   #5
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The only times I shower with someone else like you describe is either before or after sex. I’ve just never been in a situation you describe, but it sounds like it was out of necessity
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Old June 10th, 2018, 09:00 AM   #6
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I've showered with people at school but never at home. I've changed in front of friends at home and we've taken turns using the shower at home so we'd both be in the bathroom together but not the shower. I don't think there anything wrong with it though.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 09:17 AM   #7
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Yes, more times than I could possibly count when sleeping over at friends houses or traveling and staying in hotel rooms with friends families. Their moms always put two or three of us in the shower together. It's not an issue for me. It's crowded sometimes if there are three of us in a regular sized bathtub taking a shower, but it's not like you are groping each other or anything. It's only skin and taking a shower isn't sexual. If you bump or touch in the process, so what? You aren't doing anything bad.

We always had a huge above ground pool in our yard and still have a hot tub in the yard. My parents put in a huge tiled shower at the bottom of the basement stairs before I was born with enough room for 8-10 people at a time. Ever since I was little, I have showered in it with my friends both boys and girls before and after going in the pool or hot tub.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 10:30 AM   #8
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when i was 14/15 i used to all the time

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Old June 10th, 2018, 12:12 PM   #9
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I shower with other girls in school showers and sometimes at home in the pool shower. My BF and I just showered together this weekend when we got out of the pool. But I think your normal.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 09:44 PM   #10
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Nothing wrong with being naked around friends lol so as long as all of you were okay showering together, it's alright. If any of you were uneasy about it, then it would be a problem but as long as you're okay, it's fine!
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Old June 11th, 2018, 05:38 AM   #11
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My question is: is this normal? Have you ever showered in a regular shower with your friends? Was my BFFs mom right to have us shower together? Should I avoid this in the future?Sorry if this doesn't belong in Puberty for Girls mods. Wasn't sure where to put it.
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Old June 11th, 2018, 10:23 AM   #12
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Yes, I've showered with friends. Nothing abnormal about it at all. Have also showered with some I have just met, usually when we go to nudist camps/resorts and stuff. Still also shower with my brothers, lil sis, etc. So, yeah, it's totally normal in my book.
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Old June 11th, 2018, 10:53 AM   #13
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Nothing wrong or strange there...
We shower in school after training and matched and at sleep overs. We are just us girls, what should we worry about? I think the boys have a harder time being naked around each other...
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Old June 11th, 2018, 10:57 AM   #14
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Nothing wrong or strange there...
We shower in school after training and matched and at sleep overs. We are just us girls, what should we worry about? I think the boys have a harder time being naked around each other...

What do you mean? You mean cos they will comparing their penises?!!
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Old June 11th, 2018, 11:18 AM   #15
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I've done that. No bug deal
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Old June 11th, 2018, 12:32 PM   #16
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What do you mean? You mean cos they will comparing their penises?!!
No haha. But 2 guys showering together alone will always trigger some comments about being gay and they also have the risk of getting hard unintended.
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Old June 11th, 2018, 12:32 PM   #17
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Ive done it before too, not a big deal. Ive shared with a friend at sleepovers or after we swim. Dont do it often, just when were kind of in a rush
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No haha. But 2 guys showering together alone will always trigger some comments about being gay and they also have the risk of getting hard unintended.
O, haha, now I understand. Yeah sometimes we have advantages and sometimes boys.
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Old June 11th, 2018, 06:48 PM   #19
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I don't see anything wrong with it I've done it and still do sometimes.




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Old June 11th, 2018, 08:08 PM   #20
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There is nothing wrong, I do it all the time Lol

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