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Old March 3rd, 2018, 06:33 AM   #1
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I'm 14 and my ex-boyfriend, C. (18) , now has 'I love my little bat S.' in his bio and for some reason I feel weird about it. I'm not so sure what the feeling is, but it's some sort of angry.. I guess. What frustrates me about him is how he claims to love people but after a while choses to act vain and after the relationships ends he's over them in 2 days. (Random thought while writing this: maybe I was in love with him, but I was able to notice the warning signs and the red flags??) We dated almost a year and our relationship was fun at first; my mom was fine with it and liked him, we have the same music taste and humour, but after a while he started acting different. We had many 'fights', he tried to control what I wore ('I'm just trying to protect you!'), he got mad at me when I didn't want to see him at friday night because I felt really tired and just wanted to watch a movie and sleep, I noticed he didn't respect my mom at all, he got really jealous when I befriended this guy who is my cousins best friend, after a 'fight' he always wanted to make out instead of talk or say sorry or something andhe was really focused on pushing my sexual boundries ( I was fine with certain things but he kept nagging that he wanted me to give him a blowjob, for example). I told him I would break up with him if he didn't change his behaviour. I was confused by my feelings at the time and I was convinced that him changing his behaviour would make it okay again. He did change his behaviour as much as he could in the three weeks before I thought 'this isn't what I want' and broke up with him. I broke up with him while I was sleeping over at L. her house, who was my girlfriend the next day. From all the friends I have, I've been friends with her the longest and everyone noticed we liked eachother, C. did too, even though we didn't have a clue. A week later C. and I hang out at my house because while he may be childish and vain, his intentions are good so I wanted to stay friends. He was already dating someone else, who's 16. They started talking on instagram and after a day she already asked him as her boyfriend. He claimed he loved her and I don't know, it was kind of funny as he's 18 and still acts like a 10 year old on Habbo. They met in real life, and she immediatly broke up with him. 'We barely know each other'. He was sad for a day, the next day he texted me and told me that when he was over at mine he wanted to kiss me and other stuff. He said that while he knew I'm dating L. Another day later went to S. her house and a day later that's in his bio. Please help me interpetate this mess.
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Old March 3rd, 2018, 03:27 PM   #2
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Default Re: ex bf drama

Heed the red flags. He is too
old for u and he is using u
and obsessive. Lose him and
don't look back. Find someone
ur own age to mature together.
B glad hes ur X.
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Old March 3rd, 2018, 05:10 PM   #3
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Run, and dont look back

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