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Old February 28th, 2018, 03:38 PM   #1
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Do you guys beleive in friends with benefits?

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Old February 28th, 2018, 03:41 PM   #2
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no, personally i don't believe it works, one member of the friendship ends up emotionally invested eventually
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Old February 28th, 2018, 05:50 PM   #3
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I would never have a friend with benefits, personally they doing work and you end up ruining the relationship
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Old February 28th, 2018, 07:33 PM   #4
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Complete bullshit. Either you have someone you frequently hook up with and fuck, or you have a BF/GF, or you have a friend. The whole "FWB" garbage is just that. Say you have a fuck buddy and be done with it, because most of the time, you're not hanging out and doing tons of "friend" stuff with your so-called "FWB." You just get together and fuck. Period.
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Old February 28th, 2018, 08:00 PM   #5
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I have had people in the past (never when I was dating like I am now) where (with guy or girl) we would get together just for the sex and that's all it was. never got weird. maybe that is not the way it should have been, but it was and it never got weird or no one was hurt.

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Old February 28th, 2018, 08:05 PM   #6
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i think it can work, but only if both people are on the same page from the start.

i have a friend that doesn't live close so when we do get to hang out we can have dinner, drive around, hang out... and also fuck if she's in the mood lol
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Old February 28th, 2018, 09:01 PM   #7
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Definitely a thing, had quite a few. No one got attached, it was just what it was - two friends having sex. But, usually for me it would only be like during nights out or if we were both going to something. We would rarely ask to meet up just for that. Plus, they're all still really good friends now
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Old March 1st, 2018, 01:45 AM   #8
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Most people can't handle it. They get attached too easily. But it definitely a thing.


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Old March 1st, 2018, 03:54 AM   #9
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I feel I would get attached as well because I have only gone as far as Tonguing so having to finger, and getting a hj/bj and then sex might be too overwhelming.

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Old March 1st, 2018, 10:54 AM   #10
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I had a fwb for a pretty long time but after a while I wanted more but he didn't so it ended.
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Old March 1st, 2018, 02:28 PM   #11
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no, personally i don't believe it works, one member of the friendship ends up emotionally invested eventually
I agree with Elijah. I read the other replies, and though I never had a fwb, for my thinking I will be worried about other feelings developing, and if it doesn't change into a love relationship then it will ruin the friendship.
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Old March 1st, 2018, 05:15 PM   #12
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I had one before meeting my gf, we both agreed it was only for sex and both had never had any problem with it, when I started dating my gf we stopped, now two years later we are still friends.

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Old March 1st, 2018, 08:40 PM   #13
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I'm demisexual so I would be the last person to be caught in a friends with benefits situation. I'm sure there's people out there that would be able to handle the situation without developing feelings.

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Old March 1st, 2018, 10:33 PM   #14
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It can work but it's sorta difficult. I have one such friends and for us it works fine.
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Old March 1st, 2018, 10:44 PM   #15
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As I see it, it can work well for a time. But after a while FWB morphs into EWB (Enemy Without Benefits).
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Old March 1st, 2018, 11:20 PM   #16
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For some people it probably works, but not for the most people, i guess. So it may work for a short time, but no one should rely on it longterms.





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Old March 2nd, 2018, 03:09 AM   #17
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Yes. Most of the time, it's a slippery slope into a ditch. The parties need to be mature enough to do it. When I did it, I was very naive and I already had feelings for the guy, which was really bad. It's all about maturity and being sensible.

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Old March 2nd, 2018, 04:17 AM   #18
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It's been so long. I have had a gf for over 2 years. And she was my first. But before her I had several friends who would blow me or i would go down on. Never got awkward. But then We never had sex or went past oral so maybe that matters idk.
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Old March 2nd, 2018, 12:49 PM   #19
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I have friends that I hang out with and do stuff with who I have casual, no strings sex with and it doesnt get awkward.

Everything isnt for everybody, so to each his own.

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Old March 2nd, 2018, 03:21 PM   #20
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No-Its a good way to ruin a
friendship. Romantic feelings
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