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Old January 11th, 2018, 05:08 PM   #1
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So i met this girl 2 days ago and i allready like her
So we have 4 classes together and u try to talk to her in gym and math and history daily and also am talking to her via messanger i think thats abit much. She doesnt have alot of freinds and sits alone. So am i being too needy
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Old January 11th, 2018, 05:17 PM   #2
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She might not be used to so much attention and she might also be a bit shy. But she probably would want a really good friend for starters and with a good chance of becoming her bf pretty quickly.

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Old January 11th, 2018, 05:29 PM   #3
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I don't think so just make sure you don't overwhelm her. Just try to get to know her, then you'll know if you're being too needy or not
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Old January 11th, 2018, 05:53 PM   #4
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You could scare her off if you're putting too much pressure on her. Just take it nice and slow and see if she acts on any feelings also.
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Old January 11th, 2018, 07:04 PM   #5
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You are not needy. You might lighten up a bit but let her know that you really like her and are very happy that you are friends.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
I am also glad to try help with questions or problems.
Hit me up for anything. I promise I don't bite.
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Old January 11th, 2018, 08:18 PM   #6
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Why do you think your being needy?
Does she not reply or something?

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Old January 12th, 2018, 04:01 AM   #7
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It doesn't matter how many ways that you have of contacting her. It matters how often you are contacting her. Remember that relationships are built slowly over time, not in a hurry. And there is something to be said about making a girl want to hear from you. If she's hearing from you everyday, she doesn't have time to miss you.

I really admire the fact that you like a girl and are willing to do something about. So many posts in this forum are about what to do and how to start. You're clearly ready to go for it. Girls love confidence.


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Old January 12th, 2018, 08:22 AM   #8
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Ur going at it too fast. She seems shy and
u might scare her if u get too clingy. Ease
up a bit- u only know her a few days. Let
the relationship grow a little. Get to know
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Old January 21st, 2018, 01:32 AM   #9
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Not sure needy is the right term. Maybe overwhelming. Flip it around. Try to think about it from her perspective and you'll have your answer.

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Old January 21st, 2018, 06:05 AM   #10
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So i met this girl 2 days ago and i allready like her
So we have 4 classes together and u try to talk to her in gym and math and history daily and also am talking to her via messanger i think thats abit much. She doesnt have alot of freinds and sits alone. So am i being too needy
Yeah, you should continue talking! Then when you get to know her more, try having a day not messaging her and see if she realises your not there, if she does and messages you, then you know she misses you.

Happy to Chat about anything!! Hit me up! "
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Old January 21st, 2018, 03:23 PM   #11
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no try and talk to her and see if maybe she wants to grab a bite to eat or something.
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Old January 26th, 2018, 09:01 PM   #12
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if she enjoy your Company then no

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Old February 17th, 2018, 11:29 PM   #13
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Well if shes not surrounded by that many people. Supply and Demand dominate Go get em tiger

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Old February 21st, 2018, 10:53 AM   #14
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Not sure needy is the right term. Maybe overwhelming. Flip it around. Try to think about it from her perspective and you'll have your answer.
This. "Needy" really isn't the right term. But you're probably coming on too strong. It's simple, if you have to ask yourself (or others) if you're being "needy" or overwhelming, then you are. Back off a bit, give her the chance to come around to you too rather than you always being in her face (or on her phone or whatever).
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