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Old February 4th, 2018, 01:27 AM   #1
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Let me start off by giving you a brief summary of my dating history. The only time I've ever dated anyone was for two weeks in Gr 7, and I was so young that I'm sure it doesn't count. Very few times have girls shown interest in me. I was on a girl's hook all through high school.

And now at university, I don't really like a girl, so Idk who to go for. There's a girl that lives in my building that is friendly but I don't know her name and I've talked to her enough that I'll look stupid if I ask for it. There is a girl across the hall but she spends a lot of time in her room and Idk how or when I will see her next.

And to make matters worse, at 19 yrs old, I'm a virgin. I feel like if something doesn't happen soon I'll be seen as a freak because of it. No one understands how frustrating this is. It is incomprehensible how I feel. The other day I got so frustrated that I trashed my room. Just started throwing things. Any advice is appreciated. Thx for letting me vent.


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Old February 4th, 2018, 01:36 AM   #2
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Not all of the girls will have experience. Maybe knock on this girl's door and say hi.
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Old February 4th, 2018, 04:49 AM   #3
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The girl u talked to for awhile u
would b stupid if u don't ask for
her name. Next time when u c
her just say I enjoy talking with
u but I never got ur name. The
girl across the hall-knock and
introduce urself.
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Old February 4th, 2018, 11:22 PM   #4
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The girl u talked to for awhile u would b stupid if u don't ask for her name. Next time when u c her just say I enjoy talking with
u but I never got ur name. The girl across the hall-knock and introduce urself.
The girl across the hall knows my name and who I am. I've spoken to her when I've bumped into her several times, but often these times are a week or several weeks apart. Should I make an excuse to knock on her door? When do I invite her out? (just on a date at first obviously and I'd see where it goes from there). How soon is too soon?


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Old February 4th, 2018, 11:27 PM   #5
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there's always tinder..
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Old February 5th, 2018, 12:33 PM   #6
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The girl across the hall knows my name and who I am. I've spoken to her when I've bumped into her several times, but often these times are a week or several weeks apart. Should I make an excuse to knock on her door? When do I invite her out? (just on a date at first obviously and I'd see where it goes from there). How soon is too soon?
Yeah Id knock on her door and ask her
if she would like to go out for something
to eat or for a soda-ur treat. I wouldn't
make it seem like a date at first cause
she may think u r pressuring her but
if there is a next time u can ask her if
she is interested in dating. Its up to u
if u consider it a first date. U will know
her reaction how and if she accepts ur
invitation to go out. Id ask her right
away or better yet if and when u c her.
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Old February 5th, 2018, 03:39 PM   #7
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When you meet the girl in your building, just propose her to go out for a coffee or something like that
If she can't then get her number so you can stay in touch more often
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Old February 6th, 2018, 09:37 PM   #8
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There is never any rush to loose your virginity. Make sure it's someone you really care about. What's the harm in asking that girls name? You've never been introduced so ask her and tell her that you would like to have lunch or something to get to know her. You will know who she is and what your chances are by doing that.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
I am also glad to try help with questions or problems.
Hit me up for anything. I promise I don't bite.
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Old February 7th, 2018, 02:50 AM   #9
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There is never any rush to loose your virginity. Make sure it's someone you really care about. What's the harm in asking that girls name? You've never been introduced so ask her and tell her that you would like to have lunch or something to get to know her. You will know who she is and what your chances are by doing that.
I know that my opinion might not mean much as a virgin, but you have to realize that once you've done it a few times it's a roll in the hay, not a walk on the moon.


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Old February 7th, 2018, 01:56 PM   #10
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That may be true but making love is a true expression of love and passion between two people. That is the closest two people in love can get to each other.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
I am also glad to try help with questions or problems.
Hit me up for anything. I promise I don't bite.
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Old February 7th, 2018, 01:59 PM   #11
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Always element of sx
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