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Old February 1st, 2018, 12:35 AM   #1
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I know itís way in advance of prom, but I have been thinking about it. There is this girl that I have grown close to as a friend but I kind of like her. In June, we are going on an outdoor backpacking trip through a tour company. So my first question: Since I am going on a long trip with her, should I avoid asking her?

Iím a quiet person and she is too, so she wouldnít like it if I did a big ask. Iím also worried that when I ask her she will ask if we are going as friends or as a couple. If I tell her I like her will it be awkward especially because we are going on a long trip together?

Iím sorry if it is confusing but I just need some advice because she is a close friend and I wouldnít want to end my senior year with an awkward prom. Advice?

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Old February 1st, 2018, 05:18 AM   #2
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Ask her during your outdoor trip, in its second half. Specially, if you're having a good time there.
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Old February 1st, 2018, 06:15 AM   #3
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Just ask her during the trip. If she asks
as friends or a couple say Just a couple
of friends. If u get to know each other
much better than u already do c where
it goes from there.
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Old February 1st, 2018, 07:39 AM   #4
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bring it up on the side by talking about school stuff, prom etc. during your trip and, depending what she may say, then ask her out for the prom.





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Old February 1st, 2018, 09:54 AM   #5
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I'm going to assume that prom is before the trip. So ask her to prom as a friend to keep things low key. Then, just let something more develop naturally. I think if you put any pressure on her to start a relationship, things might get awkward.
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Old February 2nd, 2018, 02:43 AM   #6
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I would ask her right after the trip. If you ask her before, it could ruin the trip.


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Old February 2nd, 2018, 10:13 AM   #7
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All of the advice given here is to ask the girl during the trip in June. Doesn't prom take place a month or more before they go on the trip?
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Old February 3rd, 2018, 10:13 AM   #8
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Ask her during your outdoor trip, in its second half. Specially, if you're having a good time there.
I would absolutely do the same !
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Old February 3rd, 2018, 10:38 AM   #9
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Whether you ask her before, during, or after the trip its going to be awkward for you, so either way youre going to have to muster up the courage and just jump out there. As far as if you will be going as friends or as a couple, I would suggest as friends first and see if anything more develops.

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Old February 5th, 2018, 01:26 AM   #10
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Thanks for the advice guys. My trip is over the summer so prom comes before my trip.

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Old February 6th, 2018, 09:43 PM   #11
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Well if prom would be your real first date then you would go as friends. If you like her why don't you ask her out and start dating and take it from there.

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Old February 13th, 2018, 05:09 PM   #12
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I know itís way in advance of prom, but I have been thinking about it. There is this girl that I have grown close to as a friend but I kind of like her. In June, we are going on an outdoor backpacking trip through a tour company. So my first question: Since I am going on a long trip with her, should I avoid asking her?

Iím a quiet person and she is too, so she wouldnít like it if I did a big ask. Iím also worried that when I ask her she will ask if we are going as friends or as a couple. If I tell her I like her will it be awkward especially because we are going on a long trip together?

Iím sorry if it is confusing but I just need some advice because she is a close friend and I wouldnít want to end my senior year with an awkward prom. Advice?

If you are close to a girl, she may be past the "i see this guy as a potential boyfriend" due to you being close. You won't loose her as a friend if you ask her to prom. You won't know unless you ask her. If you think she will say no, then try not to be constantly with her on the trip, that way, she will miss your company and wonder where you have gone. Then when you talk again, pop the question and say "sorry I plucking up the courage to ask you to prom" It may work may not. But its worth a try.

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Old February 17th, 2018, 04:30 PM   #13
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I would ask her during the trip in the middle

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