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Old June 26th, 2018, 05:09 PM   #1
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Default Does lack of alone-time inhibit your activity?

It seems that many of us pass up occasions for intimacy because we can't get enough alone time. Others are more indifferent and some enjoy the idea of doing things with other people nearby.

Do you care if someone else hears (or even sees) you during a sexual activity and does it matter if it's masturbation, oral, vag, or anal? And how does that change if it's an stranger versus a friend versus a sibling?

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Old June 26th, 2018, 05:43 PM   #2
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Depends on the situation. I'm usually very private when I'm masturbating, I wouldn't feel comfortable at all doing it in front of any family members who are close to me. But I have masturbated in front of friends before a couple of times during sleepovers. We are almost all very intimate with each other and we have done sexual stuff before. I never really masturbated in front of complete strangers.

It's the same thing for oral sex. I've done it in front of friends.

I probably wouldn't have vaginal or anal sex in front of other people unless I was having a threesome or something like that.

Don't really care about people hearing me having sex unless they're my family.

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Old June 26th, 2018, 10:39 PM   #3
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I wonder how many of these threads get started by *girls* who really need advice and want to know, and how many are really guys looking to get cheap thrills by having girls answer these questions for their own jollies. I've been catfished on this site before and am leery of answering some of these posts by supposed *girls* For instance, one *girl* I was once PM'ing changed her username and used several different Pinterest photos pretending to be a *girl* she was not. In fact, *she* now uses an avatar and has completely abandoned using a real photo of herself nowadays. I have no intention of answering this post and would caution other real girls from responding to this post too.
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Old June 27th, 2018, 11:40 AM   #4
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Yes!!!!! Not having some "girl time" can be so annoying...that it becomes a distraction for me. :/ Or even hard to get a good night's sleep!!
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Old June 27th, 2018, 06:17 PM   #5
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Yes!!!!! Not having some "girl time" can be so annoying...that it becomes a distraction for me. :/ Or even hard to get a good night's sleep!!
I totally agree. Masturbating before bed is my stress reliever to calm me down when I get ready for bed.
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Old June 28th, 2018, 02:54 PM   #6
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I don't care if my sister or brother-in-law or friends are around (depending on the friend it's sometimes more fun with them around), but I try not to do anything when my nieces might see (they're 2 and 4). So that inhibits me a little I guess.
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Old June 28th, 2018, 03:08 PM   #7
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I totally agree. Masturbating before bed is my stress reliever to calm me down when I get ready for bed.
You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.

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Old June 28th, 2018, 03:12 PM   #8
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You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.
Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!

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Old June 28th, 2018, 03:19 PM   #9
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Cant remember the last time i went to bed alone and didnt masturbate... i just love it and need it!
Yeah, me too. If I'm not having sex on that night then it's almost guaranteed that I'm going to masturbate. My body needs pleasure.

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Old June 29th, 2018, 05:46 AM   #10
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You're absolutely right. I think all girls should masturbate before going to bed.
you are right..i do agree..it is a greatest stress reliever..i did mbating with my group girls ( we are at now 5 from my class )..we did oral too within ourselves. But never in front of boys or strangers or parents.

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Old June 29th, 2018, 02:45 PM   #11
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Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break
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Old June 29th, 2018, 05:15 PM   #12
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I luckyly have my own room so I can mastrubate every night. But I would not feel comfortable doing it in front if my family. When we travel I stay awake the last sonI can do it in the shower or toilet but it is not the same thing.
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Old June 29th, 2018, 10:05 PM   #13
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Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break
Thissss

It does get tricky other times... but like others said, if you have your own room you usually get a pretty good shot at it at least every night!
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Old June 29th, 2018, 11:58 PM   #14
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Thissss

It does get tricky other times... but like others said, if you have your own room you usually get a pretty good shot at it at least every night!

Summer break seems the perfect time for more masturbating

I feel for you girls who don't have the privacy of your own rooms
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Old June 30th, 2018, 08:32 AM   #15
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Getting privacy for anything more than masturbation is pretty hard. I've masturbated with friends and have done oral too. I would't care if a friend or sibling heard or saw me.

Not sure I'd want siblings to see me having vag or anal, though not sure I'd always care if they heard. It might be fun to do either together with friends at some point.
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Old June 30th, 2018, 10:40 AM   #16
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I don't care if friends see or hear. They do it too sometimes. If I'm fooling around in public, I don't care if random people know but I don't want to get in trouble so I try not to be too obvious. I don't want my family to see or hear. That would be totally awkward and embarrassing.
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I don’t have any siblings and both my parents work, so I’m not really lacking any alone time especially during the summer

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My parents are at work all day but my sister is always around. She doesnt bother me too much so I get enough alone time when I need to
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Luckily I dont have any siblings and my parents are at work all day so Im loving my summer break
Lucky!!!

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Depends on the situation. I'm usually very private when I'm masturbating, I wouldn't feel comfortable at all doing it in front of any family members who are close to me. But I have masturbated in front of friends before a couple of times during sleepovers. We are almost all very intimate with each other and we have done sexual stuff before. I never really masturbated in front of complete strangers.

It's the same thing for oral sex. I've done it in front of friends.

I probably wouldn't have vaginal or anal sex in front of other people unless I was having a threesome or something like that.

Don't really care about people hearing me having sex unless they're my family.
This is a lot like me I think. Except that I know family have heard some things. It's a little embarrassing for sure but sometimes noises happen or whatever lol.
But the same for friends and idk about doing it in front of a stranger. I dont know when that would happen unless it was some kind of dare lol

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