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Old January 16th, 2018, 03:00 PM   #1
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How would you react, especially if they somehow were able to keep it a secret until you've been dating for about a year?

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Old January 16th, 2018, 03:10 PM   #2
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If you have a bf or gf you're supposed to share everything so keeping any secret isn't really right. But he/she might be embarrased about it or the family rule may be to keep it private.

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Old January 16th, 2018, 03:13 PM   #3
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If you have a bf or gf you're supposed to share everything so keeping any secret isn't really right. But he/she might be embarrased about it or the family rule may be to keep it private.
Thanks for the response but it doesn't really answer the question.

And just to clear things up this is a hypothetical. I am always upfront with anyone I date, but I usually only date nudists anyway.

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Old January 16th, 2018, 03:24 PM   #4
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Thanks for the response but it doesn't really answer the question.

And just to clear things up this is a hypothetical. I am always upfront with anyone I date, but I usually only date nudists anyway.
I'd be fine with it and would join in. Maybe I'd like being a nudist.

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Old January 16th, 2018, 07:14 PM   #5
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I'm a pretty open minded person... I'd be fine with it...I'd try it... if it worked out great if not that's fine too.

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Old January 16th, 2018, 08:21 PM   #6
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Id probably ask if we can all go
on a picnic. But really I wouldn't
mind. If they don't find anything
wrong with going nude and my
hypothetical girlfriend was not
embarrassed by it then y not.
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Old January 17th, 2018, 02:23 AM   #7
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I think I'd be a bit weirded out.
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Old January 17th, 2018, 04:11 AM   #8
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First I'll be asking her why didn't she tell me about her family and their preference since that is an important thing know when you're dating. After we cleared things out, of course I will support their preference. I will be respectful, maybe try it out too once I get past being kinda awkward at first.



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Old January 17th, 2018, 10:19 AM   #9
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I would probably be bothered that she/he waited so long to tell me. But I'd be open to trying it out.
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Old January 17th, 2018, 04:26 PM   #10
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I think I’d be concerned she didn’t mention it before, but I’d try and understand why she didn’t. Might take me a while before I were willing to try it though but I don’t see a problem with it as long as she were comfortable.
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Old January 18th, 2018, 02:27 AM   #11
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How would you react, especially if they somehow were able to keep it a secret until you've been dating for about a year?
I'm really curious, which side of this situation are you on? Are you the nudist or is your partner?


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Old January 18th, 2018, 02:50 AM   #12
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The PC thing is to say you're suposed to accept everything if you love the person right? That's what everyone always says including girls on here when guys have small dicks ... Girls always answer "if you love the person, it doesn't matter."

Personally for me I would love it since I have been to nude beaches and nude resorts even tho I don't consider myself a nudist.

For the average person I think the first question is why was it a secret for a year. Secondly the person may have to then decide if they can love that lifestyle. And if no, the nudist would have to decide if they could live with the non nudist if they were close to 18 cuz before then you're just dating for fun and who cares but after 18 you have to decide if your lifestyles are compatable
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Old January 18th, 2018, 05:11 AM   #13
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Just would ask them: Why?





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Old January 18th, 2018, 05:51 AM   #14
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I'm cool with that. As long as we can understanding each other.
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Old January 18th, 2018, 09:43 AM   #15
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I'm really curious, which side of this situation are you on? Are you the nudist or is your partner?
Well if you look at my username that should give you a clue

But I just asked to get a discussion started. I am always upfront since I wont date someone long term who doesn't end up enjoying the things I do, especially something that is such a big part of my life

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Old January 18th, 2018, 04:53 PM   #16
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id expect to be open about our lives so I would be surprised if they hadn't already shared that fact
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Old January 18th, 2018, 07:03 PM   #17
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I don't think (s)he would be able to keep it a secret for a year. Especially after I have been intimate with someone, my clothes stay/go off quite quickly, so in other situations than sex too. And we'd talk about being/staying nude around each other. The next step towards them saying to be a nudist is easy.

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Well if you look at my username that should give you a clue

But I just asked to get a discussion started. I am always upfront since I wont date someone long term who doesn't end up enjoying the things I do, especially something that is such a big part of my life
Well I would be really upset. I don't expect any girl to write me a copy of their autobiography but the big things should be mentioned well before the first anniversary.

Also, don't make the nudist thing something that you hold against guys. You aren't looking for an identical twin; you're looking for someone that you love that fits into your life. Gloves aren't identical to hands so you just have to find one that fits.


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Old January 19th, 2018, 01:00 PM   #19
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Well I would be really upset. I don't expect any girl to write me a copy of their autobiography but the big things should be mentioned well before the first anniversary.

Also, don't make the nudist thing something that you hold against guys. You aren't looking for an identical twin; you're looking for someone that you love that fits into your life. Gloves aren't identical to hands so you just have to find one that fits.
I like your gloves quote!!

However, the "nudist thing" is a big part of my life, friends, events, volleyball tournaments, vacation destinations. There are things you are okay being different from your S/O and there are things you are not.

For me, this is one

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I like your gloves quote!!

However, the "nudist thing" is a big part of my life, friends, events, volleyball tournaments, vacation destinations. There are things you are okay being different from your S/O and there are things you are not.

For me, this is one
Thank you! I actually made it up on the spot!

I just mean that sometimes it's important to have something outside of your relationship that is yours. Not every experience has to be shared.


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