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Old January 2nd, 2018, 05:24 AM   #1
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Just broke up with my boyfriend. How to reduce pain?
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Old January 2nd, 2018, 05:40 AM   #2
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Chocolate and loud music.
And friends!
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Old January 2nd, 2018, 06:37 AM   #3
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get a puppy. or another boyfriend.
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Old January 2nd, 2018, 11:26 AM   #4
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go out, friends, animals (puppies and cats as someone already said) start doing what u like.Be busy - hobby, game,studying,training,improving ! Just if you do something you gonna at least entertain yourself and you won't think about him.
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 12:59 PM   #5
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social interaction is key. don't get caught up in your room all day. go out meet friends. if they aren't available still go out for a walk maybe, clear your head. many find exersize helps get over things. try to do things to take your mind off it and stay strong
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 04:35 PM   #6
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Start going out and meet new people
whether at school or at work. Join a
club go to the mall or volunteer at
some charitable organization.
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 04:47 PM   #7
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Go out with friendos, and meet new people.

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Old January 5th, 2018, 01:10 AM   #8
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You concentrate your thought that are on him on the reasons that your relationship didn't work out. Think about how incompatible the two of you are, how what you want out of life is different, or how you left because he was a total jerk. After you think about that you think about how wonderful it is that you aren't wasting more time on him when a much better guy could be around the corner.

If you aren't strong enough to have these realistic thoughts yet, which you probably aren't since it happened so recently, spend your time doing things that better yourself. Join a club, read a book, spend time with friends doing activities that you both enjoy. There are better things to do than lying in bed for a month eating haagen dazs.

Not today, and maybe not tomorrow, but at some point you need to put yourself back on the dating market. If you are debating whether or not you are ready, that's when you are ready. Just remember that.


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Old January 5th, 2018, 07:45 PM   #9
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Hang with friends, find a hobby

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Old January 8th, 2018, 05:36 AM   #10
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Hello, I think you should make your self busy in your favorite activities and move on.
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Old January 8th, 2018, 07:21 AM   #11
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Just take your time. If it hurts too much, talk to someone who can listen. Write it off your soul ... right into a journal. Meet friends more often ... etc etc





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Old January 11th, 2018, 11:22 PM   #12
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Well a lot of people suggest meeting new people but if it was me i would probably hibernate for few days. So I will say do try what gives you happiness- whether going out with friends or reading book in a park. Try to find inner peace and gain energy.
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Old February 17th, 2018, 11:30 PM   #13
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Go out, more and more

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Old February 23rd, 2018, 04:23 PM   #14
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Time.
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Old February 23rd, 2018, 04:28 PM   #15
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don't think about it anymore. Maybe take up a new hobby or spend time with friends
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Old February 23rd, 2018, 09:38 PM   #16
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Just broke up with my boyfriend. How to reduce pain?
Just work towards accepting that it wasn't meant to be, and you're moving on to other things. Your feelings are valid, so allow yourself to feel them and also know that they will pass.

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