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Old December 23rd, 2017, 05:10 PM   #1
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Christmas isnít supposed to be a really good and happy time for people. But thatís not always the case. Thereís many things that can make any holiday not so happy for them. Maybe a traumatic event or bad memory, or some family issues that cause people to fight when there all together.

Itís usually not so great for me either. The holidays remind me of my dadís death. Itíll be 3 years this New Years. And last week my foster brother I became realty attached to over this last year moved back with his parents. Iím really happy for him but itís also really sad for me. I miss him already so much

I just wish all this loss could maybe spread out some so itís not always around Christmas and the holidays.

So I do hope everyone has a great Christmas and New Years this year. It isnít a really special time of year.

But if itís not so hot for you, feeling sad around the holidays for whatever reason,maybe share it here so others may know how you feel and so that those not feeling do happy holidays know they arenít alone

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Old December 23rd, 2017, 10:21 PM   #2
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It is a rough time for me because I miss my parents.

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Old December 24th, 2017, 01:06 AM   #3
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It is a rough time for me because I miss my parents.
Can I ask where they are?

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Old December 24th, 2017, 02:43 AM   #4
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Can I ask where they are?
They passed

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They passed
My dad did to
Who do you live with?

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My dad did to
Who do you live with?
My aunt and uncle

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My aunt and uncle
That’s cool. Your lucky you have family to take you in like that

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Old December 24th, 2017, 11:06 AM   #8
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Sorry about your guys’ losses. My mom moved to France so this is gonna be my first Christmas without her. Previous years haven’t been so hot either because it just reminds me of being poor and her being sick but... hopefully that will change this year...

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Sorry about your guysí losses. My mom moved to France so this is gonna be my first Christmas without her. Previous years havenít been so hot either because it just reminds me of being poor and her being sick but... hopefully that will change this year...
Well hey you are t alone @Mars. Weíll be here for ya

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This is my tenth christmas without my father.
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Old December 24th, 2017, 11:14 AM   #11
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This is my tenth christmas without my father.
Does the hurt ever go away or does it just get easier or what?
I feel like itíll never go away
Itís not just itís christmas itís the whole holiday season cause he does during the holiday. Not sure if that makes it different or not. Iím sure everyone whoís lost someone will feel sad now no matter when they lost someone

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Old December 24th, 2017, 11:20 AM   #12
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it gets better over time
the anniversaries are the worst though,
i.e. my father died on 8/20/07 that date every year sucks for me
same with his birthday
so, yes it gets better
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Old December 24th, 2017, 11:37 AM   #13
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it gets better over time
the anniversaries are the worst though,
i.e. My father died on 8/20/07 that date every year sucks for me
same with his birthday
so, yes it gets better
1/1/14

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it gets better over time
the anniversaries are the worst though,
i.e. my father died on 8/20/07 that date every year sucks for me
same with his birthday
so, yes it gets better
Thanks bby xoxo

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This'll be the last Christmas I spend with my family. Between that, some personal issues, and just seasonal depression, it's been a rough last few days.

I hope you're all doing well. Let's try to enjoy this Blue Christmas together.

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Old December 24th, 2017, 04:26 PM   #17
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wow...
Yeah so i5s still kinda fresh.
I hope it does get easier. Cause it still feels like yesterday sometimes.
Especially around the holidays

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This january will be one year since my brother and mum died

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This january will be one year since my brother and mum died
Thatís pretty fresh to bro. What I do when stuff gets me worked up like that is take a day off from school and stuff. But Iím already off for Christmas break anyways.

You know what youíll do to get past that?
What day in January?

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Old December 24th, 2017, 10:14 PM   #20
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I'm suffering from some personal issues as you might know so I'm not the most eager this year (not to mention our family doesn't really celebrate it and all our family is in China), but I still really enjoy the festivities and love spread during Christmas. Love you all, and I hope you guys find closure, happiness and success in your life. Merry Christmas!
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