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Old December 21st, 2017, 12:21 AM   #1
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So yea im a new member btw so be gentle if i do it wrong. Anyway so i just turned 18, and im the oldest in my circle, most of my grade for that matter, and this pretty awssome girl has been flirtimg with me for a couple of weeks, only problem is shes 16 and in grade 11, me being in grade 12. What should i do?
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Old December 21st, 2017, 12:59 AM   #2
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So yea im a new member btw so be gentle if i do it wrong. Anyway so i just turned 18, and im the oldest in my circle, most of my grade for that matter, and this pretty awssome girl has been flirtimg with me for a couple of weeks, only problem is shes 16 and in grade 11, me being in grade 12. What should i do?
Well really the age of consent is different in each state.

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Old December 21st, 2017, 01:18 AM   #3
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Well really the age of consent is different in each state.
Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally
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Old December 21st, 2017, 01:20 AM   #4
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Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally
Lol sorry bout that mate, used to the US system. I wouldnt think so, i see it sometimes in the US and no one really cares, only a two year difference

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Old December 21st, 2017, 01:22 AM   #5
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I'm going to say this just because it's a bit important;
Although your age is just fine, and it really shouldn't be a problem, once you get out of High School you might see those who are still in it to be too immature to have a relationship with. Some have maintained healthy relationships outside of High School, but I can definitely say there is a difference. Whether you can deal with that or not is really what you should be asking yourself, as it really can get complicated.
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Old December 21st, 2017, 01:42 AM   #6
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I'm going to say this just because it's a bit important;
Although your age is just fine, and it really shouldn't be a problem, once you get out of High School you might see those who are still in it to be too immature to have a relationship with. Some have maintained healthy relationships outside of High School, but I can definitely say there is a difference. Whether you can deal with that or not is really what you should be asking yourself, as it really can get complicated.
Yea thanks actually thats a fair point, ill deffinatly keep that in mind, thank you
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Old December 21st, 2017, 05:53 AM   #7
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That's barely an age gap imo. I think 14/16 would be unacceptable but 16/18 seems pretty normal to me.
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Old December 21st, 2017, 02:46 PM   #8
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Your both at the age of consent so that alone should make it ok. And some 16 year olds are as mature as some 18 year olds. I'd take the chance to get to know her some and see if you two could make a go of it.
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Old December 21st, 2017, 03:07 PM   #9
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that is not exactly big problem
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Old December 21st, 2017, 03:45 PM   #10
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Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally
Depends on the girl. If she's as mature as you are then I don't see an issue

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Old December 21st, 2017, 07:28 PM   #11
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That is not a big difference

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Old December 21st, 2017, 08:15 PM   #12
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I don't find it an issue at all. I'm 19 and have done stuff with younger - it's all about you both feeling comfortable
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Old December 22nd, 2017, 02:48 AM   #13
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There is only a year between the two of you. I don't think that it is a big deal. If you are interested in pursuing a relationship with her I don't see why you shouldn't give it a try.


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Old December 22nd, 2017, 04:39 AM   #14
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Depends on the girl. If she's as mature as you are then I don't see an issue
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That is not a big difference
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Old December 22nd, 2017, 01:53 PM   #15
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I don't think that there is any problem here, you are only 2 years oder than her and if you are both happy with the situation then I hope you will both be happy together.
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There shouldnt be an issue if the age of concent in your state/country is 16! As for a social aspect people might look at you weird for dating younger but again if you both like eachother then you learn to ignore it
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Old December 29th, 2017, 04:12 AM   #17
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... its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally
My thoughts exactly.
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Old December 29th, 2017, 06:49 AM   #18
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I don't think it's so much of a problem. I'm 19 and one of the postgrad students has been flirting with me quite a lot before Christmas. He's 22 and we've been out for drinks and dancing a couple of times. I don't think the age gap is so much.
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Old December 29th, 2017, 07:12 AM   #19
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of a gap morally
what's morally about a gap of 2 years ?

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Old December 29th, 2017, 10:51 AM   #20
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I dont think a two year age difference at your age is anything to be worried about. Thats not very much. I know seniors at my school that date freshmen, and others who date people in college.

Im confused as to why some people automatically jumped to the topic of legal ages of consent here. That was never mentioned to begin with
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