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Old December 20th, 2017, 12:35 AM   #1
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She was my best friend before she became my stepsister (my dad married her mom). And I think I'm starting to have a crush on her, just a small one. I'm not gonna try anythng, like trying to date her although I wouldn't mind dating her... is this okay?
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Old December 20th, 2017, 12:50 AM   #2
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Id say just as long as ya dont do anything. But i suppose its not "as" weird as if it was your true sister.

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Old December 20th, 2017, 02:26 AM   #3
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Well how long has she been your step sister? If you were raised like siblings I think that it would be emotionally immoral. If that is the case I would start to wonder if you have started to misinterpret or misplaced your feelings and emotions.

That being said, since you share no DNA, if you were not raised like siblings and you met as teenagers, I don't see a problem with it. It might seem kinda weird but wore things have happened.


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Old December 20th, 2017, 09:11 PM   #4
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Have you figured out your sexuality yet? Are you a Lesbian? You are only related through marriage and are not real sisters so legally there is no problem with you being in a relationship. Some people may judge you morally if you were in a relationship but that is only their opinions. I would say to you do what your heart tells you to do.

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Old December 20th, 2017, 10:22 PM   #5
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Isn't dating/having sex with stepsiblings still "illegal"??? And like Jamie said, some will see it as immoral. But like others said, it's recent and not blood so it's not too bad. A lot will depend on what your sexuality is and what hers is. If nobody knows you guys are bi/lesbian than nobody would even know what you did at home (assuming you do act out your "crush" at all).
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Old December 21st, 2017, 10:29 AM   #6
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I don't think it's actually illegal to be with a step-sibling.

Be careful, you don't want to end up with an awkward family dynamic

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Old December 21st, 2017, 07:29 PM   #7
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Ya it is ok to crush.

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Old December 21st, 2017, 10:00 PM   #8
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All I'm gonna say is that you guys aren't related by blood, and it's not illegal.

It could create some awkwardness, but that's for you to be the judge of.

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Old December 22nd, 2017, 06:48 AM   #9
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She was my best friend before she became my stepsister (my dad married her mom). And I think I'm starting to have a crush on her, just a small one. I'm not gonna try anythng, like trying to date her although I wouldn't mind dating her... is this okay?
I answered already but I think I misunderstood. I thought you wanted to date or do more. So you're asking if it's ok to have a crush? Yes! You can't control what you're attracted to. You know that right? So you shouldn't feel any guilt.
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Old December 26th, 2017, 05:10 PM   #10
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She was my best friend before she became my stepsister (my dad married her mom). And I think I'm starting to have a crush on her, just a small one. I'm not gonna try anythng, like trying to date her although I wouldn't mind dating her... is this okay?
You can't help on who you have a crush on. You are only step-sisters by a recent set of circumstance, which would end again if your dad and her mum were to divorce. You are not blood related. The most important person to answer is her. What would SHE say if you told her you had a crush on her?
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Old December 29th, 2017, 09:24 AM   #11
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I don't c anything wrong with it.
Don't force anything on her to
make her uncomfortable and
after time u might get closer.
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Old December 29th, 2017, 10:20 AM   #12
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It's a human thing to love. But, Incest is a really serious thing, I mean, she's almost your sister. So...



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