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Old November 29th, 2017, 08:36 PM   #1
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So this is my story with depression. I had struggled with it for a short time during the summer of 2016. Then in November 2016 my parents were both killed by a drunk driver who blew a red light while they were coming home from the anniversary dinner. That plunged me into depths that I would not wish upon my worst enemy. Now it is officially been over a year since I last hurt myself and I am still going strong. I hope this is a place where I can vent. The people here seem very supportive and I hope to make some friends
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Old November 29th, 2017, 09:35 PM   #2
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That is a tough life and bad turn of events for you, but you definitely shouldn't have had all that happen to u in 1 night. Congrats to holding out past 1 year, and congrats for making it this far in life. I'm sure your family would be very proud and I hope you keep getting stronger.
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Old November 29th, 2017, 09:45 PM   #3
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Old November 29th, 2017, 11:16 PM   #4
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These kinds of advice might be worthless, but do something to keep your mind busy, so you are always moving forward, instead of staying behind, and crying in tears. Do something you like and enjoy doing, because you are the pride of your parents, the seed they placed in this world to grow and love. It's up to you to live for your parents, because this is their sacrifice. I hope you have a fulfilling life and make the most of it. So please, keep moving forward.
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Old November 29th, 2017, 11:42 PM   #5
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Old November 30th, 2017, 08:26 AM   #6
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Im really sorry that happened to you. I know how you feel some, I lost my dad almost 3 years ago from a similar accident.

Welcome to VT btw. This can be a great place to make very supportive friends when your not doin so well

So what are yiur living arrangements now? Are you livkng with extended family or.....?

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Old November 30th, 2017, 09:15 AM   #7
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Im really sorry that happened to you. I know how you feel some, I lost my dad almost 3 years ago from a similar accident.

Welcome to VT btw. This can be a great place to make very supportive friends when your not doin so well

So what are yiur living arrangements now? Are you livkng with extended family or.....?
Yes I am living with my aunt and uncle. My cousin had an account here and he told me about this place.
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Old December 2nd, 2017, 03:15 PM   #8
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Hi Julia. Please vent as needed. That was a terrible trauma. You know that better than anybody. I'm glad you're feeling better than you were. But please don't feel you have to be not depressed just because a certain time has passed. No clock is ticking for you.

I'm having a great time here. I'm open to chat, too.
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Old December 2nd, 2017, 03:59 PM   #9
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Julia you had to deal with some sudden and drastic life events.To take such a lost at a young age you are a real warrior.Your story brings awareness to D.W.I you seem like a person that can make some positive change in this world.You keep doing what your doing and you will be alright.Keep strong Julia.
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Old December 2nd, 2017, 08:25 PM   #10
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So this is my story with depression. I had struggled with it for a short time during the summer of 2016. Then in November 2016 my parents were both killed by a drunk driver who blew a red light while they were coming home from the anniversary dinner. That plunged me into depths that I would not wish upon my worst enemy. Now it is officially been over a year since I last hurt myself and I am still going strong. I hope this is a place where I can vent. The people here seem very supportive and I hope to make some friends
Hiya, i think i know a little of what you went through, if you ever wanted to talk im always willing to listen

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Old December 2nd, 2017, 09:44 PM   #12
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Old December 2nd, 2017, 09:47 PM   #13
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So this is my story with depression. I had struggled with it for a short time during the summer of 2016. Then in November 2016 my parents were both killed by a drunk driver who blew a red light while they were coming home from the anniversary dinner. That plunged me into depths that I would not wish upon my worst enemy. Now it is officially been over a year since I last hurt myself and I am still going strong. I hope this is a place where I can vent. The people here seem very supportive and I hope to make some friends
That is really very amazing. I struggle with severe depression and self harm issues for so many years now.
So I feel it would be interesting for me to learn a bit more about how you overcame all those things and got so strong.
I never seem able to find a solution for my problems so I would love to hear how you managed to come back from the depths of depression and becoming so strong.
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Old December 3rd, 2017, 12:16 AM   #15
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That is really very amazing. I struggle with severe depression and self harm issues for so many years now.
So I feel it would be interesting for me to learn a bit more about how you overcame all those things and got so strong.
I never seem able to find a solution for my problems so I would love to hear how you managed to come back from the depths of depression and becoming so strong.
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Old December 7th, 2017, 01:35 PM   #16
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I am so sorry about what happened to your parents. A traumatic event like that could cause anyone to go down a negative path. Good to hear that you are so strong. Keep going.


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Old December 14th, 2017, 04:45 PM   #18
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Old December 15th, 2017, 01:27 PM   #20
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Julia I am so upset for you that you went through this and you are so brave to post about it. I don't know if I would be able to cope with things like that but I think I would need loads of support from friends.
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