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Old November 20th, 2017, 04:01 AM   #1
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Default Do girls want sex?

This might sound like a simple question. Most girls on this site admit to masturbating more often than most guys do. Most guys it about 7-10 times per week while its often close to twice that by girls.

Even though that's true, why do girls appear to not want sex? Why do they want to wait longer? Why are guys more likely to want to do it right away? Is this society? Is it true that there is some psychological thing where girls want or need guys to 'earn it'?

Guys can comment too if they have some form of experience with these issues but I'm more interested in the female perspective.


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Old November 20th, 2017, 04:28 AM   #2
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Yes we do want sex, we're just not so obvious in letting it show when we're rampantly horny.
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Old November 20th, 2017, 08:13 AM   #3
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yep we want it to
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Old November 20th, 2017, 12:53 PM   #4
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in my experience most girl want simple sexual activity like hard kissing, hug, touching body. something more bonding. because some girl in school still afraid to doing sex all the way.
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Old November 20th, 2017, 02:23 PM   #5
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Personally, yes, I do want sex. But maybe this sounds a bit old-fashioned or something but I don't want to do it just for the sake of doing it. I want to to it with someone with who I'm in a stable and loving relationship. That hasn't happened yet, so until the time is right for me I will keep on "loving" myself. I am pretty sure boys and girls have much the same desire to have sex, and each person will have his or her own feelings about when and how.
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Old November 20th, 2017, 02:31 PM   #6
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Personally, yes, I do want sex. But maybe this sounds a bit old-fashioned or something but I don't want to do it just for the sake of doing it. I want to to it with someone with who I'm in a stable and loving relationship. That hasn't happened yet, so until the time is right for me I will keep on "loving" myself. I am pretty sure boys and girls have much the same desire to have sex, and each person will have his or her own feelings about when and how.
I feel the same way as you, I Couldn't have said it any better.

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Old November 20th, 2017, 02:37 PM   #7
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This might sound like a simple question. Most girls on this site admit to masturbating more often than most guys do. Most guys it about 7-10 times per week while its often close to twice that by girls.

Even though that's true, why do girls appear to not want sex? Why do they want to wait longer? Why are guys more likely to want to do it right away? Is this society? Is it true that there is some psychological thing where girls want or need guys to 'earn it'?

Guys can comment too if they have some form of experience with these issues but I'm more interested in the female perspective.
And the trend of girls being less vocal about it is because of the double-Standard in judgement society foists upon us that causes us to lose friends, or even get I to arguments with our parents if they catch wind.


Medically there's also more consequences for girls than guys, if you don't warm-up right with the foreplay...someone might have to go to the ER. Guys can get aggressive during sex, it can easily turn into rape mid-act, and suddenly the sweet guy you just met who you decided to take a chance with and "put out for him" theoretically....nightmare come true.


So there's just more to consider when your a girl, in regards to putting out and even exploring your own sexuality.

Guys have it a lot simpler, their main worry are, STD's, the experience of having sex and their bedpost notch count, getting a girl pregnant (or running away from that responsibility, and that's really it.
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Old November 20th, 2017, 04:43 PM   #8
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Think of it this way: biologically, guys are programmed to have sex with as many girls as possible, to pass on their genes as much as possible. However, women are programmed to try to choose the best mate possible and stick with him. From that, it kind of makes sense that guys would be a lot more likely not to care about anything besides having sex; not that that's necessarily the case, it's just the biological urge.

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Old November 20th, 2017, 06:09 PM   #9
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Old November 20th, 2017, 06:49 PM   #10
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Yes, girl's want sex. But I want it to be with the right guy, rather than with the guy right now.

Sex is as much an emotional activity as it is a purely physical one for me. A guy could have the greatest set of abs or shoulders in the world, but if we don't have an emotional connection, based on mutual love, respect, and understanding then I am not jumping into his arms. I may fantasize about it, but i won't actually do it.

There are also social issues. Slut shaming is still very, very much a thing in society. A girl has got to be mindful of her reputation. A guy can brag about his "conquests" and become president of the United States. A woman has a few relationships, and her credibility is instantly questioned even if raped.
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Old November 21st, 2017, 10:06 AM   #11
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Yes, girl's want sex. But I want it to be with the right guy, rather than with the guy right now.

Sex is as much an emotional activity as it is a purely physical one for me. A guy could have the greatest set of abs or shoulders in the world, but if we don't have an emotional connection, based on mutual love, respect, and understanding then I am not jumping into his arms. I may fantasize about it, but i won't actually do it.

There are also social issues. Slut shaming is still very, very much a thing in society. A girl has got to be mindful of her reputation. A guy can brag about his "conquests" and become president of the United States. A woman has a few relationships, and her credibility is instantly questioned even if raped.
I would totally agree with Molly And it's good advice that any girl/woman would be wise to take into consideration and most times the girl/woman will come off worst like get pregnant and then get dumped or get a bad reputation bu her boyfriend bragging or even from an EX boyfriend if they were dumped. I have seen it happen too often to girls a school, as well as other friends. Take Care Everyone And Stay Safe. X

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Old November 21st, 2017, 05:33 PM   #12
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Yes I do, but I will wait.
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Old November 21st, 2017, 09:14 PM   #13
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Not all girls want sex. Some have deep feelings they want to nurture with their boyfriend or girlfriend, and this will always help deepen their relationship. Otherwise, sex can be meaningless other than satisfying each other's lusts.

The greatest female power is empathy to create relationships on a personal level. It's better for a woman to come across as more nurturing, more warm, and that is going to lend more success to her than for a man doing the same thing.
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Old November 25th, 2017, 09:37 AM   #14
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Yeah girls want sex. We're usually just a bit more picky about who we want it with. I personally prefer it to be with someone I genuinely like. I couldn't just have a one night stand after the club lol.
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Old November 25th, 2017, 10:23 AM   #15
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Yeah girls want sex. We're usually just a bit more picky about who we want it with. I personally prefer it to be with someone I genuinely like. I couldn't just have a one night stand after the club lol.
Yes, this girl likes and wants sex, lots.
But according to what Teddy says.

Love is the answer .... but while I am waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions.
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And the trend of girls being less vocal about it is because of the double-Standard in judgement society foists upon us that causes us to lose friends, or even get I to arguments with our parents if they catch wind.


Medically there's also more consequences for girls than guys, if you don't warm-up right with the foreplay...someone might have to go to the ER. Guys can get aggressive during sex, it can easily turn into rape mid-act, and suddenly the sweet guy you just met who you decided to take a chance with and "put out for him" theoretically....nightmare come true.


So there's just more to consider when your a girl, in regards to putting out and even exploring your own sexuality.

Guys have it a lot simpler, their main worry are, STD's, the experience of having sex and their bedpost notch count, getting a girl pregnant (or running away from that responsibility, and that's really it.
I also just want to say yes we do want to have sex but i know like id be worried to because lots of things could happen but it will also go around the school fast because guys cant keep their mouths shut about having sex.
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Old November 27th, 2017, 02:27 PM   #17
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I also just want to say yes we do want to have sex but i know like id be worried to because lots of things could happen but it will also go around the school fast because guys cant keep their mouths shut about having sex.
Maybe it's different when you get a little older, or maybe it's different in other places, but I can say in my school when word gets around that a young teen girl (under 16) has had sex, boys think that you are "easy" or "slutty". And the news spread fast. It's just the way it is.
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Old November 27th, 2017, 09:03 PM   #18
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I can say from my exoeriences that they do want sexual stuff, but not sex per se. Most of the times I had to wait and build something beautiful with a girl before we had sex. The key is in earning her trust and making her feel pretty, loved and cared for when she is with you. That and time. Even though sometimes they might be rampantly horny, they won't want sex but something more bonding like hugs kisses scratching... This is just based off my experience and it can vary. No two persons are the same.

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Maybe it's different when you get a little older, or maybe it's different in other places, but I can say in my school when word gets around that a young teen girl (under 16) has had sex, boys think that you are "easy" or "slutty". And the news spread fast. It's just the way it is.
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I think we all want sex but i want to wait for Mr Right
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