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Old December 7th, 2017, 05:00 PM   #41
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Totally agree that it's a huge closeness and bonding feeling. It's a very intimate and personal act. For that reason alone, do your best to get privacy and take your time, especially at first. And yeah, if it's your first time, you may get vocal -- like Julia's sis (and me), and you really don't want a sibling (or parent!) at the door.

Regarding condoms, that was a difficult decision for us. Conventional wisdom would say to always use a condom to prevent STDs and pregnancy, and that's the right approach. CanGirl is right, you can't get pregnant from anal sex (unless you're extremely careless....that is, fluids can theoretically travel down from one place to another). So if you decide against condoms, it's wise to use the position that eliminates the gravitational threat, which is the most intimate anyway.

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Old December 7th, 2017, 05:02 PM   #42
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The only thing I would like to add is that the anus is for one thing, and one thing only ...
I agree with this. It doesnt interest me at all sexually.

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Old December 12th, 2017, 04:49 PM   #43
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I agree with this. It doesnt interest me at all sexually.
I totally respect this point of view, and comments I've heard that it seems "unnecessary." It does take some time to get comfortable just with the idea of it. But anyone who's tried it knows it's a totally different feeling, one that can be incredibly pleasurable. It adds another dimension to sexuality, just like masturbation or touching or oral add different dimensions. And it's not at all unusual for anyone going through puberty to be curious about. Personally I'm glad I discovered it.

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Old December 13th, 2017, 09:18 PM   #44
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Dont have any experience with this but Id say if she hasnt brought it up, its probably best not to say anything
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Old December 16th, 2017, 09:17 AM   #45
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I'm happy it worked out with your sister
Anal is something that can feel amazing (blushes) but you and your bf really need to talk about it first. I agree with the other comments, girls either like it or they don't. Even more than vaginal, you and your muscles need to be relaxed, and you need to be in the head space for it or it just won't work. It also takes a few tries and learning how to relax those muscles. A good goal for the first time might be seeing if he can get any of it in without it being too uncomfortable. Don't worry about any more than that until later. Best of luck!!
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Old December 16th, 2017, 09:30 AM   #46
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I didn't realize there was a second page before commenting. That's awesome it's going so well for your sister. Danielle is right, it might be rough at first, but it gets better. Condoms seem to get messed up easily because it's so tight. There's risks of STDs, but you definitely won't get pregnant lol. And if there's something going on in the front, it's a lot less unconfortable.
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Old December 22nd, 2017, 10:14 AM   #47
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I never really thought about it but now I am intrigued
It can definitely be fun. Just the supposed taboo of it is exciting and different. A few things though!

Your partner has to be kind and gentle. You don't want some boy just shoving his penis in your ass. You need to be really turned on and lubed up... and some boys, in my opinion, are just too big for anal.

A few summers ago one of the guys I know wanted to try it. When I saw him hard I was like "UHHH NOPE!!!"

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Old December 22nd, 2017, 11:15 AM   #48
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It can definitely be fun. Just the supposed taboo of it is exciting and different. A few things though!

Your partner has to be kind and gentle. You don't want some boy just shoving his penis in your ass. You need to be really turned on and lubed up... and some boys, in my opinion, are just too big for anal.

A few summers ago one of the guys I know wanted to try it. When I saw him hard I was like "UHHH NOPE!!!"
I have tried it myself while masturbating but Idk if I would let a guy in there.

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Old December 22nd, 2017, 11:47 AM   #49
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I have tried it myself while masturbating but Idk if I would let a guy in there.
Haha, choose the guy wisely if you do!

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Haha, choose the guy wisely if you do!
most definitely

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