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Old October 31st, 2017, 01:04 PM   #1
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My friend was at my house yesterday and we were wrestling he pinned me and was kinda humping my butt and my dick got really hard? then we kinda showed each others (I started it because he said my one wasnt as big)but then we nearly got caught and he said he had to go and now I dont know what to say when I see him? cause I dont know if hes gay and like I think I might be but how can I tell?
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Old October 31st, 2017, 05:22 PM   #2
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By this one time I don't think u
can label he or u anything. I take
it as just two friends messing with
each other having fun experimenting.
If it continues with him paying u more
attention than being a friend I would say
that he probably likes u more than a friend.
There is nothing u have to say to him when
u two meet again. Just let this play out.
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Old October 31st, 2017, 05:37 PM   #3
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Is there a reason to say something to him?
There really is no way to tell of someone else is gay or not unless they share that with you
I think your good, don’t stress over this. It’s pretty normal and common tbh. Especially at your age. If it happens again, he might have other interests with you. Then you do need to ask yourself if you have mutual feelings for him.

If it continues you guys might wana talk about what that means for your friendship. But it also may never happen again to. But I doubt it

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Old November 1st, 2017, 12:30 AM   #4
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I don't think this single incident does indicate anything.
As the others said it's obviously a normal thing to experiment like that during puberty.
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Old November 1st, 2017, 07:40 AM   #5
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I don't think this single incident does indicate anything.
As the others said it's obviously a normal thing to experiment like that during puberty.
Exactly my thoughts.

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Old November 1st, 2017, 10:00 AM   #6
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thanks guys it sorta worked out, when I saw him he just acted like normal and we didn't talk about it. I'm sleeping over tomoz but and I kinda want it to happen again lol maybe I am gay idk but wish me luck
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Old November 1st, 2017, 11:48 AM   #7
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I think you and your friend just wanted to compare, it's ok.
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Old November 1st, 2017, 12:13 PM   #8
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Is there a reason to say something to him? I don't think this single incident does indicate anything. If it continues with him paying u more attention than being a friend I would say
that he probably likes u more than a friend. Just let this play out

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Old November 2nd, 2017, 06:31 PM   #9
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Maybe your gay, maybe you're bi or even just curious. Just enjoy the experience and figure out later what your sexuality is. Let us know what happens tonight.
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 07:59 PM   #10
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Have fun!
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Old November 4th, 2017, 12:06 AM   #11
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This realy doesnt mean anything
If you are worried or something youd better talk woth him
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Old November 7th, 2017, 12:38 PM   #12
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You can’t telly what someone else tells you you just know it when it’s rime
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Old November 27th, 2017, 04:14 AM   #13
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thanks guys it sorta worked out, when I saw him he just acted like normal and we didn't talk about it. I'm sleeping over tomoz but and I kinda want it to happen again lol maybe I am gay idk but wish me luck
Have some fun and you take the first move.
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Old November 27th, 2017, 04:45 AM   #14
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thanks guys it sorta worked out, when I saw him he just acted like normal and we didn't talk about it. I'm sleeping over tomoz but and I kinda want it to happen again lol maybe I am gay idk but wish me luck
Good luck! Have fun!

My advice is go slow and pay attention to his behaviour/wishes. Make sure you don't force him to do things he does not want to do.

You can make the first move but be sure he follows
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Old December 1st, 2017, 12:27 AM   #15
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thanks guys it sorta worked out, when I saw him he just acted like normal and we didn't talk about it. I'm sleeping over tomoz but and I kinda want it to happen again lol maybe I am gay idk but wish me luck
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Old December 1st, 2017, 05:05 AM   #16
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Don't be in a hurry to label yourself. Just do what feels right in each situation. It's not like you have to buy a tshirt with your sexuality on it. No reason to decide your sexuality now and no reason not to say that it changed later.


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Old December 1st, 2017, 10:42 AM   #17
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That alone does not make you gay
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Old December 4th, 2017, 02:31 PM   #18
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At 13 trust me you get hard with any type of physical contact....this doesn't mean anything but that your body is reacting to normal stimulation...you did say he was on top of you and I would imagine you weren't the only one that was hard...Glad you talked and hope that when you spent the night things happened just as they should...maybe you guys experimented further maybe not but he and you are friends and that is more important than any sexually activity you may or may not have together...relax and enjoy being friends whichever way it goes....

I am a twin, 17 -- gay and proud. Would love to talk to all you guys in here. Very open to discuss things and like to talk to new friends.
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Old December 6th, 2017, 05:11 PM   #19
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It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay, or that you're gay. It can be pretty normal to get a boner during physical contact like that. And maybe he's just curious about comparing or maybe even exploring, but it still doesn't have to mean being gay. It can be normal part of growing up.
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Old December 6th, 2017, 07:15 PM   #20
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Wrestling, boners, comparing, experimenting, and exploring really has nothing to due with your sexuality. It's what you feel inside towards members of the same or opposite sexes.
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