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Old November 8th, 2017, 01:47 PM   #1
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Default Broke up with my boyfriend, regret it.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months over something really dumb.

We didn't fight or anything...it's just that I was having a bad day and felt bad for wanting to push my feelings on him (despite knowing that he's my boyfriend, he's supposed to be there for me and he's been there before). So I broke up with him, and told him to just forget that we ever happened so I wouldn't have to cause him pain whenever he remembered me.

We both really love each other, but I'm not sure either of us are mature enough or in the right place mentally and emotionally to be in a relationship. Plus I have an autoimmune disorder, which is a really hard thing for relationships because I'm always sick or at the hospital or at appointments and he always worries about me.

I can't believe I just did that, though...it's really selfish of me. How can I fix this?
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Old November 8th, 2017, 06:36 PM   #2
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If he really loves u and I believe he
still does especially when he knows
u have medical probs. Tell him some
days r harder than others and that
u were having a bad day and didn't
mean to say what u said.
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Old November 8th, 2017, 08:01 PM   #3
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^I agree with the above comment. If you regret it, let him know that you regret it and that you still want to be together. We all have bad days; he should understand.
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Old November 9th, 2017, 11:38 AM   #4
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^I agree with the above comment. If you regret it, let him know that you regret it and that you still want to be together. We all have bad days; he should understand.
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If he really loves u and I believe he
still does especially when he knows
u have medical probs. Tell him some
days r harder than others and that
u were having a bad day and didn't
mean to say what u said.

Thanks guys, I'll talk to him and try to explain where I was coming from and that I didn't really mean it.
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Old November 12th, 2017, 08:10 PM   #5
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Maybe just shoot him a text and say hey hows it going?
Just start a conversation, see where it goes. The topic will come up eventually when the timing is right. If neither of you talk, youll never get past this, whatever that means for you guys

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Old November 15th, 2017, 12:02 AM   #6
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You can't fix this by talking to us; you can fix this by talking about these issues with the guy that currently appears to be ur ex. Tell him exactly what you told us and have a progressive conversation.


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Old November 16th, 2017, 01:08 PM   #7
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I hope that things work out for you two. Don't let health issues stand in your way. He loves you for you.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
I am also glad to try help with questions or problems.
Hit me up for anything. I promise I don't bite.
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