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Old November 2nd, 2017, 01:52 AM   #1
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In a few months I will be sixteen Iím a pretty late starter only was able to cum like a year ago Iíve only ever had a 2 girlfriends and that was like when I was 12/13 so you can imagine what they where like. All the people at school are losing their virginity and even now people who I never expected to so soon have like Iíve never even kissed a girl outside spin the bottle and games like that. Mentally Iím ready for all this stuff but physicly i dont think my body is ready. Itís weird I think I started early than most but like didnít go very fast so from people Iíve spoken to I seem to be one of the earliest to doscoher wanking. I guess Iím like not ready to be with anyone cause Iím not comfy able with own body I still got Ďbaby fatí like stuff my voice still high and my face is still really child like In the changin rooms I always see other boys and they got soo much more hair than me lit every where I feel about 2 years behind like Iím catching up now so Iím not worried Iím just annoyed my dad says it was terrible for him cause he was the youngest in the years and a late bloomer so he was behind people in the lower years. Ye donít really know why I wrote this just venting I guess
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 02:12 AM   #2
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I've never even had a gf buddy and I'm 18. Ur doing fine. Just don't act desperate cause its a big turn off.


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Old November 2nd, 2017, 04:23 AM   #3
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Don't worry about it.

19. Bi/Straight. Writer, photographer, musician, loving guy. Come say hi- I don't bite. No, really, I don't.

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Old November 2nd, 2017, 04:49 AM   #4
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I'm 16 and I haven't done anything either...

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Old November 2nd, 2017, 07:43 AM   #5
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Just because everybody at school
is losing their virginity doesn't mean
u have to also. Its not a contest. When
the time is right u will know it otherwise
don't pressure someone cause its a turn
off.
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 08:30 AM   #6
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Yeah, I wouldn't worry about things too much. I bet there are lots of guys who are not losing their virginity and you just don't know about them. Plus sometimes guys say they have and they haven't. Just do things when the time is right for you.

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Old November 2nd, 2017, 09:03 AM   #7
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I think you are fine, and you honestly do not have anything to worry about. Loosing your virginity is not something you want to do at the drop of your hat, and you should only loose it when you are ready and not because everyone else is doing it. Chances are the folks who have said that they have lost their virginity either are exaggerating, did not have a good first time, or are just having sex for the sake of doing it. When you are ready to have sex, then it has to be with someone you care about and when you are both physically and mentally ready. Especially since you have only started cumming a year ago you need some time to get used to your changing body. It is far better to have sex later when you are mentally ready than to just do it when you do not know what you're doing.

You are fine, and just be yourself and be comfortable with your choices because it is not anyone's business.
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 10:12 AM   #8
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I agree with everything that's been said. We all develop at different times and at different speeds. So there's nothing to be either ashamed or worried about.
Try to relax and remember that you'll be as manly as everyone else while you're still in your teens, though no-one can say exactly when the changes to your voice and body will take place.
Best of luck and try your hardest to be happy.
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 11:05 AM   #9
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Don't be bothered or worried because of social pressure. You said yourself that you aren't ready for things yet. Just accept that and go on from there. Nothing to be ashamed or worried about my friend.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
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Old November 2nd, 2017, 10:45 PM   #10
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What they all said ^
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Old November 3rd, 2017, 02:11 AM   #11
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I wouldn't worry about it, it'll happen eventually. And as the virginity topic etc. I'm 17 and I've never done anything at all that could be considered intimate or sexual in any way with anyone, so I wouldn't worry.
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Old November 9th, 2017, 07:42 PM   #12
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There really is no rush when it comes to sex. Im 19 and I haven't done anything with anyone either. It's not because no opportunities have presented themselves, it is simply that I have not felt ready nor felt the need to lose my virginity. Before I can be comfortable being intimate with another person, I first need to be comfortable with myself, at least that's how I feel. There is nothing to be ashamed about being a virgin, it just means that when you do have an intimate experience with, hopefully someone you care about, it will make the moment more special. Ultimately, it will happen when it happens.
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Old November 9th, 2017, 09:08 PM   #13
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Your time will come.
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Old November 10th, 2017, 03:02 AM   #14
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dont rush it man it will happen eventually

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Old November 10th, 2017, 04:40 PM   #15
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I'm sure it's not easy being a late bloomer. I know you are frustrated. Still you sound like you have a fairly understanding handle on it
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Old November 10th, 2017, 05:41 PM   #16
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I wouldn't let it worry you. You have time for thing to begin happening for you. Just don't let it freak you out, Bro.
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Old November 10th, 2017, 11:19 PM   #17
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It's alright bro. I'm 15 too and still haven't had sex yet

PM me anytime for a chat

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Old November 11th, 2017, 12:27 AM   #18
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Don't be too worried. You will grow.

My name is Adrian, I am 13 years old and bi (Not gay nor straight).
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Old November 16th, 2017, 09:00 PM   #19
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A lot of guys just say they lose it too to look cool but really didn't. I wouldn't make a contest out of it because I don't think a lot of girls would really appreciate guys bragging about it if it was true anyway.
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Old November 16th, 2017, 11:31 PM   #20
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If it makes you feel any better, I live on a cattle ranch between two mountain ranges in West Bumblescrew, CO. My boyfriend lives in England. How much sex do you think we're had in the last year?
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