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Old July 22nd, 2017, 10:07 AM   #1
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So I have a question.
So I am bi and was penetrated by a boy first so I guess I lost my virginity then. But then I was with a girl and I penetrated her. Can't that be considered losing my virginity also? It seems like they're different kinds of virginities. Like a gay virginity and a straight virginity.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:03 AM   #2
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That seems logical.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:11 AM   #3
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yeah makes sense

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:17 AM   #4
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It depends what you wanna call it. It does make sense to say you lost your sstraight and gay virginity.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:29 AM   #5
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yea I guess what your saying does make sense. certainly not wrong to categorize it that way.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 12:14 PM   #6
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Maybe there is a third v-card to play here...?

First as a bottom, then to a girl...

How about the v-card as a top to a bottom?

Does that make any sense?

What ever the case, no matter how 'horned up' we all
can get during pubery, we should all practice safe sex.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 04:37 PM   #7
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It depends on how you define virginity. There is not one definition for it; everyone has their own. And that means as well that you, and only you, can define when you lose your virginity.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 05:28 PM   #8
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Maybe there is a third v-card to play here...?

First as a bottom, then to a girl...

How about the v-card as a top to a bottom?

Does that make any sense?

What ever the case, no matter how 'horned up' we all
can get during pubery, we should all practice safe sex.

And treat each other with love & respect.
Ya, I know what you're saying and it's a good point. But I think you can only lose your gay virginity once.

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It depends on how you define virginity. There is not one definition for it; everyone has their own. And that means as well that you, and only you, can define when you lose your virginity.
I thought just penetrative sex is the way to lose virginity. Oral sex or things like that don't count for losing virginity.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 07:12 PM   #9
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I have done the same as you a boy and a girl. I doubt that I will ever do a girl again though.

I am gay and happy with that.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 09:26 PM   #10
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Damn, lf if l interpret it that way, l lost my girl/girl virginity pretty young then!
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Ya, I know what you're saying and it's a good point. But I think you can only lose your gay virginity once.
Yep Mick, I think you're right...

Going through puberty is such a journey.

I hope both experiences were good for you and your partners.

So much negative energy in the world today...

The Beatles said it best in their song,
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Old July 23rd, 2017, 03:14 AM   #12
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So I have a question.
So I am bi and was penetrated by a boy first so I guess I lost my virginity then. But then I was with a girl and I penetrated her. Can't that be considered losing my virginity also? It seems like they're different kinds of virginities. Like a gay virginity and a straight virginity.
Not really to me, virginity is kind of mental, if you've had consensual sex (even if one regrets it to some extent) then you're not a virgin. You've had sex, it doesn't really matter with which gender, I think the gender differential falls under a different heading.

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Old July 23rd, 2017, 02:12 PM   #13
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I thought just penetrative sex is the way to lose virginity. Oral sex or things like that don't count for losing virginity.
Mick is way farther along than I am in this virginity-losing thing, but I'm gonna make it even more complicated. With a girl, I'm not going to consider that I've lost my virginity until I'm doing it without anything on so that, let's just say I'm leaving something behind when I'm finished, if you catch what I mean. That, to me, will be the ultimate in losing my virginity.
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Mick is way farther along than I am in this virginity-losing thing, but I'm gonna make it even more complicated. With a girl, I'm not going to consider that I've lost my virginity until I'm doing it without anything on so that, let's just say I'm leaving something behind when I'm finished, if you catch what I mean. That, to me, will be the ultimate in losing my virginity.
Yeah but Scott,

You said; ... "until I'm doing it without anything on so"...

Most people would not not wear clothes during sex,
so even if you forgot your socks or undershirt in her room,
(let's just say I'm leaving something behind when I'm finished)

You can always go back and get it later, or she could hold onto it until
the next time she saw you, then she could give you back the item you
left behind. Does that help?

Hopfully her parents don't find the item you leave behind,
then they might figure out that she had a boy in her room.

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Old July 23rd, 2017, 03:31 PM   #15
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Interesting question.
Never thought of it in those terms.
Ied go w YES, we all have 2 virginities.

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Old July 24th, 2017, 08:01 AM   #16
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There's another thread discussing virginity in some detail but suffice to say you can think of it how you wish.
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Old July 24th, 2017, 08:22 AM   #17
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I guess that makes sense
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Old July 24th, 2017, 09:08 AM   #18
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Default Re: losing virginity twice

Nowadays where we are deal so openly with any kind of sexual orientation and such things, I therefore guess, it also completely doesn't matter with which partner of which sex we have sex with.

But if the "loss" of virginity defines just the fact that you had sex for the first time, you can only lose your virginity once. Regardless of whether you where the passive partner during your the first time sexual intercourse and second time the active partner.


Personally I truely believe that no individual has ever lost his virginity during first sex. An exception would be the act of rape or so.

I see it this way: you can't lose something, but you gain something from your first time - experience. Regardless of whether the first time was disappointing or not.
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Old July 24th, 2017, 10:19 AM   #19
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That makes sense to me it seem like the best way to put it

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Old July 24th, 2017, 01:34 PM   #20
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I guess if you put it that way, it does make sense. My thought on it always was you lose your virginity the first time you have sex, whether it be a boy or a girl. But this explanation has made me rethink it.

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