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Old July 10th, 2017, 01:11 PM   #1
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How do you get punished and for what stuff? I usually get grounded but still get spankings sometimes.
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Old July 10th, 2017, 02:55 PM   #2
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For me it depends on what I did. My adoptive parents have never hit me in any way. My birth parents is a different story. But usually some kinda restrictions like maybe I'm grounded or I can't do some thing I like to do or place I like to go. Couple time I got what they call natural consequences. Which is when I do something, and the result itself has negative consequences on me. And that seems to be punishment enough. Which I think are usually worse
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Old July 10th, 2017, 06:09 PM   #3
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My brothers and I never got spankings but as JT already said "bad looks" which are more effective than anything else. Still now my dad looks at me with this disappointed impression on his face. Works more than anything else to have me know that I did wrong.

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Old July 10th, 2017, 06:39 PM   #4
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i know when i was younger i got spanked

my mother will sometimes also just grab the back of my neck or my ear just as a "listen up" or "follow me" lol not abusive just an uncomfortable "oops on my part"

then it's the standard restrictions from doing something as well as generally more chores
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Old July 10th, 2017, 08:51 PM   #5
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I get extra chores around the house. I have
the "ur driving privileges will b revoked"
hanging over my head if I'm bad. So far I
have a halo.
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Old July 10th, 2017, 09:36 PM   #6
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I get extra chores around the house. I have
the "ur driving privileges will b revoked"
hanging over my head if I'm bad. So far I
have a halo.

You can drive there car?!?!
Dam...
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Old July 11th, 2017, 01:18 AM   #7
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When i was kid i got spanked, but it was a long time ago.
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Old July 18th, 2017, 09:53 AM   #8
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Yeah still spanked with aa paddle
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Old July 21st, 2017, 04:43 PM   #9
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Yeah still spanked with aa paddle
How big is the paddle? my mom uses a hairbrush mostly
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Old July 21st, 2017, 05:36 PM   #10
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How big is the paddle? my mom uses a hairbrush mostly
Like a school paddle.
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Old July 21st, 2017, 06:03 PM   #11
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I literally don't get punished because I don't do anything wrong behaviour-wise. I'm not claiming to be perfect, of course, but the only time I'm told off or anything is when I say something my mother doesn't like, and in such a case she just tells me that I shouldn't have said it. My father doesn't tell me off at all because most of the time when I say something that my mother doesn't like, it's just a joke and my father is much more accepting of jokes.

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Like a school paddle.

The both of you, seriously?
Guys that's like abuse
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You shouldn't be hit by anyone or with anything

If something I get a hand, like a slap, but not a paddle or a brush
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Old July 21st, 2017, 11:13 PM   #13
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The both of you, seriously?
Guys that's like abuse
Sorry, just saying
You shouldn't be hit by anyone or with anything

If something I get a hand, like a slap, but not a paddle or a brush
I agree, it's too far. I've been slapped but never hit with a paddle. That is abuse I have to say.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 09:22 AM   #14
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I agree, it's too far. I've been slapped but never hit with a paddle. That is abuse I have to say.
Well its the same paddle they use in many schools and i imagine that is not ilegal i dont know
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:03 AM   #15
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Well its the same paddle they use in many schools and i imagine that is not ilegal i dont know
If you're school is.using that it's to my knowledge extremely illegal!!! That is a kind of abuse and schools of all things should not use that. You can report the school to the police if you wish as well.

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Old July 22nd, 2017, 11:20 AM   #16
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The both of you, seriously?
Guys that's like abuse
Sorry, just saying
You shouldn't be hit by anyone or with anything

If something I get a hand, like a slap, but not a paddle or a brush
Not necessarily true. Some parents use a paddle because they only want to use their hands for loving their kids. Also some do it because it makes a louder noise and scares the child without having to spank them hard. Just because they use it doesn't mean they use it hard. For a lot of kids getting grounded is much more abusive.

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If you're school is.using that it's to my knowledge extremely illegal!!! That is a kind of abuse and schools of all things should not use that. You can report the school to the police if you wish as well.
There are a few states where it's legal for schools to spank.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 12:33 PM   #17
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Not necessarily true. Some parents use a paddle because they only want to use their hands for loving their kids. Also some do it because it makes a louder noise and scares the child without having to spank them hard. Just because they use it doesn't mean they use it hard. For a lot of kids getting grounded is much more abusive.
That may be true. But I just don't agree with parents causing pain to get their point across. Whether is physical, or emotional pain. When a parent uses their hands or an object to strike their child, regardless of how hard, their intent is to cause pain, or as in your own words, scare them. Fail to see the parental value in that.

Only shows me, the parent don't know how to use words, and other actions to Beth their point across. Seems simple, but also so hard to seems
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I just get punished by talking stuff out. Never expierenced grounding or the other usual stuff I read here in other threads. My parents ain't no barbarians. They are much more cruel in their subtle intellectual ways.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 12:50 PM   #19
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Doing wrong and fear go hand in hand and can help someone learn. If you commited a crime and the police show up at your house you would be afraid. You'd be afraid of the consequenses of your actions. You'd learn not to break the law fast. It's the same thing. Fear helps keeps kids from doing the same bad behaviors over and over again. They learn that in real life there are consequenses when you do wrong. I normally wouldn't try to prove a point but since you're my friend I feel safe to expand my view.
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Old July 22nd, 2017, 01:09 PM   #20
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Doing wrong and fear go hand in hand and can help someone learn. If you commited a crime and the police show up at your house you would be afraid. You'd be afraid of the consequenses of your actions. You'd learn not to break the law fast. It's the same thing. Fear helps keeps kids from doing the same bad behaviors over and over again. They learn that in real life there are consequenses when you do wrong. I normally wouldn't try to prove a point but since you're my friend I feel safe to expand my view.
Well in my school its completely legal.Pretty common.I dont know about other states. Just its a bit sore for a day or so. Never bruises or something like that
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