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Nice Poster
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Join Date: December 26, 2013
Location: Missouri
Age: 20
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Just wondering if anyone out there has been molested. On here, you can't go into detail, but if you did just say how old you were who did it, do you think about it?
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Join Date: January 11, 2012
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5 1/2 by a neighbor, sometimes
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Join Date: January 13, 2014
Location: UK
Age: 18
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No, but my mom was 'nearly' raped.
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Join Date: December 26, 2013
Location: Missouri
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I feel you man, I think about it often......without telling you what happened my last name triggers the memory so yeah I'm constantly reminded.
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Join Date: December 18, 2013
Location: Planet Earth
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This.
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Join Date: January 16, 2014
Location: where my brain should be if it wasnt missing
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i was 8. im just going to say a bad person. i think about it everyday. no matter how hard i try i cant forget. i still have nightmares about it sometimes
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Join Date: May 23, 2013
Location: My House
Age: 20
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12, I forgot her name, and yeah but it doesn't bother me
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Join Date: September 27, 2013
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I think about it a lot even though it was very insignificant. Especially sense other rpeople have went through much much much worse. I don't deserve to feel anything about my megar issue. But I still think of it despite reminding my self I'm selfish for remembering it and being bothered by it.
~I do not try to give advice as much as I do just point out facts as I have found people like to make their own decisions in life, not be told what one is best to make~ Please excuse my typos. I'm usually on my phone and it has issues.
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Location: Texas
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I was 12 & the predator was the mother of some kids that I babysat. I think whenever penetration is involved, the victim, male or female, has suffered a truly devastating experience.
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![]() Name: Anonymous ...no really...
Join Date: September 27, 2013
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I have a friend who was raped, and really it doesn't bother her. I know her well enough that I can say its the truth. Its just not a big deal to her and she claims the emotional abuse by her dad was much worse on her than the rape (buy a guy from college). Then there are other people who are molested and it destroys their lives. Its got more yo do with the persona feelings about it than the event it self. For instance you could call me fat all you want and wouldn't give a shit. But another girl might become bulimic over it. Its just personal tolerance. Once again I'm not saying you ment it that way. Just pointing it out. ![]() ~I do not try to give advice as much as I do just point out facts as I have found people like to make their own decisions in life, not be told what one is best to make~ Please excuse my typos. I'm usually on my phone and it has issues.
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Join Date: January 22, 2014
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I was 13 when it happened. They were friends of my best friend. After that they also stalked me and threatened me. It changed me, I'm not the same person.
Some days are better, some days are nightmare. I can't forget, and never will. I'll have to live with that to the rest of my life. |
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Banned
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Join Date: January 12, 2014
Location: Sunshine State
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Not that I can remember but sometimes I wonder if I was when I was very young due to some thoughts I have
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I was 5 or 6, it was an older cousin. I think about it a lot and wonder if it has anything to do with my sexuality or sexual issues.
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Join Date: August 19, 2012
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i was 11,an old man when i was at pool tried to . it was really close but i just escaped by understanding him indirectly that my parents are here lol
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Join Date: November 19, 2013
Location: midwest
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It's not how the violation occurs that is significant. It's the complete loss of autonomy. You are, at the very least, supposed to be secure in your own body, and whether you're penetrated or not, someone takes away that security. It destroys your sense of trust in others.
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There are many scholarly studies that support the increased feelings of victimization after penetration in any body cavity- oral, rectal, or vaginal. I agree 100% with your statement about abuse destroying trust. It is very difficult for me to trust any adult, but especially any female that looks like her, or has similar mannerisms. BTW, I sincerely do appreciate your comments- and always welcome a vigorous debate, Quote:
Thanks for commenting on my statement. I appreciate your viewpoint. Again, I respectfully disagree. Molestation is certainly a traumatic experience, but I admit that I enjoyed the feelings she provided me, even at age 12. This process occurred over 4 months. She eventually did penetrate me rectally, but I will not be specific. The penetration took things to a completely different level of trauma. Many scholarly studies support that statement in both male & female child victims. As for your friend that was raped & has no problems, I suspect she may be using denial as a coping mechanism. It is much easier to act like it didn't bother you, than to face reality: Your body was penetrated against your will; your ability to trust trust will never be the same. On the other hand, you know her personally, & I am generalizing, based on group therapy sessions with other child/teen victims, and published psychological studies. I agree with you completely: Different people react differently to various types of inappropriate sexual manipulation. You are right- some people will be devastated by fondling. In my experience, as well as my weekly participation in a therapy group of sexually abused teens, penetration (oral, rectal, or vaginal) multiplies the trauma exponentially. It isn.t something that can be easily explained, but when the adult takes the molestation from fondling to penetration, the victim feels a complete loss of control of our own bodies. Some days you're the bug; some days you're the windshield. Last edited by Living For Love; March 13th, 2014 at 01:02 PM. |
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Join Date: July 18, 2013
Location: Oregon
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It happened when I was 16, almost two years ago. It was my father. Not a single second has passed since when I didn't think about it.
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