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Old April 30th, 2017, 07:25 PM   #1
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So idk if this is the right place to but this but here goes:
Yesterday I was in my room doing anal masterbation and my brother walked in and saw me. He's 11 and doesn't know what I was doing so he started asking questions, and I'm not really sure how to respond. Anyone have any tips on how to explain this to him? He knows about basic sex stuff but not much else.

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Old April 30th, 2017, 08:06 PM   #2
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Find some videos or forums on the net where people are discussing it and let him see that its a natural thing to explore and experiment - then it will save you the cringeworthy embarrassment of trying to justify it yourself!
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Old April 30th, 2017, 08:10 PM   #3
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I would be open with him just make sure he won't tell your parents about it most boys at that age will be over the moon to find out about masterbation and if you tell him about anal masterbation he will have a bit more info then most boys and if he wants to do it you can tell him the safe way to do so.
Also there are a lot of older brother who show there younger brother how to jerk off it's up to you how far you want to go but what ever it is just make sure you are both comfortable with it

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Old April 30th, 2017, 10:46 PM   #4
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If he doesn't bring it up anymore-drop it.
If he continues to ask questions just b honest
with him only if u know he is not going to spill
it to anyone. Tell him what happens in the room
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Old May 1st, 2017, 05:55 AM   #5
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At his age he's probably already discovering sexual things like masturbation, you could simply tell him it's another way to do it and make sure he knows it's a private thing and not to discuss it with people
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Old May 1st, 2017, 07:24 AM   #6
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So idk if this is the right place to but this but here goes:
Yesterday I was in my room doing anal masterbation and my brother walked in and saw me. He's 11 and doesn't know what I was doing so he started asking questions, and I'm not really sure how to respond. Anyone have any tips on how to explain this to him? He knows about basic sex stuff but not much else.
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I would be open with him just make sure he won't tell your parents about it most boys at that age will be over the moon to find out about masterbation and if you tell him about anal masterbation he will have a bit more info then most boys and if he wants to do it you can tell him the safe way to do so.
Also there are a lot of older brother who show there younger brother how to jerk off it's up to you how far you want to go but what ever it is just make sure you are both comfortable with it
This is good advice. Let us know what happens
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Old May 1st, 2017, 08:10 AM   #7
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If he doesnt bring it up anymore, I wouldnt either, but if he does, just explain to him that it feels good for some people, just be honest
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If he doesn't bring it up anymore-drop it.
If he continues to ask questions just b honest
with him only if u know he is not going to spill
it to anyone. Tell him what happens in the room
is private and suppose to stay in the room. Tell
him that if he does have questions u will b there
to answer them.
this. if he is a kid who likes to blab things, that could complicate it no matter what you tell him. if asked, you can tell him (though depending on the age you might want to decide how much to explain) and try to tell him stuff like that is private/secret and he needs to keep it as such.

it is very possible though he won't ask anymore questions and you won't have to get into it

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Old May 1st, 2017, 08:44 AM   #9
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So idk if this is the right place to but this but here goes:
Yesterday I was in my room doing anal masterbation and my brother walked in and saw me. He's 11 and doesn't know what I was doing so he started asking questions, and I'm not really sure how to respond. Anyone have any tips on how to explain this to him? He knows about basic sex stuff but not much else.
first of all you should tell him the truth , dont hide anything from him because learning things as they are at his age is important. Also you should try using words that wont sound too complicated for him so he can better understand
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Old May 1st, 2017, 04:03 PM   #10
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this. if he is a kid who likes to blab things, that could complicate it no matter what you tell him. if asked, you can tell him (though depending on the age you might want to decide how much to explain) and try to tell him stuff like that is private/secret and he needs to keep it as such.

it is very possible though he won't ask anymore questions and you won't have to get into it
Really he does not have to explain anything to him if
he thinks his bro is going to b a busy body.
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Old May 1st, 2017, 04:57 PM   #11
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When I was like 11 I walked in on my brother doing things like that. The first instinct I had was to ask questions and my brother answered them all. I will always appreciate how open and honest he was with me. And even at 11 I knew not to tell my parents. Unless you're really a shitty kid, we all know that's not something you tell your parents.
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Old May 1st, 2017, 06:07 PM   #12
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If he doesn't bring it up anymore-drop it.
If he continues to ask questions just b honest
with him only if u know he is not going to spill
it to anyone. Tell him what happens in the room
is private and suppose to stay in the room. Tell
him that if he does have questions u will b there
to answer them.
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Just be honest and up front about it. You might ask him if he knows what masturbation is and if he doesn't know or hasn't done it yet you could start there and explain that to him. Then tell him what you were doing is called anal masturbation and tell him that feels good to you as well as normal penis masturbation. I think he will understand and it and will actually probably make you two closer as brothers too.

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Old May 1st, 2017, 09:31 PM   #14
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Really he does not have to explain anything to him if
he thinks his bro is going to b a busy body.
well it could be if you don't say anything I will tell mom and dad. maybe OP doesn't want mom and dad to know. don't get me wrong, I agree with you on principle, but the little brother is a wild card because we don't know how he will respond

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Old May 24th, 2017, 02:46 PM   #15
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So idk if this is the right place to but this but here goes:
Yesterday I was in my room doing anal masterbation and my brother walked in and saw me. He's 11 and doesn't know what I was doing so he started asking questions, and I'm not really sure how to respond. Anyone have any tips on how to explain this to him? He knows about basic sex stuff but not much else.
what did you end up doing?
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Old June 3rd, 2017, 07:43 PM   #16
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Well I told him what exactly I was doing, and about masterbation and that it feels good. I told him when he's older he can do stuff like that. He also asked why I was hairy all over and why my penis was so big and hard lol.

Also, I asked him since now he knew what I was doing if it was ok for me to do it whenever and not have him bother me, but then he said he wanted me to teach him how to do it.

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Old June 3rd, 2017, 08:25 PM   #17
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first of all you should tell him the truth , dont hide anything from him because learning things as they are at his age is important. Also you should try using words that wont sound too complicated for him so he can better understand
Be bonest w him. Talk to him like u would ure best friend! At that age he needs honest answers and doesnt need to be made to feel embarassed abt something ALL guys do!!!

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Be honest and explain to his level. He'll figure it all out himself eventually.
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Well I told him what exactly I was doing, and about masterbation and that it feels good. I told him when he's older he can do stuff like that. He also asked why I was hairy all over and why my penis was so big and hard lol.

Also, I asked him since now he knew what I was doing if it was ok for me to do it whenever and not have him bother me, but then he said he wanted me to teach him how to do it.
Are you gonna show him? That would be so cool!
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Just be honest. I was with my brother after he caught me jerking off. He never told my parents. We have a strong bond and trust each other.
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