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Old April 24th, 2017, 06:11 AM   #1
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So i was wondering has anyone talked about puberty or sexuality with a family member?
How old were you?
Who did you talk with?
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Old April 24th, 2017, 06:13 AM   #2
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No my family is catholic and very conservative
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Old April 24th, 2017, 07:20 AM   #3
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My parents never went into full detail. Just basically said use protection and be safe. Most of the things I learned was from friends at school and online.
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Old April 24th, 2017, 05:26 PM   #4
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Yes, my mom gave me the talk when I was 11.

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Old April 24th, 2017, 05:35 PM   #5
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Yes, my mom gave me the talk when I was 11.
Yes mom gave me the talk when I was 12, she said
Barb stay away from boys and you will be fine that's all you need to know lol.

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Old April 24th, 2017, 05:38 PM   #6
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Yes mom gave me the talk when I was 12, she said
Barb stay away from boys and you will be fine that's all you need to know lol.
lol my version was definitely different than that.

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Old April 24th, 2017, 05:42 PM   #7
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had the talk with both my parents when I was about 10-11

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Old April 25th, 2017, 01:00 AM   #8
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i got like an abbreviated one but not a lot
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Old April 25th, 2017, 01:06 AM   #9
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My parents are highly conservative when it comes to sex as well. I learned most of what I know from sex-ed, which was a godsend in a traditionally prudish Texas school.

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Old April 25th, 2017, 07:21 PM   #10
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So i was wondering has anyone talked about puberty or sexuality with a family member? Yes my mom when I was 12. Also my sister, cousins and friends.
How old were you? 10- Present Had Sex Ed in 5th grade also.
Who did you talk with? my mom when I was 12. Also my sister, cousins and friends.

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Old April 26th, 2017, 01:13 PM   #11
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I got one from my mum when l was 11, l sort of knew about puberty anyway but she filled in a few blanks about what to expect and safe sex
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Old April 26th, 2017, 06:58 PM   #12
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My dad talked with me last year when I was 12 we discussed sex, erections, masturbation. It was pretty cool the way he did it, real comfortable like. We go to the Y swimming a few times a week since I was 8 so nudity is natural to us. It's just the 2 of us at home.
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Old April 26th, 2017, 07:08 PM   #13
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I knew some things from Internet and friends, but I got mine at 11 anyway. Most awkward moment in my life.




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Old April 26th, 2017, 08:39 PM   #14
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oddly enough, i never had the talk with my parents. Besides one incident with my younger bro we also have never discussed it. only with friends and online
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Old April 29th, 2017, 12:32 PM   #15
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Started talking with Mom about from like 7 or 8 and we still do.
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Old April 30th, 2017, 04:58 AM   #16
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my mom and i have been always talking. so there hasnt been "the talk"... but she never left any question open.

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Old April 30th, 2017, 02:02 PM   #17
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I think ALL parents should have the "talk" as such or just answer questions when asked, and give a straight and truthful answer, To many children / teens are getting dodgy information about puberty and sex etc from their peers and on the internet, so it should be the parents or sex education in school to give them the information the need to cope with growing up etc.
I never had the "talk" with mum it was just a ongoing thing whenever I wanted to know stuff, I just asked I have a very close relationship with mum she is MY BEST FRIEND.
Am sorry to hear about your parents Christopher (Tigers) but because they are Catholic that should stop them from giving you the info you need to to cope with growing up.
My family are Irish Catholics but it has never got in the way of been open about stuff.
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So i was wondering has anyone talked about puberty or sexuality with a family member? My parents have given me the sex talk twice. First was when I got my first girlfriend. They told me to wear a condom and also to make sure that they consented and all that important stuff. That was when I was 13. Then I got the talk again just about two months ago again when I became single again after over two years. My mom knew I was sexually active, but then when I becamse single, she told me that if I was gonna have a sexual encounter with anyone, that I had to make sure and card them to make sure they aren't underage
How old were you? 13, 19
Who did you talk with? my mother

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Old May 4th, 2017, 11:46 AM   #19
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So i was wondering has anyone talked about puberty or sexuality with a family member?
How old were you?
Who did you talk with?
When I was about 10 or 11 my dad kind of went over it simply then about 12/13 that's when my dad basically told me everything in explicit detail. He gave me advice tips pointers really explained sex and he told me I should start watching porn around that age I wasn't really but that soon changed
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Old May 4th, 2017, 03:00 PM   #20
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Nope and besides, I figured it out way before the "proper" age so i didnt really need the talk
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