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Old June 3rd, 2016, 03:42 PM   #1
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It was a Friday night ,we all went out for camping so my twin bro went to his frnds tent so i was asleep suddenly him nd his best frnd entered just to check on me then my bro went out so out or dizziness i was completely down so my bros bff pulled my underwear off nd undressed himself nd forced himself on me(you might ask why didn't i ward him off? Cuz i was handcuffed) and had sex with me . Was dat rape? And i really want to tell my twin about dis hw do i do dat without breaking their friendship?

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Old June 3rd, 2016, 03:45 PM   #2
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It was a Friday night ,we all went out for camping so my twin bro went to his frnds tent so i was asleep suddenly him nd his best frnd entered just to check on me then my bro went out so out or dizziness i was completely down so my bros bff pulled my underwear off nd undressed himself nd forced himself on me(you might ask why didn't i ward him off? Cuz i was handcuffed) and had sex with me . Was dat rape? And i really want to tell my twin about dis hw do i do dat without breaking their friendship?
If you did not give consent, or were not in a state to give consent, it is rape. Their friendship should be broken if he is a rapist.

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Old June 3rd, 2016, 03:49 PM   #3
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I would say it depends on if you enjoyed it or not. If you really didn't want him to do it you probably would have said something to him. I wouldn't say anything to your brother I would probably say something to the guy that did it
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Old June 3rd, 2016, 06:31 PM   #4
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What started with the cufflinks? Were they forced
put on u-or did u ok them? If u were overpowered
and u did not ok anything-it was rape. I would not
talk to ur Bros friend but would tell ur Bro what
happened that night-let him b the judge.
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Old June 3rd, 2016, 08:15 PM   #5
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if you didn't give consent it is rape and why were you handcuffed ? yes I would tell your brother and at 15 you should tell your parents . maybe even the police this time it was a guy 15 next time who knows he needs to get some help .
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Old June 4th, 2016, 05:22 AM   #7
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Yes, if it was without consent then it's rape. If you feel like telling your twin, or an adult you trust, I think you should go ahead.
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Old June 4th, 2016, 05:27 AM   #8
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This is difficult to respond as there seems to be many missing details. Were drugs/alcohol involved? Why were you handcuffed? Did you tell him to stop? Did you cry out in pain? Were you enjoying what was happening while it happened? I don't know, maybe you were raped, maybe not.

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Old June 4th, 2016, 02:43 PM   #9
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I'm sorry, this doesn't sound real coherent.

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I'm sorry, this doesn't sound real coherent.

I agree

There's a lot to this really. Sexual abuse is a big deal, trust me, I no
But you should really consider some things, did you give consent?
If no, it's rape
Did you say no?
If yes, it's rape
Were you willingly handcuffed?
If no, then that's illegal to I just don't know what to call it right now
Was your bro in on it?
If yes, then he's a part of it
Did you like it?
If you did, does NOT mean it's NOT rape, because it still could

I'd give some of that a chewing and spit it back out at us ok?

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I would say it depends on if you enjoyed it or not. If you really didn't want him to do it you probably would have said something to him. I wouldn't say anything to your brother I would probably say something to the guy that did it
Just because you enjoyed someone sexually stimulating you, does not mean you welcomed it, and CAN in fact, DOES constitute rape, if you did not consent, and not want it done. Enjoying it, and wanting it and welcoming it, are all not the same and interchangeable

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I would say it depends on if you enjoyed it or not. If you really didn't want him to do it you probably would have said something to him. I wouldn't say anything to your brother I would probably say something to the guy that did it
Lol even if he enjoyed it it would still be considered rape. His brother's friend "forced" himself meaning he didnt give consent that is rape.

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It was a Friday night ,we all went out for camping so my twin bro went to his frnds tent so i was asleep suddenly him nd his best frnd entered just to check on me then my bro went out so out or dizziness i was completely down so my bros bff pulled my underwear off nd undressed himself nd forced himself on me(you might ask why didn't i ward him off? Cuz i was handcuffed) and had sex with me . Was dat rape? And i really want to tell my twin about dis hw do i do dat without breaking their friendship?
I suggest you talk to your brothers friend and ask why he did that. I'd also suggest you talking to an adult or your brother. Your brothers friend will get into alot of trouble for doing that to you so think about your actions and how you want to approach things.


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Old June 4th, 2016, 06:23 PM   #12
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I suggest you talk to your brothers friend and ask why he did that. I'd also suggest you talking to an adult or your brother. Your brothers friend will get into alot of trouble for doing that to you so think about your actions and how you want to approach things.

Well, if this was rape, tbh, I'm not so sure him confronting his abuser is all that a great idea. Even talking to his brother, I'd say he might of even been a part of it

If he's guna tell someone about this irl, which he should in my opinion (regardless of how he feels about it) should be A trusting adult
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Old June 4th, 2016, 09:42 PM   #13
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Honestly how this post was written, makes me think its just a joke (the post, not the alleged incident, and like. @Billy said, MANY missing details)and trying to get noticed here on VT. However, if it's legit, yes it is rape and whoever did it should be punished by law and you would need to get help, and get tested for any diseases.




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Well, if this was rape, tbh, I'm not so sure him confronting his abuser is all that a great idea. Even talking to his brother, I'd say he might of even been a part of it

If he's guna tell someone about this irl, which he should in my opinion (regardless of how he feels about it) should be A trusting adult
I guess you are right and tbh I have trouble telling adults about my problems and I can see why hes hesitant about telling people he was raped after all it is a horrid experience.


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Old June 4th, 2016, 09:46 PM   #15
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Honestly how this post was written, makes me think its just a joke (the post, not the alleged incident, and like. @Billy said, MANY missing details)and trying to get noticed here on VT. However, if it's legit, yes it is rape and whoever did it should be punished by law and you would need to get help, and get tested for any diseases.
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I guess you are right and tbh I have trouble telling adults about my problems and I can see why hes hesitant about telling people he was raped after all it is a horrid experience.
Absolutely, from experience, it is, very difficult to talk about, but it does good, if it's tue
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l'll be blunt and approach this post in two ways:

1. Serious context : This was no doubt rape.

2. Skeptical context : This looks like storytelling to me because of the way the post was written and lack of details.
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If you did not give consent, or were not in a state to give consent, it is rape. Their friendship should be broken if he is a rapist.
Consent is the main word here, if you were in no position or did not give any then it was against your will, especially if you were incapacitated. Your brother needs to be made aware of what transpired and he should end the friendship.

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I would say it depends on if you enjoyed it or not. If you really didn't want him to do it you probably would have said something to him.
I feel it should be emphasised that this is entirely irrelevant as to whether or not it was rape. Submission does not entail consent and this has been recognised in the law for decades (re: R v Olugboja [1982] for the British and Irish authority).

If you didn't consent, it was rape.

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