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View Poll Results: What am I baby or adult?
Yes - you are a baby and need to grow up 1 25.00%
No - you are ok but maybe need to start being more adult like 3 75.00%
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Old December 19th, 2013, 09:57 AM   #1
lewy
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Default Baby or adult? What am I?

I am only writing this because I know people don't know me and can't track it back to me but I need to know. Am I a stupid baby that needs to be controlled or am I an adult being held back?

- I still suck my thumb and no one seems to care, I do it at home but not in public places.
- I still wet the bed at 12 (sorry I lied I said I was 14 because I did not want people to think I am still a kid) and am made to wear protection
- I still have the same teddy bear and take him everywhere in my bag, I get him out say in the toilets if I get bullied or something that upsets me.
- My therapist wants me to use a dummy at night because it helped me when I was little, I have not used it but my parents got one and make me use it (I take it out as soon as they are out of the room)
- I still sleep with the light on and my door is open at night, I am scared of the dark.
- I don't do things other guys do sexually like doing stuff to myself. I don't have that need because the meds I think take it away from me, so there is no urge. And it kind of gross to even think about it so I never would. I have been on medications since I was 8 for nightmares and being really anxiety (spelling?) all the time.

what do you think? Should I accept that I am never going to be treated like an adult unless I stop all of these things? I only just turned 12 so it feels like that I should be closer to being an adult or I should behave like one which I am not doing.

Lewis

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Old December 19th, 2013, 10:14 AM   #2
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Default Re: Baby or adult? What am I?

Well technically speaking you're still a child till you turn 13 making your a teenager and you're still thought of as a minor till you're 18 so you can't be an adult yet. Now I would listen to your therapist, he's trying to help you overcome this problem.
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Old December 19th, 2013, 01:41 PM   #3
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I am only writing this because I know people don't know me and can't track it back to me but I need to know. Am I a stupid baby that needs to be controlled or am I an adult being held back?

- I still suck my thumb and no one seems to care, I do it at home but not in public places.
- I still wet the bed at 12 (sorry I lied I said I was 14 because I did not want people to think I am still a kid) and am made to wear protection
- I still have the same teddy bear and take him everywhere in my bag, I get him out say in the toilets if I get bullied or something that upsets me.
- My therapist wants me to use a dummy at night because it helped me when I was little, I have not used it but my parents got one and make me use it (I take it out as soon as they are out of the room)
- I still sleep with the light on and my door is open at night, I am scared of the dark.
- I don't do things other guys do sexually like doing stuff to myself. I don't have that need because the meds I think take it away from me, so there is no urge. And it kind of gross to even think about it so I never would. I have been on medications since I was 8 for nightmares and being really anxiety (spelling?) all the time.

what do you think? Should I accept that I am never going to be treated like an adult unless I stop all of these things? I only just turned 12 so it feels like that I should be closer to being an adult or I should behave like one which I am not doing.

Lewis
I wish I can privately message you about this. I really do. But I do know some people who are called Adult or Teen babies. Completely normal. Not trying to insult you but you might want to look into it.

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Old December 19th, 2013, 02:27 PM   #4
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I am only writing this because I know people don't know me and can't track it back to me but I need to know. Am I a stupid baby that needs to be controlled or am I an adult being held back?

- I still suck my thumb and no one seems to care, I do it at home but not in public places.
- I still wet the bed at 12 (sorry I lied I said I was 14 because I did not want people to think I am still a kid) and am made to wear protection
- I still have the same teddy bear and take him everywhere in my bag, I get him out say in the toilets if I get bullied or something that upsets me.
- My therapist wants me to use a dummy at night because it helped me when I was little, I have not used it but my parents got one and make me use it (I take it out as soon as they are out of the room)
- I still sleep with the light on and my door is open at night, I am scared of the dark.
- I don't do things other guys do sexually like doing stuff to myself. I don't have that need because the meds I think take it away from me, so there is no urge. And it kind of gross to even think about it so I never would. I have been on medications since I was 8 for nightmares and being really anxiety (spelling?) all the time.

what do you think? Should I accept that I am never going to be treated like an adult unless I stop all of these things? I only just turned 12 so it feels like that I should be closer to being an adult or I should behave like one which I am not doing.

Lewis

I think you should own up to who you are. Not being scared of things doesn't make you an adult. It makes you human. Humans are scared of things. Sucking your thumb isn't something you'd normally see in people, but you know, people have habits! Don't feel bad. Not liking sexual tendencies is something I've never seen before, though. Maybe thinking about it would help you. Or not! That is entirely up to you, but, I would suggest to find out yourself.

Regards.
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