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Old September 27th, 2013, 11:24 AM   #1
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I'm a 16 yr old str8 boy. One of my best best friends gave me a handjob once. He has recently come out to me as being gay, and wants me to give him a handjob. What do i do?!
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Old September 27th, 2013, 11:29 AM   #2
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Well if you enjoyed it why not give him a Handjob back?
If you are interested in it why not give him a Handjob back?
If you dont like it tell him thats not your sorta Thing and that you were curious!
But try to remember would you have said yes if he didnt come out as gay?? Cuz if the answer is yes then you should go for it because him beeing gay shouldnt Change a Thing cuz he always was gay
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Old September 27th, 2013, 11:30 AM   #3
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It's really up to you and you shouldn't be influenced into doing something you don't want to. If you do want to do it then thats perfectly normal as many people, including myself, have experimented with other boys and it doesn't make you gay just curious which isn't a bad thing.
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Old September 27th, 2013, 11:33 AM   #4
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Tell him you are straight and that he needs to find a guy that wants to do that to him that is either gay, bi or bi-curious...Just because he gave you one, doesn't mean u owe him one back...if you want to because you are curious as well, go ahead, but not by any pressure of "owing" him anything. Since he is gay, he undoubtedly enjoyed very much giving you pleasure, and while you also enjoyed it, it doesn't mean u owe him "trade"....Friendships are worth much more than a handjob....and if you regret touching him, it will probably mess yours up!
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Old September 27th, 2013, 11:40 AM   #5
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yeah........i mean I have nothing against giving him a handjob, but I want him to understand I don't want it to be a regular occurrence if that makes sense
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Old September 27th, 2013, 12:13 PM   #6
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What did you do back, there's nothing wrong with that, it's just a bit of fun between friends, enjoy experimenting while you can, if you don't want it to be regular then tell him that
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Old September 27th, 2013, 12:22 PM   #7
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I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob
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Old September 27th, 2013, 12:30 PM   #8
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It's a personal choice.
If you want to please him, like he did for you, just do it.
Otherwise, explain to him that's not your thing.
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Old September 27th, 2013, 02:07 PM   #9
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Dont do it if you dont want to , its your choice.

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Old September 27th, 2013, 02:17 PM   #10
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It's your choice. If you want to do it, go for it! But if you feel uncomfortable about it, then just say so. He'll understand. If I were you, I'd take him up on his offer!

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Old September 27th, 2013, 02:55 PM   #11
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You should do what you REALLY want and feel about ...
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Old September 27th, 2013, 03:20 PM   #12
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As I see it you don't have a problem with your friend being a jacking buddy, but you don't want things to go beyond that. If that is the case, then you got to tell your friend directly, like the others have said above, that while your okay with him being gay that when you do sexual stuff together that you both can never be boyfriends. Especially if you plan on having a girlfriend in the near future, then you might want to be careful getting handjobs from friend because there is no way you can continue doing that and have a girlfriend at the same time.

My take is that you enjoy the handjobs like any guy, but you just do not want the emotions that come along with it. If that is the case, then your best bet is to be friends with the guy but not do handjobs especially if he has a crush on you. The fact that your friend is doing handjobs on you means he is interested in you, and if you do not feel the same way back, then you might want to stop doing anything physical with him.
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Old September 27th, 2013, 03:22 PM   #13
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If you want to do it go ahead and do it. If you dont feel comfortable with it, dont do it.

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Old September 27th, 2013, 03:24 PM   #14
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Why not? You enjoyed it the first time!
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Old September 27th, 2013, 03:43 PM   #15
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Its completely up to you, don't be forced into doing anything you don't want to! Do what you feel is right, and enjoy yourself!

Hey, so I'm male, 16, bi (not out), looking for friends etc!Message me if you'd like a chat

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Old September 27th, 2013, 04:03 PM   #16
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I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob
If you're happy to - go for it. Remember you can control how far you want this situation to go
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Old September 27th, 2013, 06:49 PM   #17
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It's a personal choice.
If you want to please him, like he did for you, just do it.
Otherwise, explain to him that's not your thing.
this is pretty good advice....
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Old September 27th, 2013, 09:00 PM   #18
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I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob
You sound confident that you want to try it. It is just experimenting and you have nothing to lose. Maybe he will then want to give you a second one. Have fun.
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Old September 27th, 2013, 09:12 PM   #19
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i agree with TommyTom; if you don't want to do it, just tell him, if you are curious about doing it give it a try

you didn't say if you wanted to do it or not so, maybe you're undecided? I'd give it a try to see how you feel after it, if it wasn't for you then you don't have to go back.



hey, if you're reading this, my name is zachary i'm 17, gay and i live in melbourne australia

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Old September 27th, 2013, 10:47 PM   #20
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I hope you and your best best friend remain friends after he came out being gay, he's going to have a rough road ahead, so give him your support. Since he is your best friend then talk to him regarding your feelings about him masturbating you or both of you masturbating each other. Better to talk than just flatly refuse, he may perceive that as you turning away from him after he came out
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