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Old July 31st, 2013, 03:53 AM   #1
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Default Girls, was it worth losing your virginity?

I don't mean any disrespect or anything like that, but I am just concerned. I am a 15 year ild male, and I've considered having it, like a lot of people, but I wouldn't want to ruin the relationship with the girl I do it with. So, I guess what I'm asking is, girls, was it worth losing your virginity, or would you have rather waited? And what would you have done differently? I kniw this isn't an easy topic to talk about, so thank-you in advance to whoever replies.
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Old July 31st, 2013, 05:34 AM   #2
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I have no regrets
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Old July 31st, 2013, 07:18 AM   #3
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not at all...there's been so much time since it has happened it has allowed me to learn and experience all kinds of new and fun things

I've had a lot of ppl ask yes I'm pierced...several in each ear tongue, nipples, belly button, clit hood, and I just got my fourth labia piercing.

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Old August 6th, 2013, 08:08 PM   #4
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First -- I can totally respect that you respect girls to not do it too soon. Second -- regret typically can happen when:

*There's no communication before - during - or after sex
*They don't have discussion on what happens if birth control failed - period is late - or she's pregnant
*Birth control options aren't researched and discussed
*One side has their way and doesn't respect the other one
*There's embarrassment on obtaining control
*No discussion on sexual history is done prior to sex

I too have had NO regrets from doing it so young.
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Old August 6th, 2013, 08:16 PM   #5
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I regret losing mine because it wasn't with the right person, and it was in an awful way. I had liked the guy for a really long time and he'd always treated me kind of awfully, but I liked him so much that I always overlooked it. & He asked me to hang out one day and we ended up having sex in his truck. After that he never messaged me or talked to me again and when I'd try texting him or anything he'd ignore me. He only talked to me again really recently when he saw on Facebook that I lost a bunch of weight and stuff.

It was a really awful experience and I was really ashamed of myself for letting it happen. I think if I would have lost my virginity to somebody I was dating and they treated me like I was actually special instead of someone to hook up with, then I wouldn't regret it. Even if we broke up later down the road, I'd be happy that I lost it to someone that was actually a decent person, and that when I thought of the first time I had sex I could remember something that didn't make me feel disgusting or used.



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Old August 7th, 2013, 06:20 PM   #6
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First -- I can totally respect that you respect girls to not do it too soon. Second -- regret typically can happen when:

*There's no communication before - during - or after sex
*They don't have discussion on what happens if birth control failed - period is late - or she's pregnant
*Birth control options aren't researched and discussed
*One side has their way and doesn't respect the other one
*There's embarrassment on obtaining control
*No discussion on sexual history is done prior to sex

I too have had NO regrets from doing it so young.
Well thank-you for the respect, and when the time is right, I'll make sure to remember that so she won't regret it. Thanks again.

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I regret losing mine because it wasn't with the right person, and it was in an awful way. I had liked the guy for a really long time and he'd always treated me kind of awfully, but I liked him so much that I always overlooked it. & He asked me to hang out one day and we ended up having sex in his truck. After that he never messaged me or talked to me again and when I'd try texting him or anything he'd ignore me. He only talked to me again really recently when he saw on Facebook that I lost a bunch of weight and stuff.

It was a really awful experience and I was really ashamed of myself for letting it happen. I think if I would have lost my virginity to somebody I was dating and they treated me like I was actually special instead of someone to hook up with, then I wouldn't regret it. Even if we broke up later down the road, I'd be happy that I lost it to someone that was actually a decent person, and that when I thought of the first time I had sex I could remember something that didn't make me feel disgusting or used.
I'm really sorry that happened. For what it's worth, I don't think you're disgusting. I think the guy that did that is disgusting. I'm sure you didn't like telling this story, but thank-you for telling it.

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Old August 9th, 2013, 09:59 AM   #7
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I think that for girls, I don't mean to speak for us all, it's more about the who and how it happens then the act. If it was a healthy experience with a person we wanted in a way we wanted with care and respect and stuff then most girls don't think of it as a negative. if it ends up to be in an unhealthy way with someone that doesn't show respect then it is thought of after as a negative. Personally I think that starts with in not happening from pressure by a guy and that there is a good amount of communication first. Must my opinion.

I don't regret mine but it wasn't the best experience cause neither one of use knew what we were doing. Haha

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Old August 9th, 2013, 12:21 PM   #8
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Hmmm...I've got a feeling I've posted this somewhere before.

Absolutely definitely NO REGRETS.

I lost mine when I was sixteen and three months old to my then boyfriend who is now my fiancÚ, and who I have lived with for the past six years.

And I certainly couldn't be happier as I will be getting married 13th Sept. 2014

Come what may count your blessings
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Old August 9th, 2013, 12:25 PM   #9
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I don't really regret having sex, but I do wish I would have waited. It stresses me out too much.
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Old August 9th, 2013, 12:34 PM   #10
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Been at it for 6 years, and don't have any regrets.

If you have a question, ask me! But be direct with it. I'm brutally honest, so if you "beat around the bush" I may not understand what you are asking.

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Old August 9th, 2013, 12:37 PM   #11
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I regret if cause now I want it all the time and it also was not the right person

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Old August 9th, 2013, 05:22 PM   #12
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I don't regret losing it. I love the guy I lost it to.
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Old August 10th, 2013, 06:34 AM   #13
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I don't belong her but you sit are a gentlemen for respecting the ladies!
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Old August 10th, 2013, 09:16 AM   #14
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I don't belong her but you sit are a gentlemen for respecting the ladies!
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Old August 10th, 2013, 09:23 AM   #15
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I don't really regret having sex, but I do wish I would have waited. It stresses me out too much.
sorry if I'm digging too much here, but may I adk why you wish you would have waited and why it stresses you out?
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Hmmm...I've got a feeling I've posted this somewhere before.

Absolutely definitely NO REGRETS.

I lost mine when I was sixteen and three months old to my then boyfriend who is now my fiancÚ, and who I have lived with for the past six years.

And I certainly couldn't be happier as I will be getting married 13th Sept. 2014
That's what I want. I want to lose it to someone who I think I'm going to be with for the rest of my life, not just some random girl I'm never going to talk to again.
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Old August 11th, 2013, 05:45 AM   #16
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That's what I want. I want to lose it to someone who I think I'm going to be with for the rest of my life, not just some random girl I'm never going to talk to again.
Thank God there are still gentlemen like you in the world.

So few and far between are guys like you Bryce who are not hell bent on seeing how quickly they can get into a girls knickers/panties.

Please, please take your time and continue searching for the girl of your dreams...I can assure you that she is out there somewhere, waiting just for you to find her, and to sweep her off her feet.

Good luck, you so richly deserve it.

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Old August 11th, 2013, 11:51 AM   #17
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I did regret it when I split up with the boy who I lost it to but now I think about it, I'm glad I lost it with him because we were together a long time and he's like a brother to me now.

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Hmmm...I've got a feeling I've posted this somewhere before.

Absolutely definitely NO REGRETS.

I lost mine when I was sixteen and three months old to my then boyfriend who is now my fiancÚ, and who I have lived with for the past six years.

And I certainly couldn't be happier as I will be getting married 13th Sept. 2014
Personally,if you are dating somebody, that how it should ends.
Hopefully you get along well throughout your lives.
Congratulation for your wedding.
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Old August 11th, 2013, 01:17 PM   #19
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I don't really mind although I tend to have second thoughts about a lot of things. But all in all it was a great experience for me.
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Old August 11th, 2013, 03:59 PM   #20
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I'm glad there's virgins by choice, but as for me ----- I dunno. I'm just stuck like this
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