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Old July 24th, 2013, 02:06 AM   #1
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Default Anyone been abused / molested?

I was at one point, it was by another guy to, he was 3 years older. It happened when I was 10, and it was in a room full of 7 people, those 7 people never saw anything. No one found out, they had no idea what was going on. I'm 14 now. I don't stress over what happened, in fact I don't mind. I achieved my first orgasm from it. It was during a movie, and we were in a basement sharing a fouton with a blanket over us. He just kinda in the back, stretch my front. There was a blanket over us. Anyway point being, anyone else gone through a similar experience, or am I alone on it? And experimentation doesn't count.

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Old July 24th, 2013, 02:39 AM   #2
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I don't think it is healthy to look at rape or sexual abuse as an acomplishment you might want to tell someone and go see a therapist, because even if it seems okay there is alot going in your mind and I can almost promise you that the experience you had will someday manifest its self negatively in your life. In addition the guy and the 7 who watched will do it again to someone else (who may not take it as well as you) if they think that there is not punishment for what they did.
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Old July 24th, 2013, 07:00 AM   #3
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I don't think he feels its a great accomplishment, I think he's just looking on the positive side of a terrible experience idk though
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Old July 24th, 2013, 07:36 AM   #4
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Old July 24th, 2013, 08:05 AM   #5
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I don't think it is healthy to look at rape or sexual abuse as an acomplishment you might want to tell someone and go see a therapist, because even if it seems okay there is alot going in your mind and I can almost promise you that the experience you had will someday manifest its self negatively in your life. In addition the guy and the 7 who watched will do it again to someone else (who may not take it as well as you) if they think that there is not punishment for what they did.
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I don't think he feels its a great accomplishment, I think he's just looking on the positive side of a terrible experience idk though
No I don't see it as an accomplishment at all. Swagging has it right. I'm just not brutally traumatized. I just wanna know how often kids are put through that situation. Not all 7 people knew, and they don't know to this day. It was during a movie, and we were sharing a couch and laying down, and he was, behind me, you know. There was a blanket over top. I guess I just knew the guy well. Now looking back, with the things he was saying during it, it was weird. Glad there family is moving across the country.
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Old July 24th, 2013, 08:46 AM   #6
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No I don't see it as an accomplishment at all. Swagging has it right. I'm just not brutally traumatized. I just wanna know how often kids are put through that situation. Not all 7 people knew, and they don't know to this day. It was during a movie, and we were sharing a couch and laying down, and he was, behind me, you know. There was a blanket over top. I guess I just knew the guy well. Now looking back, with the things he was saying during it, it was weird. Glad there family is moving across the country.
So he touched you while you were under a blanket? I've only ever known one other guy who was molested, but he looks back on it as an experience like you do maybe even enjoys it, he was like 17 when it happened and all she did was jump in the tub with him and touch him.

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Old July 24th, 2013, 09:15 AM   #7
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When I was 10 a neighbor boy who was probably 14 used to suck my penis. I had no idea I was being molested. I just knew it felt incredibly good and thought of him as a really cool kid.
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Old July 24th, 2013, 11:21 AM   #8
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My foster sisters boyfriend used to make me watch porn with him when I was 6 and made me touch him and whatnot. I don't remember much about my younger years of 6.5-10 or 11, but i do remember being touched. Not raped, but touched inappropriately.

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Old July 25th, 2013, 09:30 PM   #9
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Glad it wasn't a big deal to you. Maybe because it doesn't happen to you every night it doesn't seem too bad. Hope it doesn't come back and mess up your life later on.
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Old July 30th, 2013, 01:08 AM   #10
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Glad it wasn't a big deal to you. Maybe because it doesn't happen to you every night it doesn't seem too bad. Hope it doesn't come back and mess up your life later on.
I think its just the fact that I knew him really well. We were basically best friends. Also that it never hurt, it felt good. When I look back, he was wrong to do so, but I don't hate him because nothing bad actually came out if it.
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Old July 30th, 2013, 11:17 AM   #11
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When I was younger my neighbor's kid who was a few months older than me would touch me a lot. Not all of the time, but a lot. It still haunts me.

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Old July 30th, 2013, 11:35 AM   #12
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I've been sexually assaulted if that counts.

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Old July 30th, 2013, 01:19 PM   #13
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when I was about 5 1/2 I was molested by a 17 year old neighbor boy.
when I was 10-11 I was at a school for LD. I was molested there by several 15-17 year old boys.

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Old August 5th, 2013, 01:28 AM   #14
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It happened multiple times, for years. It only recently stopped for me.

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Old August 6th, 2013, 09:51 PM   #15
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I have been sexual assaulted.
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Old August 7th, 2013, 12:08 AM   #16
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When I was six. It only happened once, but my innocence was forever lost. I still have flashbacks, I wake up every morning remembering that night. I have nightmares. The thought practically taunts me all day, every day.
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Old August 7th, 2013, 12:22 AM   #17
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When I was 5, my mom has this boyfriend. And she was stuck with him, because she hot pregnant.

Every morning, he would call me out to his back porch and he would molest me. And I didn't understand what it was or what was happening, so I never told. Then when I was six, he raped me. My mom died a few months later, and I never saw him again.
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Old August 7th, 2013, 06:16 PM   #18
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I have not, and I am extremely grateful about that. Not everyone is that fortunate.

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Old August 8th, 2013, 02:03 AM   #19
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A family friend did to me repeatedly for over a year. I was about ten, he was 14. I eventually told my mum and then the drama spread around our family like gossip (which is why I dont tell her anything anymore). I'm not really traumatised by it either, I knew what was going on and he wasn't trying to hurt me or anything. Sometimes I think its the reason why I'm so incredibly dirty minded.
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Old August 10th, 2013, 02:56 PM   #20
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It was actually around two months ago when my dad's friend came over (he's 28 years old). And some other friends. And it coincidentally came out that we need to sleep in the same bed due to lack of numbers of bed (it was quite a big crowd) and it was 3 am when I "accidentally" hugged him. (I tend to hug anything near me) and I just woke when he put his hand on my butt (squishing it and stuff) I didn't react because I was scared. After that he made me lick his nipples and then i just suddenly felt my hands going down to his thing ._. I felt a bit weird at the same time with pleasure ._.


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