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Old June 24th, 2013, 01:16 PM   #1
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My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?
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Old June 24th, 2013, 02:27 PM   #2
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you should wear it..either one could possibly have a disease that you dont know about. Even if you are a virgin. plus there is the whole pregnancy thing too. yes you could use a rhythm method but it is not reliable at all.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 02:36 PM   #3
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My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?
Is she on birth control?
Even if she is you should still wear one for extra protection.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 02:53 PM   #4
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You should really ware one. Tell her of the problems and altercations that can come from not wearing one. I'm sure she'll come around.


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Old June 24th, 2013, 03:17 PM   #5
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Wear one.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 03:20 PM   #6
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Tell her that you aren't ready to ruin your life by being a teenage dad. The withdrawl method doesn't work at all either. Pre cum still has sperm in it ALWAYS.


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Old June 24th, 2013, 03:42 PM   #7
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Pre cum still has sperm n it sometimes.


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Old June 24th, 2013, 03:56 PM   #8
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i was thinking of just breaking up with her.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 03:57 PM   #9
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Wear it. It's not worth the risk. I've had a possible pregnancy scare and it's more stress than you could possibly imagine.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 04:08 PM   #10
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Old June 24th, 2013, 04:38 PM   #11
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Unless you want a baby, I'd say you need at least one form of contraception. The male condom has a 99% success rate, so it's a pretty safe bet. I wouldn't go in naturally otherwise you're likely to end up with a child on the way and, even though condoms don't protect against all of these, just some, an STI if she has one. I'd just tell her that its a lot easier to put up with a condom for however long it will be rather than a child for the rest of your lives.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 06:57 PM   #12
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My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?
if she dose not have any STDs it might be better because if you whare a condom you will most likely have your orgasism inside of her and she has a large precentage of getting pregnate because condoms are not 100% effective and if you cum o lets say on her face she wont have any chance of getting pregnate.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 07:30 PM   #13
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Well, until you guys can come ( no pun intended ) to an agreement on this, it's best to just not have sex. It can wait a little longer, can't it?
Sex isn't really that important.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 08:43 PM   #14
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Then end it. Its one thing if the male doesn't want to wear a condom(Its the norm) but for a female to refuse wearing a condom after you have repeatedly recommended that you should wear it, its not worth it. There shouldn't even be an objection, much less an argument over it.

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Old June 24th, 2013, 09:02 PM   #15
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There's a chance that she can be allergic to latex and it's possible she may think those are the only kinds of condoms. I agree that even if she's using hormonal birth control and you don't trust it alone -- you can turn her down - break up with her - or use a condom. If used correctly and females are aware of the things that can make it ineffective -- hormonal birth control is more effective than a condom. anytime you have sex with or without a condom or other forms of birth control -- you are risking pregnancy.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 09:23 PM   #16
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Really? Everything I've heard says you can get pregnant off pre-cum.
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Old June 24th, 2013, 10:00 PM   #17
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You guys are only dating for 7 months and she wants you to bang her.... damn! Lol anyways, wear a condom dude. Safe sex man. I bet it would feel the sam without condom. Cheers!
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Old June 24th, 2013, 10:09 PM   #18
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Really? Everything I've heard says you can get pregnant off pre-cum.
I was refering to there being sperm in all precum.
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Old June 25th, 2013, 06:15 AM   #19
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you could suggest she uses the pill, that way no pregnancy worries and she gets her way, it's what me and my gf do.
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Old August 10th, 2013, 12:18 PM   #20
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You can't play with such things. You should wear it for sure for many reasons I am sure you already know. Make your gf understand it as well.
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