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Old April 3rd, 2013, 01:36 AM   #1
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Well I had a sleepover with a friend which I was already nervous about cuz of the things I've heard happen but I got reassured that that kinda stuff isn't as common as it sounds.

But anyway... we got to going to sleep and I was obviously really horny and needed to want so I told him I was gonna do it. He said "it would be cool to watch to see if we did it the same", but I was like no that's too far.

After I'd finished and I was trying to sleep he told me he was gay and really wanted to experiment. He said he doesn't fancy me but seeing as we are best friends he would like to do stuff.

Problem is I'm not sure how I feel about this....
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Old April 3rd, 2013, 01:41 AM   #2
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Well only do what you are most comfortable with. You shouldn't ever feel forced to do something like this. If you don't want to do it then explain to your friend that you just don't want to and that it is too far for you. He should understand.


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Old April 3rd, 2013, 02:06 AM   #3
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Well I had a sleepover with a friend which I was already nervous about cuz of the things I've heard happen but I got reassured that that kinda stuff isn't as common as it sounds.

But anyway... we got to going to sleep and I was obviously really horny and needed to want so I told him I was gonna do it. He said "it would be cool to watch to see if we did it the same", but I was like no that's too far.

After I'd finished and I was trying to sleep he told me he was gay and really wanted to experiment. He said he doesn't fancy me but seeing as we are best friends he would like to do stuff.

Problem is I'm not sure how I feel about this....
:/
I don't think you should do anything you are not comfortable with. I don't really think I'm right to be answering this as I go to a boarding school and we see each other naked everyday. But i don't see what's wrong with him seeing you nude, I mean we are all guys and we are all the same
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Old April 3rd, 2013, 11:21 AM   #4
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you should have thought this through before wanking then really but do not do anything you feel uncomfortable with and be careful of starting something you dont want to stop.
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Old April 3rd, 2013, 01:18 PM   #5
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If you don't want to, don't do it.. You probably should have thought about opening it up in conversation though.

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Old April 3rd, 2013, 01:47 PM   #6
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If your uncomfortable with it then I'd suggest not doing it as you might come to regret it afterwards.



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Old April 3rd, 2013, 02:11 PM   #7
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Only do something if you're comfortable with it. It's not like he can make you do anything. He should understand how you feel and if he doesn't then he wasn't a real friend in the first place
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Old April 3rd, 2013, 02:38 PM   #8
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Well, it never hurts to try, see if you like it, he probably would since you said hes gay, and if you don't like it, just talk to him and explain how you feel.

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Old April 3rd, 2013, 03:09 PM   #9
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Old April 3rd, 2013, 03:13 PM   #10
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i say do what you feel comfortable and don't do anything that might hinder that!


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Old April 3rd, 2013, 06:40 PM   #11
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dont do it if you really dont want to do anything at all.
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Old April 5th, 2013, 11:09 AM   #12
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Do what you want to, but I think you can regret that you didn't do that. Maybe after that you will get closer with him?

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Old April 6th, 2013, 03:18 PM   #13
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Id give it a try...I do it with friends all the time...its just in fun, and a good way to learn together.
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Old April 6th, 2013, 04:43 PM   #14
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Problem is I'm not sure how I feel about this....
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You should try,I mean you wont lose anything,you will just win.If you dont like it,just don't do it again.

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Old April 6th, 2013, 04:49 PM   #15
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Try but don't force yourself
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Old April 6th, 2013, 04:49 PM   #16
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If you want to, it's fine. If you don't want to, it's fine. Bottom line is do what you're comfortable doing. Turns out wanting to experiment is more common than some people believe, huh?

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Old April 7th, 2013, 12:10 PM   #17
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NO!! youre uncomfortable and you should only do it when youre more then sure that you want to
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Old April 7th, 2013, 07:46 PM   #18
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Im bi i experiment all the time with my friends its good fun, strenghtens friendship and most guys do it and are striaght, it just depends how you feel about it but just go for it and see.
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Old April 7th, 2013, 11:33 PM   #19
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Well, he was up front and honest. Sounds like.u kinda wanna try it too. If its comfortable for you, go for it.....
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Old April 8th, 2013, 12:47 AM   #20
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I agree with everything already said but I'll tell you this i was in the same situation as you are and i decided why the heck not so i did and it was amazing and it brought closer together as friends we experiment with each other now every time I go over and i love it
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