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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:07 AM   #1
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Hey Guys!

I am new to this forum and I've got a really important question to ask... Look
yesterday my cousin came over to my house( He is currently 12 and a half years old) and he knos all about.. Yeah sex and stuff like that, he even jerks off, I can tell... He and his friends usually talk about those kinda stuff and he tells me pretty much everything they say... You know, we've got a strong bond and like each other, as cousins of course :S... Now to the actual "problem"....
He wants to look at >Site Name Removed>~Skyfall:/.... With me?! I really do not know what to say to him, like yeah I don't mind watchin' some porn with him but what if he starts jerkin'? Is it ok? Perhaps I should reconsider watching it with him? Please answer, cuz I think he thinks im gonna show him tonight ://///

What should I do?

P.S Hehe I have actually been here for quite a while now.... Just been stalking around without posting much, until I found myself int this "sticky" situation ...

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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:13 AM   #2
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Well if you want to, go ahead and show him.
If he starts jerking off, tell him that's not appropriate to do around you and that it makes you uncomfortable.
Tell him to just do that in private by himself, not around anyone else.
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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:24 AM   #3
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Well if it isn't comfortable to you so say no. If you dont care to watch with him but you dont want to him to masturbate around you so say now if he starts. you can always say no and stop it, just explain him why it is wrong.
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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:30 AM   #4
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Nobody here can help you rly,it is about what you feel ,you didn't make him do anything,if he wants to do it,and you are ok with it ,do it....i did too with my causin i am str8 he is str8 ,and it wasn't stupid ,he wanted i was ok with it ,that's all....Plus if you haven't alrdy jerked off with someone,this could be great chance to try something new.And i think this might mean to your lil cousine ,cause he is probably curious about how "older" boys do it ,so if you ask me,lock the doors and enjoy tonight
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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:47 AM   #5
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Ok, Iv'e decided I might show him some stuff.... I hope it all goes well I guess
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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:55 AM   #6
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Be very careful.



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Old November 24th, 2012, 09:57 AM   #7
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Yeah I Know... I'll just show him a little bit... But no more than that I guess... Haha I can't believe im still afraid that he'll start jerkin' and i dont wanna "hurt" his feelings by telling him not to continue doing whatever he'll be doing... Seriously what the actual fk am i going to do? Just let him or not let him continue?
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Old November 24th, 2012, 01:34 PM   #8
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Well, Here is the problem.
If you are 18 years of age, and he is 12 years of age, You can come into legal issues if someone catches you.
Technically, (I think) if you are 18 years of age, adult age, and you j/o or have sexual intercourse with a 12 year old boy, and his legal guardians catch you.
His legal guardians may not like that and may sue you for rape/pedophile acts (Don't know the charge there) or other things. You could be in a **it ton of trouble.

The finale decision is your's on weather or not you do it, but if you do, make sure that there is no chance you two can be caught. That's just what I would do.


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Old November 24th, 2012, 01:58 PM   #9
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You should show him how to masturbate only IF you feel comfortable with doing it, if you're not comfortable with it, don't teach him, it is YOUR decision. At that age he should be starting puberty so he is curious and wants to be taught on how to do it like most other 12 year olds
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Old November 24th, 2012, 02:31 PM   #10
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Distance yourself and say no
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Old November 24th, 2012, 04:45 PM   #11
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Well, Here is the problem.
If you are 18 years of age, and he is 12 years of age, You can come into legal issues if someone catches you.
Technically, (I think) if you are 18 years of age, adult age, and you j/o or have sexual intercourse with a 12 year old boy, and his legal guardians catch you.
His legal guardians may not like that and may sue you for rape/pedophile acts (Don't know the charge there) or other things. You could be in a **it ton of trouble.

The finale decision is your's on weather or not you do it, but if you do, make sure that there is no chance you two can be caught. That's just what I would do.
This is probobly something stupidest i ever readed,We are not talking here about boy he picked up in the street ,and took in froce to his room,and made him do what ever....it is his cousin....so rly ...
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Old November 24th, 2012, 05:04 PM   #12
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Steven_123.. You be scary o.O, he's my cousin, that's all ^^. And im still thinking about showing him... And for the sake of god, I would NEVER even dare to think about doing something TO him.. That's just plain wrong and I don't even wanna talk about those kinda stuff.. Its just creepy.
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Old November 24th, 2012, 05:12 PM   #13
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Dude just relax,just let it go it's way,and you go till you are ok with the situation,he is still younger and you can always say stop ,you got some kind of authority over him
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Old November 24th, 2012, 05:13 PM   #14
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Honestly, you are fine watching porn with him. If he does start to jack off don't stop him, but don't encourage him to start/stop. Let it happen the way he's comfortable too. But if you do choose to jack off with him, draw a line or stopping point. Wether it be just jacking off to hand jobs etc. make sure you set a line for your self so it won't lead to anything f major. Keep in mind you are 18 he's 12z


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Old November 24th, 2012, 05:17 PM   #15
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Steven_123.. You be scary o.O, he's my cousin, that's all ^^. And im still thinking about showing him... And for the sake of god, I would NEVER even dare to think about doing something TO him.. That's just plain wrong and I don't even wanna talk about those kinda stuff.. Its just creepy.
BWAHAHA!!! That was funny. Sorry Though. I didn't mean to scare you
I know you wouldn't do something like that, I was just warning you. I am sincerely sorry. I only wanted you to know what could happen.


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Distance yourself and say no
Totally agree. It's also illegal as someone else already pointed out. Look it up. Here it would be "Causing a child to watch a sexual act" dunno what country you are from so it might be different. Doesn't matter that he wanted to. Law says he is not old enough to consent. If he tells his parents or tells people at school who tell their parents/teachers or whoever you could end up in trouble. It's not worth it. If he wants to watch porn then he can, on his own or with friends his own age.
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This is one of those moments where you'd have to think "Will this make things awkward later?". That what i'd think. You might also get into some legal trouble if he's not trustworthy. Give it a good thought before you act on it.

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Well, Here is the problem.
If you are 18 years of age, and he is 12 years of age, You can come into legal issues if someone catches you.
Technically, (I think) if you are 18 years of age, adult age, and you j/o or have sexual intercourse with a 12 year old boy, and his legal guardians catch you.
His legal guardians may not like that and may sue you for rape/pedophile acts (Don't know the charge there) or other things. You could be in a **it ton of trouble.

The finale decision is your's on weather or not you do it, but if you do, make sure that there is no chance you two can be caught. That's just what I would do.
It's not illegal if there's no touching or video (or photo) recording taking place. But I do agree with the final statement.

P.S. not calling anyone out on incorrect information, just helping to educate.
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Old November 24th, 2012, 08:13 PM   #19
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It's not illegal if there's no touching or video (or photo) recording taking place. But I do agree with the final statement.

P.S. not calling anyone out on incorrect information, just helping to educate.
Oh, Alright. Lol, Thanks


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I don't know if I would science you are 18
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