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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:11 AM   #1
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my cousin always wants me to show him my dick i showed him once because he has just started puberty and was curious and that was fine but now everytime i go over he asks to see it. i say no but he keeps bugging me about it unitl i give in
what should i do?

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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:53 AM   #2
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dude i have a cousin like that but i he asks if he can touch it and see it but i say no...but to me i don't see any thing wrong with letting him see your dick, .... since i have to go to his house every week (at least)....well i tell him see it 1 a month but some times i let him see my dick more than once a month...but if u feel that its wrong then don't.....i only show him my dick because his mom and dad want me to teach him about sex and puberty...i mean i had to get naked to show what were a the body party are and i walk around him naked so he will get used to the male body when he has to take showers , ui have to tae a shower with and all...so i kinda have to so i teach him every thing visually...but if your cousin just wants no see it i say its up 2 u .....me i would but a limit......1 a month
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Old September 24th, 2007, 08:26 AM   #3
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!EDIT!(I agree with Anthony's below post)!EDIT!

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Old September 24th, 2007, 08:53 AM   #4
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No...

I highly recommend that you do NOT take dope's advice. Also, dope it is not necessary to teach someone "visually." Practically all of us learn perfectly fine on our own or a verbal explanation. If he still didn't get it you can always point him to puberty101.com/jackinworld.com Showing someone how is completely inappropriate.

Jack, you should not do something you aren't comfortable with and you have every right to feel uncomfortable as most people would. As you can probably figure out allowing it once led to this happening repeatedly. Hopefully you can take that as a lesson in the future not to allow it "just once."

Now you need to be firm about this. When he asks you need to firmly tell him that you will not and that it is not open for discussion and that this will not be happening anymore. If he asks why or says oh come on let me see, tell him no you will not and that it's not open for discussion.

He's younger and doesn't have quite much maturity but that should get the point across. Just be firm about it.
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Old September 24th, 2007, 02:38 PM   #5
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No...

I highly recommend that you do NOT take dope's advice. Also, dope it is not necessary to teach someone "visually." Practically all of us learn perfectly fine on our own or a verbal explanation. If he still didn't get it you can always point him to puberty101.com/jackinworld.com Showing someone how is completely inappropriate.

Jack, you should not do something you aren't comfortable with and you have every right to feel uncomfortable as most people would. As you can probably figure out allowing it once led to this happening repeatedly. Hopefully you can take that as a lesson in the future not to allow it "just once."

Now you need to be firm about this. When he asks you need to firmly tell him that you will not and that it is not open for discussion and that this will not be happening anymore. If he asks why or says oh come on let me see, tell him no you will not and that it's not open for discussion.

He's younger and doesn't have quite much maturity but that should get the point across. Just be firm about it.

Yer, if YOU don't feel comfortable, DONT DO IT!

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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:25 PM   #6
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My cousin wanted me to, So I did. And then he tell on me! How sick is that!

I was 9 he was 6!
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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:35 PM   #7
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I would show him, but I guess it depends how much of an age difference. I have a few older male cousins and i wish they would have taught me about sex and stuff, because my parents never really did, but that's just me
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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:47 PM   #8
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Note that many people who may/have posted in this thread and said they would show him are thinking with their dicks and hormones not rationally thinking the consequences of that kind of behavior. I would take what they say with a grain of salt. You do not want to continue this. It needs to stop.
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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:54 PM   #9
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Well, you showed it to him once, he saw it, i doubt it's changed that much, he must know that, too. So, there's something else going on for him, showing it again isn't likely to help him much. And I agree that in life, if someone asks you to do something that's just not comfortable for you, regardless who they are, you should follow your own heart and say no.

However, since he's a relative and you like him, instead of exposing yourself needlessly to him, why not ask him what''s on his mind and why he wants to keep seeing your penis? Don't sound defensive or accusatory, and he might just tell you what's bothering him. Then, you can use your experiece being older to help him out by talking with him about whatever that is.
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Old September 24th, 2007, 03:57 PM   #10
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i agree with sam
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Old September 24th, 2007, 04:19 PM   #11
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no its my dick, and my dick does what i tells it to and it aint showing unless i have 2 (or want 2 lol)

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Old September 24th, 2007, 08:20 PM   #12
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when i was between 8-11 (i forget when) i masturbated with my cousin, he was about 4 years older, and it only happened once, and nothing has gotten wierd, i was so young i dont even remember it. i think if you want to, and it will only happen once, then you are fine
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Old September 24th, 2007, 09:45 PM   #13
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my couisn dos the same thing. wen eva he comes ova he watches porn. he always jackin off n tells me 2 but i dont. plus he always showin me his dik n want 2 compare to mine cuz we are 3 weeks age difference. do u thinks that wierd or should i show him.
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Old September 24th, 2007, 09:51 PM   #14
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I think thats wrong, and you shouldnt. You should ask him to stop. that is 100% Innapropriate.
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Old September 25th, 2007, 03:18 AM   #15
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if you comfortable with it PrLatino93

im 14
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Old September 25th, 2007, 03:30 PM   #16
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i hav a cousin that also always wants to see and touch my penis. He is younger, so he doesn't know much. sometimes i give in and let hi see it. when we are naked at the same time( like if we are changing clothes) he wants to touch it. i mostly dont let him, but he's got to learn what a penis is some time, so i let him once and a while. thats just cuz i'm comfortable with it. if ur not, by all means dont. but if you dont mind, go for it. hes probably just eager to learn about that stuff and looks up to u.
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Old September 25th, 2007, 03:54 PM   #17
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but he's got to learn what a penis is some time,
If your cousin is a "he" then he knows what a penis is because he has one of his own. That's such a stupid reason to expose yourself to a little kid.
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Old June 3rd, 2008, 08:20 PM   #18
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Bad consequences could result from this. I suggest not showing your penis to him anymore.

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Old June 3rd, 2008, 08:41 PM   #19
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