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Old June 15th, 2012, 05:27 PM   #1
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Alright, so my question relates to sexual intercourse before puberty.

When a pre-pubescent girl (I.E.- a 13 year old who still hasn't menstruated) has sex with an older boy (who is pubescent, but still close in age by a few years), what are the possible reciprocations???

Can this cause psychological damage even if it was consensual sex??? Also, assuming there was little to no physical damage, what about hormonal effects??? (I'm asking about this because I know that sex releases certain hormones in our bodies, and was wondering if it could possibly disrupt our growth and development to have sex at an early age.)

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Old June 15th, 2012, 07:24 PM   #2
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I doubt that it would cause damage as long as it was totally concensual and he wasn't too big for her.
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Old June 15th, 2012, 08:33 PM   #3
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They are not mentally, physically, or emotionally ready to have sex yet so i will suggest waiting untill you are ready so i suggest waiting till after 16 since it seems that the girl is starting puberty late
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Old June 15th, 2012, 08:36 PM   #4
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Yes, it could definitely cause psychological damage, even if it was consensual. As for the hormonal issue, I highly doubt it. The hormones released during sex don't remain in the bloodstream long enough to have a lasting effect on growth and development.

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Old June 16th, 2012, 07:01 AM   #5
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A 13 year old girl should not be having sex at all. Masturbation is safe enough.
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Old June 16th, 2012, 07:52 AM   #6
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I doubt that it would cause damage as long as it was totally concensual and he wasn't too big for her.
Even if it's consensual doesn't mean that harm can't be done, and it doesn't really matter what size his penis is, a penis is a penis.

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Well assuming the girl hasn't started her period, she won't get pregnant so that's a positive thing, not that there is much positive in the scenario. The only real problems that'll be caused is the psychological damage as well as emotional. No one at that age really knows the consequences of their actions and so when they are in a relationship, they'll probably remember what happened years ago. It disturb or disrupt growth or anything like that, the hormone won't affect anything. You can still get an sti/std if protection isn't used, which is the other problem associated with sex regardless of puberty.


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Old August 13th, 2012, 01:14 AM   #7
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Everyone is different - some may be fine, others ruined.
In general that's just too young, I don't care if your boyfriend is the prophet Mohammed - you shouldn't do it with a prepubescant
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Old August 14th, 2012, 11:52 AM   #8
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Even if it's consensual doesn't mean that harm can't be done, and it doesn't really matter what size his penis is, a penis is a penis.

Back to the original question;

Well assuming the girl hasn't started her period, she won't get pregnant so that's a positive thing, not that there is much positive in the scenario. The only real problems that'll be caused is the psychological damage as well as emotional. No one at that age really knows the consequences of their actions and so when they are in a relationship, they'll probably remember what happened years ago. It disturb or disrupt growth or anything like that, the hormone won't affect anything. You can still get an sti/std if protection isn't used, which is the other problem associated with sex regardless of puberty.
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Old August 14th, 2012, 01:05 PM   #9
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Everyone is different - some may be fine, others ruined.
In general that's just too young, I don't care if your boyfriend is the prophet Mohammed - you shouldn't do it with a prepubescant
Agreed everyone is different so it depends on the people
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Old August 14th, 2012, 01:14 PM   #10
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there's risk in every action.

obv. having sex before puberty is prolly a bad idea for the reasons others have said.
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Old August 14th, 2012, 01:34 PM   #11
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Well i agree with everybody but also it depends on the people.
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Old August 14th, 2012, 08:59 PM   #12
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She'll most likely be disappointed for the rest of her life wishing she waited or when she meets the perfect guy she'd wish she saved herself for him.

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Old September 10th, 2012, 03:01 PM   #13
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I doubt that it would cause damage as long as it was totally concensual and he wasn't too big for her.
i'm going to have to disagree. it can actually cause a lot of mental distress to a girl if she has sex before puberty. my brother actually got in alot of trouble because he and his girlfriend at the time were both underage when they had sex, and she ended up having a mental breakdown and became suicidal because of the incident.
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Old September 17th, 2012, 06:26 PM   #14
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I doubt that it would cause damage as long as it was totally concensual and he wasn't too big for her.
i agree
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Old October 27th, 2012, 09:54 AM   #15
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whats the rush, the world isn't likely to end if she doesn't wait a bit

I liked that prophet mohammed comment - as a middle aged man he had sex with his prepubescent wife (9 year old - they say she had her period and therefore was a woman but it's so doubtful) - it's disgusting that millions of people idolize such a monster
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everyone is different
some are ready some are not
its up to the person
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