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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:36 PM   #1
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I read that a lot do but no one ever says it. Is it common? Society says that only girls can experiment with the same sex and guys only do if they are gay. I have heard that almost every girl has experimented with a girl before , but do guys ever experiment also? How common is it for guys? I read that it was actually more common for guys but I haven't heard about it so I am confused .
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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:40 PM   #2
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guys you talk to in person will do just about anything to convince you that it's not true and that experimenting is disgusting and horrible and gay, but it is true that experimenting among guys is quite common.

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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:48 PM   #3
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It's pretty common with guys too, but most never talk about it. Totally normal to experiment.

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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:48 PM   #4
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guys you talk to in person will do just about anything to convince you that it's not true and that experimenting is disgusting and horrible and gay, but it is true that experimenting among guys is quite common.
But what is so wrong about it that they need to lie?
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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:50 PM   #5
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But what is so wrong about it that they need to lie?
the perception that it's gay and weird.

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Old April 20th, 2012, 08:50 PM   #6
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My best friend is straight, and he and I experiment together. The fact that he knows I am gay may have something to do with it, but I truly believe that if I were straight, he and I would still fool around.

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Old April 20th, 2012, 09:10 PM   #7
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the perception that it's gay and weird.
I guess you are right. I just wonder why that for girls it isn't weird but for guys it is.
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Old April 20th, 2012, 09:15 PM   #8
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In my opinion, where I live girls are always incredibly close. There instantly hugging each other, kissing each other, stuff like that. These are usually ways to trigger experimentation.

As for experimenting with guys, loads of people come on here and ask the same question yes it is common, the majority of us have done it, and nt because it's gay, but because that's something you just did and it has shaped who you are today.
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Old April 20th, 2012, 09:16 PM   #9
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I've never experimented, but it's absolutely totally normal!


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Old April 20th, 2012, 09:28 PM   #10
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In my opinion, where I live girls are always incredibly close. There instantly hugging each other, kissing each other, stuff like that. These are usually ways to trigger experimentation.

As for experimenting with guys, loads of people come on here and ask the same question yes it is common, the majority of us have done it, and nt because it's gay, but because that's something you just did and it has shaped who you are today.
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Old April 20th, 2012, 10:35 PM   #11
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One can say it is common, you wont find people talking about it unless they are talking about it online though. I'm sure if you were with most of your friends when they are alone eventually, sometime, the subject of masturbating will come along and then things would just start "poppen" from there on. I feel as if the older that you get, the more difficult things become for you to experiment. People fall into thinking about trust and if trust is broken then dealing with the ridicule of the people around you even though they probably have done it before.

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Old April 22nd, 2012, 12:51 AM   #12
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Its is very common. Many guys are afraid to admit they want to experiment becase they dontwant to judge, but many really would love to.
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Old April 22nd, 2012, 01:08 AM   #13
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it's very common
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Old April 22nd, 2012, 05:08 PM   #14
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It's ok to I am proud I have
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Old April 22nd, 2012, 07:19 PM   #15
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Ya experimentation is common, most people won't openly talk about it though
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Old April 25th, 2012, 01:03 PM   #16
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I read that a lot do but no one ever says it. Is it common? Society says that only girls can experiment with the same sex and guys only do if they are gay. I have heard that almost every girl has experimented with a girl before , but do guys ever experiment also? How common is it for guys? I read that it was actually more common for guys but I haven't heard about it so I am confused .
I understand where you are coming from. I agree that girls experimenting is more accepted than guys experimenting. I myself really can't comment on the other posts comments stating that guys experimenting with other guys is common. I am sure that it happens more often than someone may think and that it is kept in secret, just because it is more taboo that girls experimenting.
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Old April 25th, 2012, 03:01 PM   #17
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The reason why people don't talk about it is because they are afraid to be judge. -Would you wanna tell people after experimenting with a guy? It's not something that should be talked about in public. Some people talk about it but barely.
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Old April 25th, 2012, 03:10 PM   #18
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It's no problem to experiment with a "trusted" close friend. We all have needs, and some of us choose to act on them, where others dont. It's a normal thing to do, and dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. Just keep it on the "down low" yanno?
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Old April 25th, 2012, 03:12 PM   #19
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It's no problem to experiment with a "trusted" close friend. We all have needs, and some of us choose to act on them, where others dont. It's a normal thing to do, and dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. Just keep it on the "down low" yanno?
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Old April 25th, 2012, 03:39 PM   #20
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its really common among guys to experiment but like they don't admit it because they don't want to be called gay
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