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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:31 PM   #1
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About two and a half weeks ago I was getting head from my ex-girlfriend. (we were together at this point). It was the first time I had gotten head (or hand) from this girl and I wasn't able to cum. It felt really good...but I couldn't get to the point where I was even close. I've heard the term performance anxiety perfomance before but I thought it only applied to not being able to get a boner because you are nervous about sex or head or whatever it is. I have never had a problem cumming before...usually I can have an orgasm in 3-7ish minutes if I want to hurry. So I just wondered if it could be something like performance anxiety. The other possibility is that she was just going too slowly, because I usually go much faster when I masturbate, but even when I go slow I can get myself to cum or at least feel like I am close. So any ideas on why this could have happened?


oh and she was like actually giving me head for a good 10-15 minutes

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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:32 PM   #2
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its probably a combination of her going real slow and you being nervous

thats normal
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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:36 PM   #3
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exactly what Pioneer said. Just tell her to masturbate the part of your dick that she can't fit in your mouth or combine masturbating and oral somehow!

I don't think this is puberty related tho
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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:37 PM   #4
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yea she was just probably too slow or something
guys usually like it fast lol
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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:43 PM   #5
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Thanks, it's probably true. The only odd thing is I've tried going that slow since then and if I'm turned on enough (and believe me, I was when she was giving me head), I can get myself to cum in about 10 minutes or so. So I was just wondering if there is something I can do about like being nervous and not being able to orgasm because I am nervous about whether or not I'll be able to cum. Just wondering cause it seems like it could be a really sucky vicious cycle kind of thing.


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I don't think this is puberty related tho
It didn't strike me as fitting in exactly with this forum section, but it's more a question about my body than about relationships which was the only other viable option I saw. Could someone please sticky it if there is a better place for it?

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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:44 PM   #6
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Oral sex and regular sex are different sensations and is usually a lot slower. It was your first time so you have to get used to the different sensations. Also a lot of guys aren't able to come during oral so I would take Zach's advice:

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combine masturbating and oral somehow!


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It didn't strike me as fitting in exactly with this forum section, but it's more a question about my body than about relationships which was the only other viable option I saw. Could someone please sticky it if there is a better place for it?
It's fine here.
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Old June 27th, 2007, 10:51 PM   #7
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I wasn't aware that a lot of guys can't cum during head. That's comforting. As for the combining thing it's a good idea but we aren't together anymore so I doubt I'm going to need it any time in my near future. Thanks anyway though, and I'll try it next time, whenever that may be, if I still can't cum from just oral.


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Old June 28th, 2007, 10:36 AM   #8
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probabbly
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Old June 28th, 2007, 10:10 PM   #9
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it is the slow thing i think but i havent had one so i dont know.
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Old June 29th, 2007, 09:36 AM   #10
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It could have been related to speed at which she was doing it at, or maybe you were a little nervous still.
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Old June 29th, 2007, 09:46 AM   #11
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Also a lot of guys aren't able to come during oral
I never knew that


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Old June 29th, 2007, 11:34 AM   #12
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I kinda knew that because it sorta didn't make sense as to how, but yeah I agree with what Ant said ^.^
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Old July 6th, 2007, 09:31 PM   #13
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was she like missing your head or doing so it was lyk jacking off but with her mouth if so it was not getting your head proprly wldnt werk .lol
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