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Old December 10th, 2017, 06:54 PM   #1281
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I only started identifying as a bisexual male earlier this year
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Old December 21st, 2017, 12:48 AM   #1282
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i was playing cricket for school and when fielding couldn't stop staring at the batters bum which was sticking towards me
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Old January 7th, 2018, 10:12 PM   #1283
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I can't point to a particular moment or anything like that. It's just that when I started to become attracted to other people, it was always other girls that I was attracted to.
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Old January 10th, 2018, 01:55 PM   #1284
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I got a pretty long story (that i might write in a blog here soon)
But the short version is that i fell in love with a friend at middle school, he still doesn't know (it's been 5 years since my crush started), actually the poem in my signature is kinda directed to him

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Old January 11th, 2018, 02:18 AM   #1285
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i always knew and my parents never treated same sex attraction different from opposite sex attraction. like they'd always say 'boyfriend or girlfriend' when takling about my future

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Old January 25th, 2018, 07:45 PM   #1286
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Well Iíve always had a thing for guys, but only till not so long ago I decided to let others know as I wasnít 100% sure.
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Old February 8th, 2018, 05:36 AM   #1287
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I couldn't deny it any longer when I crushed HARD on another girl. (bisexual btw).
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Old February 27th, 2018, 04:44 PM   #1288
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Meh Iíve always been gay when I only realised when I was 12 or 13 at the start of puberty. So Iíve always been 100% sure I was sexually attracted to Men.
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Old April 2nd, 2018, 03:52 PM   #1289
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I donít know to Iím super confused I donít know what I like.
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Old April 8th, 2018, 08:13 AM   #1290
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I first dated a girl for 2 months in fourth grade and I though I only liked girls. Then in fifth grade, I frequently experimented with my first cousin once removed and I realized I didn't mind either as long as they were clean. Now, I'm bi. There's nothing wrong with doing so.

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Old April 11th, 2018, 04:52 PM   #1291
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I was a junior when I found out I was bisexual
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Old April 12th, 2018, 01:17 AM   #1292
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i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!!
I found out I was interested in guys when I was still in fifth grade. And started trying things with my friends in the neighborhood. I think that more or less comes down to your personal preference. Which is based off of what gender your like be sexually active with and romantic with. If it is split 50/50 or even 90/10 your bi. If you just don't really like girls or remotely want to do anything with them in the sexual nature. Then gay. Either way they are both just Label and don't mean anything really. Just society's way of making sense of things by constantly labeling things. Just be proud of who you are. And don't sweat the small stuff.
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Old April 15th, 2018, 04:51 PM   #1293
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I was in year 6 and I remember my friends were talking about girls and I always felt left out so I began to question my self. When I went to secondary school I remember finding girls attractive but I found boys equally attractive and that was when I finally relised that I am bisexual.
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Old April 16th, 2018, 03:52 AM   #1294
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I really used to ask myself if I was gay or bisexual.

Where I'm from, guys hang out with guys and chicks are with chicks. I have always been raised with women, so I always felt like I got along with them better. They're much more subtle and understanding, yet brash when needed to.

I guess there were times when women to me felt obsolete because of how often I would be around them. There were times where I felt like a male was best suited for my standards in relationships.

I never got into depth about it, there were times when I shook it of and considered it a normality.

My family members were (somewhat) unsupportive of homosexuality and made it noticeable in small specks, such as asking me if I like 'the soft hands of a woman or the rough hands of a man'.

Didn't really get into my head much, but definitely made me feel discouraged to be open-minded about my likings. After that, I kind of got over it. I'm into girls and that's really what feels good to me.

I sometimes question my likings for guys. I guess the absence of a dormant figure in my life makes me want to fill that void sometimes. But I think I had to understand that I shouldn't do that in order to suit that, I should love someone out of the passion of who they are.

To be honest, my sexuality is straight, but curiousity knows no bounds. I'm not aroused by penises, even my own seems gross to me. But the raw passion in a relationship is what I like, and I have dated girls before and enjoyed it, but the connection was halfway.

Just have always been naturally more open to guys than girls even though I hang around girls more often. Never understood why.

I am straight, but confusingly straight and having no curiousities other than the questions I ask myself. I don't know man.

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Old May 28th, 2018, 07:54 AM   #1295
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the first inkling was when i realised i had a crush on the boy who bullied me, but he looked all twinky and femmenine so i thought i was into girls? but nope, after experimenting, i knew for sure.

Hey, I'm Viktor, 22, originally russian but live in australia. I'm an open-book, very understanding. Don't be afriad to talk to me.
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Old May 28th, 2018, 08:27 AM   #1296
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I started to realize a few years ago that I was paying more attention to girls that I thought were cute or whatever, than I did to boys. There was always some attraction going on even at around 10 or 11, which got more intense after my periods started. So when I was given permission by mom to start dating, naturally I wanted to go out with girls and that's what I did. Now I'm 15 and after dating for well over a year, I have been out with 5 girls and one boy. I'm very clear on liking the girls more, but not ruling out boys totally (they are fun to hang around with) so I consider myself bisexual at this point. That's subject to rethinking and possibly changing to lesbian as I get older and after dating more people. Right now, I want to make myself attractive to other girls so more of them will ask me for dates, and I'm not very interested in having any new boys ask me out.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 09:36 AM   #1297
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I realised when i had just turned 13 and had a crush on my bff
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Old June 12th, 2018, 12:34 AM   #1298
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I'm definitely not straight because I have the fattest crush on Louis Tomlinson

But I think I first noticed I liked other guys around the same time I liked other girls. I remember not understanding why I thought boys at school were cute; I thought something was wrong with me (and I thought it would go away too). Well it didn't

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Old June 13th, 2018, 02:15 PM   #1299
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When a girl in class hugged me a couple of years ago, and it turned me on, I realized I swing both ways.

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Old August 16th, 2018, 09:30 PM   #1300
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I guess I've kind of always known, other guys were always wank fodder, it wasn't until I was about 15 I fell in love with another guy and realized what it actually meant and how difficult it could make my life. We still haven't ever formally met, but I was an emotional wreck for over a year. As my signature says I'm still trying to figure things out. I'm lonely, don't want kids, not looking for sex or particularly interested in the whole "scene." Just want someone I click with, I care far more about what is in someones head than hanging between their legs.

Sex is nice don't get me wrong, but I'm far more interested in the emotional and romantic aspect of a relationship, and just seeing where the physical goes. This seems to put me at a disadvantage with almost everyone and it's depressing; like I'm obligated to immediately be into hook-ups or something, I don't know. Sorry, I didn't mean to be so lengthy.

I've come out to my mother and a few others, and anyone I trust who asks the right questions. Someone recently said I was a pandemisexual, which makes sense.

New here, so hello everyone.

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