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Old June 14th, 2011, 03:47 AM   #1
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so im 16 and my brother is 13 and we masturbate together on occasion. probably once or twice a month while watching porn. we almost always end up helping eachother but we are both really straight and have girlfriends. if we were to offer while not really into watching porn we would both say no without even thinking but when we get into watching its like our downstairs takes over and just wants help without our own hand. so i have a few questions, is this normal? is this wrong? i feel terrible afterwards, what do i do? why cant i seem to control myself and tell him ill do it alone? and am i secretly gay and dont know it?
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Old June 14th, 2011, 05:12 AM   #2
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is this normal? its normal i know people like you is this wrong? a little bit i feel terrible afterwards, what do i do?when that happens just dont ask him do it alone why cant i seem to control myself and tell him ill do it alone?because your a guy and a chance for a handjob is a chance for a guy and am i secretly gay and dont know it?no many boys are like you, your gay when you wake up with 2 penises in you.
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Old June 14th, 2011, 06:46 AM   #3
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Wrong : Yes, It classifies as incest
Normal : Kinda, experimentation is normal, with your brother, no.
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Old June 14th, 2011, 08:29 AM   #4
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so im 16 and my brother is 13 and we masturbate together on occasion. probably once or twice a month while watching porn. we almost always end up helping eachother but we are both really straight and have girlfriends. if we were to offer while not really into watching porn we would both say no without even thinking but when we get into watching its like our downstairs takes over and just wants help without our own hand. so i have a few questions, is this normal? is this wrong? i feel terrible afterwards, what do i do? why cant i seem to control myself and tell him ill do it alone? and am i secretly gay and dont know it?
It's normal.
You don't need to feel bad about it, it's just something ok to do.. I did it (hand job i mean hh) with my cousin, and that's fine....
I mean - he's your bro.. he's like u... So i think it's just normal
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Old June 14th, 2011, 09:11 AM   #5
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Yer fine just curious but I would only do this with my friends because my little brother is 9.... :/ lol
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Old June 14th, 2011, 09:15 AM   #6
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It's very normal...you experience...don't worry you're not gay
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Old June 14th, 2011, 09:31 AM   #7
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This is a situation with similar questions i seem to see alot around here generally its quite common to here stories of boys doing this so its quite normal. Its just experementation. Ur not gay unless u are sexually and emotionally attracted to guys in general

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Old June 14th, 2011, 04:11 PM   #8
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It's normal for guys to do this but it's kind of wrong to do it with a brother. It doesn't make you guy, it makes you curious because you are experimenting. My advice would be to not do it with your brother, maybe try to find a friend to do it with instead.

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Old June 15th, 2011, 12:55 PM   #9
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Old June 15th, 2011, 02:28 PM   #10
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Ummm I've heard stories of brothers doing stuff like this,I don't find it really normal, I wouldn't call it incest,you aren't having sex.Still though I find it rather odd.

Some people will jack off next their bro,but not really help out.I would stop it just because A:It could led to more stuff
B:It could ruin your relationship with him.

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Old June 16th, 2011, 09:33 AM   #11
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I'd be lying if I said that I didn't think it was wrong or weird (and in some cases I believe illegal? Correct me if I'm wrong) but it's up to yourselves really. If you're both ok with it, it isn't affecting your lives and you aren't awkward then I don't see any real problems. One thing I would warn you about though is that once you become an adult (16, 18 or 21 I don't know about where you are specifically) it becomes a hell of a lot more illegal and I really would stop.

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I hate how people think they are gay by doing this stuff. I hate how society has come to now-a-days. If you and and straight friend do something sexual it doesn't mean your gay. If you develop feelings for him, then maybe your bi or something. But think of it this way. Your straight. Do you think your straight just because you masturbated a girl? Not technically. Your sexual orientation, is having emotional/sexual/and physical attraction towards. So if you don't have all emotional/sexual/or physical attraction, you don't have to question yourself. On this note you not gay. And I think it's fine, just don't go further than what your doing.
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Old June 16th, 2011, 08:33 PM   #13
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I masturbate and help my two brothers too. They are 19 and 14, they masturbate me too. I'm 15 and a girl!
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Old June 16th, 2011, 09:34 PM   #14
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My brother was the one that taught me how to do it, and I think it's ok, and normal. It actually brought us closer together and we still do it once in a while together. I think as long as you both are OK with it, all the power to ya, enjoy it while you can.
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Old June 16th, 2011, 10:54 PM   #15
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im an only child so i have never done his. but i think its k and id probably do this to.

guess im a late bloomer or something but how did this start? and wit friends? i mean i have friends and we hang a lot but never discuss this topic.
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Old July 30th, 2011, 07:38 PM   #16
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I don't think it's an incest or anything. You didn't really have sex, you just masturbate together. And as long as you're both OK with it and perhaps even enjoy in it, I don't think anything's wrong with it.
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well i dont think ur gay.and some of it is ur hormones so try and control it.
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so im 16 and my brother is 13 and we masturbate together on occasion. probably once or twice a month while watching porn. we almost always end up helping eachother but we are both really straight and have girlfriends. if we were to offer while not really into watching porn we would both say no without even thinking but when we get into watching its like our downstairs takes over and just wants help without our own hand. so i have a few questions, is this normal? is this wrong? i feel terrible afterwards, what do i do? why cant i seem to control myself and tell him ill do it alone? and am i secretly gay and dont know it?
Don't worry its totally normal to be curious or experiment with your brother (as long as you don't go too far)

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Ehh. I Guess Its Normal ; Just Don't Do Anything More . . Anything More Would Classify As A Incest.

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Hey man its normal to try it with somone i did it with my older bro he kinda showed me and ive shown my younges bro and glving a HJ is nothing in what alot of guys do

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