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Old Yesterday, 02:05 AM   #1
kyl3m0k
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Default Supposedly "One Year Anniversary" with ex.

I don't know what to do. I don't fucking know anything. Today's driving me crazy if you can tell from the title. I really want to move on from her, but I just can't. Nothing's working. Even though she was the one who left me, and she turned my life into a hellhole, I somehow, for some apparent reason still have feelings for her. Dad's going through Stage 4 cancer and all these feelings are just so overwhelming, I honestly don't know how long I can survive with all this shit. All my close friends are either ignoring me or giving me harsh replies like"she doesn't care anymore about you. Move on" etc. God.. someone, please help.

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Old Yesterday, 03:35 AM   #2
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I think it'll help to not suppress those feelings. Acknowledge them grieve for her, but realize she's just a person, not someone to put on a pedestal and worship.

Use the distance and lack of responsibility of singledom, to meet new people with common interests and get back to dating. Or focus on your father it is a lot to emotionally deal with.
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Old Yesterday, 06:35 AM   #3
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I think it'll help to not suppress those feelings. Acknowledge them grieve for her, but realize she's just a person, not someone to put on a pedestal and worship.

Use the distance and lack of responsibility of singledom, to meet new people with common interests and get back to dating. Or focus on your father it is a lot to emotionally deal with.
Yeah I'll try.. ;/

*sigh* Not one of my friends are here for me. I'm not a social person in real life, and honestly, don't have many friends.. the ones who do know what's going on and who used to help me a lot, just all changed. All of them just don't seem to care at all now, not one of them are here for me, especially on a day like this. I really don't know what to do, and even caught one of them said I was "fucking annoying as hell" behind my back.. fucks sake. What has my world become?..

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Old Yesterday, 09:08 PM   #4
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Default Re: Supposedly "One Year Anniversary" with ex.

well if you've been wallowing in self pity and depression for a really long time....yeah, that can get annoying, even for good friends. You can only try to help someone and give them advice for so long...before it seems to become a fruitless and pointless venture.
You say you have tried to move on from her...what exactly have you tried?

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