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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:01 PM   #1
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Unhappy Lap Dance and asking a girl out afterward...

First of all, if this in the wrong section, I'm sorry. I didn't know where else to put this.

So Friday night I was at this party with a lot of people from school and I was talking to this really hot girl I like from my school. Anyway, after a while she told me she wanted to give me a lap dance. So she yells out in front of everyone that she is gonna give me a lap dance. So she did while everyone was watching. The problem is I got a little too excited. I mean she was grinding pretty hard in my lap, and she was really rubbing up and down on my lap too. I couldn't help it, I got a really hard as hell boner in my jeans and I started to drip pretty bad in my boxers. It was so intense that I came pretty close to cumming in my boxers. It was embarrassing because my boner was really noticeable to everyone. One of the other girls even went up and pounded on my jeans where my boner was.

I mean she (the girl I like who was giving me the lap dance) didn't seem to bothered about me having a boner, but it was just kind of embarrassing because I couldn't control it. It just happened. I mean it was so intense I just couldn't help it. I've never actually gotten a lap dance before, and it just felt so good when she gave me one. But the thing is I'm just embarrassed now because I like her a lot, and she is really hot, but I don't know if she will want anything to do with me now since I got such a big ass boner from a lap dance. I really wanted to have sex with her really bad too afterward, but we didn't. I was too embarrassed from the whole boner thing. I ended up jacking off instead when I got home. I really wish I could have had sex with her though.

Do y'all think this is gonna put her off me? I've talked to her on and off for a while now and I want to ask her out on a date so bad. But maybe I'm over-reacting, but like I said, I'm just concerned she might not want to date me because of what happened with the lap dance. I mean I know she offered me one, but still. Do y'all have any advice as far as lap dances go, like should I not wear boxers next time? Also, should I still ask her out. I really like her a lot. I'm just not sure what to do. I've had sex with a girl before, but I'm pretty shy when it comes to actually asking a girl out. I've been thinking about it a lot, and I can't get this girl off of my mind. I really wanna ask her out but I'm just concerned she's gonna reject me.

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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:05 PM   #2
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Haha that's pretty funny.

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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:06 PM   #3
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Ask her out.
On the bright side. At least she knows you don't have ED.
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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:08 PM   #4
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ha ask her on a date first n go from there
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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:16 PM   #5
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Yeah I prolly should just ask her out. Its just I get really shy around her and nervous and kind of lose my thoughts on what to say, and I ruin it.

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Old May 10th, 2011, 02:37 PM   #6
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Old May 11th, 2011, 08:29 AM   #7
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ha ask her on a date first n go from there
Yeah, that's what I'm gonna do today.

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